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Ladies how would you react if you were sunbathing on a beach and some guy came over to shame you for what you’re wearing?
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When i see guys like this, i am hardcore pro gun. It is none of his business. Kids ain't pervert like him. Kids dont sexualize bodys but adults do. I really dont understand when idiotic people whine when they see a little naked skin and try justify their hatred with kids. So these people think kids get harmed although kids even see naked tits since they get breastfed. Some kids get breastfed even if they are at elementary school. If kids were traumatized by naked body, they already would be traumatized by their parents since they all see naked body of their parents due to breastfeeding etc.
These girls were not even naked. They all have normal bathsuits.
People should not harrassed people with their beliefs.
I see no difference between the triggered swjs and him since both of them get easily triggered. Furthermore, how is he even christian. He has tattoos, and wear a tanktop which define his muscles but he also complain what some minors wear.
Oh sorry they were not minors but they look like a 12 years old
Tattoos don't determine whether or not you are a Christian. Only what they are or say.
I would just ignore him and move far away from him to a different area of the beach. As long as I'm not completely nude I don't see why wearing a bikini is a problem. Even a bikini that shows cleavage. I don't understand why someone would give me a hard time about what I wear. It's a beach for heaven's sake. People are gonna dress like that. If he's so triggered then why does he bring his children to the beach in the first place?
Exactly!
Also you in a bikini ohhh ;)
Sorry lol
Some people are closet muslims lmfao đ
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If I may butt in as I guy, I found this video very upsetting because I can relate with both sides. I think the guy was way out of line just approaching these girls like that. But I don't think he was a bad man in terms of his basic intentions. I think he's a stupid man but maybe a stupid one trying to do what he believed to be the right thing. He seems to be trying to protect family and children and his sense of right and wrong which might be out of line with the times.
I think we live in a time these days where it's very hard to tell right and wrong. One person can say this is so right and another can say this is not right. It's a very divided culture and so I can't blame people so much for being confused and conflicted and maybe even stepping out of line here and there.
Take public breastfeeding as an example. I see nothing wrong with it but we're also living in a culture that gets outraged over inadvertently wardrobe malfunctions and nipple slips on the Superbowl and people censoring media for children containing any hint of nudity, and MPAA boards that would give a film a rating an adult or teenage rating for featuring flashes of skin. It's a society that is giving us mixed messages about right and wrong like slutwalks on one hand and religious abstinence zealots on the other.
I was trying to think about this Q I encountered the other day on what the difference was between growing up in my gen and the newer ones. And I think in my gen, it was easier to tell what is right and wrong simply because most people agreed with it. Even our ideas of right might have been wrong on some absolute level but at least most people agreed with it, so it was easier to navigate society morally.
Now we live in a culture exposed to all sorts of conflicting ideas of right and wrong. And I think that makes it hard for the average person to even know what they're supposed to do, and what values they're supposed to stand up for, and what values they're supposed to reject and call outdated, obsolete.
I understand what you are saying but he having good intentions only makes it more dangerous, the worst things you'll do in your life you'll do it thinking you are doing a good thing , also, you shouldn't need anyone to tell you what is wrong and what is right, you also shouldn't impose your morality onto others that's the worse part, you don't need to agree with another person's choices or lifestyle, as long as no one gets hurt just stay out of it
@G5TWA1 Wholeheartedly agree with that and I think if the guy disapproves of children seeing women in such swimsuits, he should avoid taking them to such beaches. I think he's totally out of line for sure. Mostly I see this as a major culture clash of ideas of what is and isn't appropriate for children to see, and I can see how there would at least be a lot of conflict over this when certain media and rating boards deliver one type of message and schools deliver another and one religious group delivers one message and a secular group delivers another, and so forth.
I actually don't see in issue with this, I think he could have approached the issue differently but honestly why lie about how our world has become.
It doesn't matter how long people have been building up to this day, if people actually spoke up more often you would probably get this a lot more then the latter.
