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So last Friday a girl I was in contact with who i knew had a boyfriend texted me: hey are u going out tonight?
i told her i was and she said: text me when ur there. I didn’t instantly text but she asked, there yet? I said I just got here yeah.
She said what place are you? I said where I was and she wasn’t at the same place but 5 minutes later I hear her shout my name and an arm reach through the crowd.
We talk, she said she broke up with her boyfriend. We stayed talking just the two of us split from our friends and we kiss.
We are still texting, but now I wonder if she had always felt something or this was just a quick rebound?
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Anytime someone is either fresh out of a breakup or going through it with someone and they jump right into hitting the town, specifically picking up new prospects, I call it a rebound.
You think it is purely that? As she had been making an effort and has heavily implied having feelings for me
From my experience it’s usually just a distraction, but that’s more of a generic take on this behavior. You’re talking to her one on one, you know her in person, better than any of us. So if you feel like she’s being sincere then give it a shot. This here is just feedback.
Given our history i feel like she went through too much trouble to get here and even stay in touch with me. But I’ll see about that i guess
To be completely honest, unless there’s more to the “trouble” (hang tight for why I put the quotations), then from the info you provided I don’t think what she did is very noteworthy. I only say this because back when I was in my early twenties, going out more often, I had a few guy friends (no funny business) that I would literally text and approach the exact same way as you described her doing.
“What’re you doing tonight?” “Could I meet up with you?” “I’m bringing (Insert female friends names if I wasn’t going alone)” “hey I just hopped in the Uber! Be there in like 30ish!” (At this point I may call depending on which friend it was because some checked their phones a lot others didn’t) “just made it here!” Then I’d see them inside, wave to get their attention or just go up and hug them. I usually would have a bit of a Pre-game before heading out so maybe I was just extra bubbly with my approach. But yeah, it just sounds very familiar.
This isn’t me saying that there isn’t interest there, I mean she’s doing her part with talking to you. I’m simply saying that based off what you said, she didn’t go through a lot of trouble. She could easily have he same energy meeting up with some girlfriends. That’s the only part of this I’m saying isn’t note worthy, because the kiss is and the communication currently is. But I don't know how much energy we could give the kiss because when liquor is involved that stuff naturally happens. In any case, I’m not really sure that any of this points to anything other than a rebound. Like I said, if there’s anything else of substance that’s gone on then make note of that. I’m just basing my opinion off the context only. Feel free to share any other insights if you want!
If you don’t mind me asking how long has it been since both the breakup and that one night?
Meant trouble before to stay in touch the past months. And she knows about the kiss and didn’t regret it as she texted me herself next morning what i thought
The one night is a week and the breakup 2
One week? And broken up for two? Now asker…
Wym?
Technically its both... rebound and she's into you... I say press the brakes. Slow down. What's the rush?
No rush just a little confused what i should think of it. Because i feel like it’s both too
I think you should talk to her about it
I will, thank you
Good luck! Welcome 💜
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Hahahahha I’m having fun with you in a different language 😂 but don’t worry, I’m not saying anything bad.
I think the girl doesn’t like you, she’s just talking normally.
Hahaha, but how is it normally talking?