Is she playing games and passing time or has developed feelings for me again?

[jonathan1182]

So me and this girl of 14 year age difference were in a relationship last year but she ended the relationship claiming that the age difference would not work out between us. I did not react and accepted her decision respectfully. After like 5 months, she is subtly flirting with me, asking me whether I miss her, and doesn't deny my request of meeting her for lunch.
Is she developing feelings again for me or just playing mind games to seek validation? Please help me out, I don't want to get heart broken again. I just can't simply kick her out of my life as I care for her a lot.

[AmandaYVR]

There is no way that us internet strangers who know neither of you would be able to ascertain this.

But one thing is certain - you can screw up a relationship by being suspicious and never giving the benefit of the doubt.

As much as we try to analyze and interpret others' behaviour, we often give more benefit to ourselves than others, instead judging them with a magnifying glass that we wouldn't point at ourselves.

If you are still interested in her, then you have something to gain here.
You also have something to lose.
Act accordingly.

[melanieeeB]

Ask her. It might be that she just changed her mind and regretted her decision or she just wants your attention, cause of something

[jonathan1182]

Once she said "you are the best thing happened to me", I mean do girls usually say this to a friendzoned guy or to someone more than that

[melanieeeB]

No they usually don't really say that to a friend but here it also depends on the context and what you mean with once.. anyways speculating here won't help you. Talk to her and ask her about her intentions

[jonathan1182]

Thanks for the feedback

[jonathan1182]

By once I meant is when she wished me on my birthday

[jonathan1182]

Also , she sends me her selfies quite frequently, I know many girls do this but none of my other friends who are girls send me their pictures or selfies just randomly.

[melanieeeB]

Again talk to her

[Lonewulf57]

i can relate.

as soon as I have an answer for myself, I'll let you know your answer.

[boggboss]

These are things u need to ask her as the age difference has not changed so

[jonathan1182]

Well here is the thing, the relationship ended last year when I asked her and mentioned the age gap, but now after several months she is acting as if is interested.

[boggboss]

I get that butbi think u will need to talk with her as if the age gap was a problem before it could always be one again

[jonathan1182]

Ur right