People on gag itself are very much filled with very sexualized people. Sooo I kinda don't expect others to agree with this guy.
So yeah expecting a lot of down votes. 😁â ď¸
I honestly wish we had more mature adult influencers for our youth, these girls seemed very immature but that's to be expected they are young.
but... they are on a beach?
I know but that's kind of why we seem to be loosing some kids on general respect overall, we don't seem to care anymore anywhere.
And I have seen some outfits minors wear (even though these are young adults) that are sooooooooo baddddd lol
My point is we set examples to everyone not just ourselves. I know that the guy could have just moved but I think he was doing something pretty great that we lack in today's society, an influencer, may he have not quite influenced these girls he did influence his children. I honestly miss some old outfits for the beach that you can only find in $$$ these days.
Respect doesn't just come between ourselves when we are in public. I'm also not saying that girls should not wear two pieces there is just a lot more decent and cuter ones then the ones we have today.
so you approve of him going up to these girls to berate them for this huh?
lets get another girls perspective here @hi_it_is_me123 what do you think of this?
I actually read her take, that is a lot of assumptions in what she is saying, and some things may have some truth but that's still only assuming, also christians are back and fourth but many are not nuns lol
I think the fact that he saw them as children hence my assumption, his father instincts kicked in and felt the need to speak to these girls because he would want for his children to also be spoken to if they are acting in a form of disrespecting themselves and others.
This in others views could be argued that they aren't his kids but why does that matter. We may come into view with others to help them when they are seen to be in danger and we used to do the same when we would see others be disrespectful. If he had approached these girls differently and in a caring manner some would say they don't see it as such a bad thing, others would have the same opinion.
Overall we will always effect each other may we be aware may we not care or may we mind our own business. So why not try to be an example. Though as I said before, he could have approached the issue better.
And just so it's noted I am very aware of his approach also being seen as disrespectful, though honestly at some point these lines we draw towards each other become contradicting due to the issue being a public matter not private. We can all argue to mind our own business but that it's quiet difficult in a public surrounding. We can also argue the common ground of today's dressing activity, that also is contradicting to the fact of others surroundings us may feel uncomfortable and such the argument continues in the form of who cares what others think but yet is also contradicted by the reactions others give. So yeah life's crazy lol
@Cherry234
@Smoke-n-Growls
what do you guys think of her answer?
These girls have normal bathsuits. It were not even sexy (?). They were not naked. Men can be topless and show their secondary sexual traits like beard, breast hair etc but nobody say a thing. They are adult women and you have no right to tell them what to wear. If traditional religgous people want to be respected, they should respect back. The guy wear himself a tanktop that reveal his muscles. If these girls were minors and wear very revealing things, then we could argue but they are literally adult women. You can't aproach strangers out of nowhere and harrass these people with your beliefs. I dont even wear T-shirt with short sleeves. I am still seen as a hoe because i dont wear headscarf. So would you be ok when a muslim man approach you and harrass you for not wearing hijab or more modest clothes that dont show your arms etc?
I personally think nobody has a right to tell adult women what to wear as long as they dont do something against laws.
You can teach your kid to respect people with other beliefs. This is like wanting your kid to be Christian but want also other people who ain't christian to convert to christianity so your kids dont get influenced by other religions or beliefs.
I wear very modest clothes. I even wear burkini but i reveal my hair. Would you be ok if a man approach you and tell you in a nice way to wear burkini? My dad want all women to wear burkinis for example?
Lol whatever this guy was a disrespectful hypocrite
You also can buy burkini, or korean bathsuits (?) Which are very very modest. So I agree with you to an extent. I also dont understand why they dont sell modest bathsuits in western countries. Maybe it is because nobody buy it (?) Demand determine the supply
You do realize that you are countering the approach of respect towards oneself over another's.
