How do you feel when girls reply late or ignore your messages?

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fr44c3iqqs · Accepted Answer

Well, it can feel awful, but my suggestion is try again at a different weekday first or look up ways to make the message more meaningful or funny to break the ice, but if she still ignores, then I say stop trying. If she replies late like few days or one week late, it should be no big deal. People have very busy schedule, but if they are interested, they will find a way. If they’re not, they will come up with excuses. You gotta try playing your part to ignite that interest in them, and it may not necessarily be through text message, and will also have to do your own research and look at different cases, but you can’t spend your life or over a year in pursuing that or being persistent with failures, because unlike goals, in this one, it will come off as creepy and stalky-ish. You definitely don’t want to be seen as that, and you don’t want to waste too much unnecessary time on any one person who you can’t seem to spark that interest on who is already not interested or especially has the opposite of interest, especially what you’re doing is causing that person to lose interest or to further deviate away from the interest mode/zone.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

Late is okay, as I am usually late in replying.

ignore, well then they get ignored and forgotten about.

then about a month later I send out a message

“To all, apologies about the mass message, I’ve managed to get tickets to xx event including VIP access, can you let me know ASAP if you can go, transport and accommodation included’

invariably they reply pretty quickly.

I then apologies and say sorry it was not meant for them, I thought had deleted them ages ago.

raw_is_war99 · Answer

I understand people can be busy or miss a message but when something seems deliberate on the girls end it’s just flat out rude. Eventually I’ll give it a few days or few wks and just tell her, hey you must not want to talk to me anymore so I’ll leave you alone and take care and all the best and not say 1 word after that. I guess I repulsed her 🤷🏻‍♂️

RJJ33666 · Answer

Its very very frustrating and really makes you feel bad about yourself. I would really recommend that the girl should be straightforward if she doesn't want to message anymore or they should at least make it clear why they are being late in messaging. at least a person won't overthink it and come to any unnecessary outcomes.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Seriously? How do I feel when women show me that they don't respect me enough to acknowledge me when I say something?

Pj1981 · Answer

I don't usually trip about it cause people are busy sometimes and I don't expect to be the only thing they have to do. That said if I see they have read the message or I see they have been active on Facebook or something I do feel some kind of way about it because I'm obviously just not real important. Some talk to you in their free time, others free their time to talk to you. Learn the difference

weeee · Answer

I just assume theyre busy. But if they dont reply for like a day or something similar id probably assume theyre not interested.

JustinTimberlegs · Answer

If it's uncommon then I assume they're busy. If it happens more often then I assume they are not interested, don't like me, don't care, uncomfortable etc

Effably · Answer

I appreciate the fact every guy answering got ignored. Chance to experience the whole thing. As for me, if I do not feel she's showing interest I lose interest myself too.

Adam1978 · Answer

Sign of no interest or lack of priority , put your focus elsewhere. I don't feel anything particular because this is noticed so early on that you don't have any attachment.

Daydreamer1983 · Answer

It is frustrating and I overthink why she hasn't replied. But I never do the double text thing, don't want to seem creepy or needy.

SomeTrashBag · Answer

When they reply late I reply late, if they ignore my messages I return to the dating app.

SilverRain92 · Answer

I usually stop talking to this girl because it feels bad

_SEBZER_ · Answer

If girl is doing that one time its nothing bad, maybe she is bussy? But if she does it offten i fell just not wanted so i dont text again. Im not a simp.

Seppel · Answer

I hate it and I block them because it's annoying and it makes me hate someone

jogor20 · Answer

That they are not interested in me, simple as that. If it is a game I really to old for that shit.

loveslongnails · Answer

I don't care. It tells me what I need to know if they do.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I “feel” it is time to cease wasting my time and carry on elsewhere.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

I won't feel good but will wait Sometimes I reply myself late due to many reasons like slow internet, busy etc

InferiorElegy · Answer

Used to it, I expect it. Fast replies would confuse me. I also don't text females because no female wants texts from me.

Blaine999 · Answer

Let down, a little annoyed but I usually expect it to happen

SaintZamir · Answer

I hate it a lot. I do reply very fast. And wanna fast replies from girls.

Fuentes · Answer

Could care less they get blocked

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I just won't text them again

justlookin69 · Answer

More than likely, I’ll ghost her.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

I'd just wait and move on

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

It seems like they aren't interested.

REDHOTLINE · Answer

Nothing. I never care her again.

Morado · Answer

It depends who it is.

Open2It · Answer

Well, no one likes to be ignored...

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

not good

Phoenix98 · Answer

Annoyed.

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