Is she playing games or no longer interested?

[Anonymous]

So basically to cut it short, me and my ex were in no contacted for couple months. She’s the one that broke nc and asked me to hangout, we did and everything went great but for some reason when we text she sometimes replies fast then other times she ignores me for a whole day.. should I cut her off before I get too attached

[lightbulb27]

Have this discussion with her. People can be confused and confounded. not like she knows what iw going on either. the roots to the problems are deep... and it's mating season in high season hormonally... ya know? her clock is ticking...

So is she supposed to go back to you or some other and when and how will she ever feel loved and secure?

By the way, not sure htis is common knowledge, but sex makes offspring sometimes. Make offspring with unstable insecure / "crazy" woman and you might be redefining the world "great". Just a thought...

I'd think a lot harder... and talk to more men too...

[diversethought]

Did you have sex when you hooked up? Sounds like you did. Looks like she's moved you into booty-call zone, but she realized you wanted more. She probably doesn't want more. Not now anyways. Play her game by playing your cards. Don't overplay, but try acting bold. Go date someone else.

[bobalife]

I am always the infamous opinion, but I think it is best to communicate with her on what is her intentions and what does she see in the future? But I know in modern dating, we are all playing it very safe and nobody wants to get attach nor hurt. I guess you can go the ghosting way or communication method, but that is up to you to decide if you wanna try again or move on. I don’t think either is wrong, but I just hope you don’t do anything you regret.

[sheikalana]

Yes, you should cut all forms of contact permanently. She's no longer your partner that's why she no longer sees the need to get back to you promptly. There's no point in hanging out with an ex just quietly remove yourself from that situation there's no need for you to justify anything.

[Finchie40]

She’s playing you , kick her ass to the curb where she belongs

[DishLady]

Look... she's your ex for a reason. Just cut ties and move on. Sounds like she's just striking out with other guys and coming back to you when she feels insecure, which you don't deserve.

[Asker]

Exactly what I did but she came back too me

[DishLady]

Ignore her. She seems to be just messing with you.

[Asker]

I’ve been doing that but she constantly stalks my socials, I don’t wanna block her cause then she’ll think she hurt me

[Caroline91]

Only if you don't want a girl who plays games with your heart.

[Maebo44]

She broke it off.. that says enough. She’s leading you on. Find someone worth your time and energy

[ceren27]

I guess a sundress would be okay, but that photo’s too bride like.

[moneymagnet24]

Wth 😂

[dolemite58]

If you have to ask is she playing games then she’s definitely playing games, Move on.

[Anonymous]

You takes long to reply? Did she see the message or not?

[Asker]

Yes I take usually a while to reply like 10hours lol and pretty sure she sees them

[whistlingwh0res]

she probably has some secrets.. she can't tell you about it even if she wants to.

[DrPepper12]

Remember why you split. That should be your guide.

[LaurenM1997]

She’s playing mind games with you

[LaurenM1997]

Honestly don’t fall for that shit cause I stupidly answered my ex and he was playing mind games and also messed up my mental health by doing so

[DreamLife7]

She's not interested.

[Asker]

Yet she’s the one that always stalks all my socials n wants me back..

[DreamLife7]

She's bored. The guy she wants isn't available right now. Once he's available, she won't deal with u. If she wanted you, she would be with you, lol, but she doesn't

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you're one of her toys.

[strateguy632]

2nd.

[Marred0710]

Probably

[In_Trance]

Move on