And he wasn't talking about a woman showing her arms or any of the points your throwing, also a person who comes to approach me about not wearing a hijab is very different from bikini's. Honestly I wouldn't mind a Muslim coming up to me and telling me something, I would have a conversation that is applicable for each other as two adults not simply react with disregard.
These things are pretty important and may you deem them nobodies right someone can simply deem you to not have the right to publicly be immodest in public.
What one seems normal the other may not and may the controversial be this it does not dictate our ability to communicate our differences and our ability to learn to find common ground or disagreement.
Though this isn't the point of the video, the point of the video is the man asking these young women to be considerate of others with the exposure they deem decent and others do not. I am not talking about extremes for adults. He obviously thought they were young girls and the way they talk made that even more prominent.
Everything you chose to talk about does not place understanding to the reality that this is public we do influence others and even if you teach kids it's not that simple. I'm not going to ignore people simply because they do not understand their own projection.
Anyone can try to be more aware of thier surroundings and common is not normal. It's just common, fads change. So basically if it became common to wear strings only which some do everyone should publicly should just accept that kids are not to be considered in public that honestly fucked up. Your an adult you can make more mature choices.
Sorry for writing so much and sorry for spamming you lolđ đ đ i am also sorry if i offended you
Ok when modest people ain't normal to me and it bothered me and i approach them to inform that their modest clothes have an bad impact on me and my kids, should i have a right to do this. It is disrespectful period. None of someone's business. They dont do anything against laws. Even if these girls were minor, why is this guy bothered by them? How creepy is this. People should learn to mind their own business period.
I was also giving an example. I did not say that he talk about a woman showing their arms.
Oh no no, no offense or anything girl I miss cute bathing suits like we had in the past, I would die if they came back. Don't worry either I love debates it helps me understand others and different opinions and how others may feel. I also understand that we all have different views based on how we grow and should not ignore others views either even if ours are different. It's all good for learning and understanding may we disagree on some points. Everyone grows in different environments. Nothing wrong with it as long as we are all considerate of each other.
a kid ain't pervert like adults. A kid dont sexualize anyone but adults do. This guy is creepy for approaching young women like this. Kids dont give a f about nudity.
A kid saw their parents naked due to breastfeeding etc.. So this is a pathetic argument to justify to force your beliefs on someone.
You also give extreme examples like wearing strings. I live in a country where nudity is not such a problem. I have seen naked adults on beach, Swimmingpool etc. as a kid but i was not traumatized. I know a lot of people like me.
I dont know anyone that are traumatized by nudity. If nudity really was huge problem for kids, then they already would be traumatized because of their parents as i said. Again these girls wear normal bikinis not thongs. Even if they were minors, why are you looking at them and sexualize them. How disgusting is that. As an adult you should be mature and mind your own business. Nobody want to be approached by someone on beach. People are here to relax and no tohave discussions. Everything has their place. It is disrespectful even if you approach in a nice way because they want to relax but you take this oppurtinity by wasting their time with discussions
In the view of being a middle grounded person I myself do not believe we should ignore sexualization and underage kids acting out either. If people as well as us now in this moment minded our own business we wouldn't be here talking about it so it's a but redundant.
I'm not crazy about having to be all out there nor do I think someone needs to cover up so much either but one over the other is really more two different extremes even if we try to have a proper logical point, it won't change the truth.
Sexualization is a big issue in our society as well as projection of sex towards children. Modesty is not a show no skin or show no little. And using a example as to being uncomfortable towards someone wearing clothing over not is logical but does not pan out the same in society. This is why the middle works, you can still be modest classy and sexy without baring it all. And be aware and considerate of families. This is why there is clubs for people who want to do more expression of sex and clubs with more sex appeal in general. These are for adults, I understand that this can be seen as creepy but that's also a assumption of extremes and we both know that their are many people both women and men who are perverted not that it truly matters to most. This guy isn't creepy he was just being a father.
