It's like the modern feminist is portraying it's idle "man" to be weak pathetic pushovers who cowers away the moment his existence is threatened. To be subservient to the woman's whim and never question her logic and thought.
What's so toxic for a man who wants to provide for his family? A man can't replace a mother and the way her brain is wired to care for a newborn. A man can fight to protect all that he cares for and loves but even that is being regarded as being "Toxic masculinity" in today's modern family values.