I am sorry if i offended you in any way again. I think we should agree to disagree. I dont Think we can agree on anything which is ok. I respect your opnions but i want to agree to disagree
The nudity argument is subjective to you because of your background. If you tried that anywhere else you'd get a different response and what others do is no different from what you'd be doing. They are both enforcing.
And you think nudity is not traumatizing it's because you haven't grown up in an environment like ours but it's not specifically the nudity. It's so much to get into, my reality is seeing some people in strings which honestly is sadly common so it's become less extreme to some, the reason I am saying yours are extreme is because of the specific video we are talking about.
And your referencing kids in a form that may seem innocent but through growth can be very deterrent to how they view life. This is why kids are more important than adults in many forms and why what's happening around us is contradicting respect.
I care about people not just myself even when others seem to ignore they don't care about themselves, it's sad. Trying to argue maturity and adulthood to me to oppose logic will not simplify the discussion not prove your point, I honestly wish life was that simple, but just like we can't ignore others and thier actions, we can not disguise these conversations to deem them appropriate in a form to justify the facts.
I'm just going to have to agree to disagree with you. Your arguments are fair to logic but not completely fair to our society. We can not simply desire and receive as well as expect and comprehend. We must all contradict but with reason. If we don't then we have a world with no guidance, no understanding, and lack of community. We don't grow from ourselves we grow from our knowledge and experience. I would love to live in your world but I know that it's not enough to help the rest to become thier better selves. If it were true then we would have such a world already. Since the majority seem to be declining in themselves, it's hard to watch honestly.
Oh, totally agree it would be good to have good role models for kids on social media.
But harassing others who are doing nothing illegal is not the way to do this.
Making wholesome content, focusing on modest fashion, and becoming an influencer in those spheres is the best way to do that.
I actually had a chance through one of my past jobs to interview a modest fashion blogger for a podcast. It was really interesting - she herself held very traditional views and was outspoken on the virtues of modesty from modern women.
Of course, I don't have these same values or views, but her approach was both respectful and novel in how she thought of modest dressing that it did genuinely make me want to support her work.
Because it wasn't about limiting choice or judging people who choose different. It was about advocating for women to think for themselves, consider others motives and stances, and express themselves in a way that supports their own beliefs.
And, despite not agreeing about dressing modestly myself for the sake of "innocence" or others (within legal limits), I can support those goals.
So, I do continue to see an issue with this guy. But if he'd done this is a wholesome "dad who wants to share his opinion without shaming women, but just being open about his concern re:young ones" then that I can get behind.
Harassment? Nah. Lose his job. He deserves it for being so foolish as to harass women in public, get caught on film, then RESPOND on film with more harassment.
@Smoke-n-Growls
Yep just like I said he should have approached differently but honestly his approach was not too horrible as to say he seemed more a little to heated then he tried to calm himself in the end, I don't expect the dude to be the perfect role model, I believe both sides have much growing to do. I'm saying in the overall point he was trying to make was simply to be considerate of others.
A lot of people have a hard time projecting the right stuff so I know really his heart was probably in the right place, just won't be running to make speeches anytime soon. Lol
I'm probably just more understanding then others. To me it's the intention that matters.
They're 18 so they're not minors anymore. They're young women. I don't blame them for acting like this because the way that man approached them was very disrespectful. It's called standing up for yourself (something which my cousin tells me I need to do more of and he's right). They were standing up for themselves because he has no business telling them what to wear. It's a first amendment right to wear whatever type of clothing you want. As long as you're not breaking any laws or seriously harming other people then you're free to do whatever you want. If they want to dress modest or not it's up to them. But I do agree with you on your point that it's inappropriate for children to wear revealing clothing. I'm 23, a legal adult, and I like wearing crop tops, mini skirts, short shorts, and even high-waisted shorts. Just bc I like wearing clothing like that doesn't mean I'm a slut or that I'm over sexualizing myself. And as I mentioned in my opinion, I do like wearing bikinis, even if they show cleavage. Does that make a slut? No, it doesn't
@Cherry234
A slut, why would you be a slut? A lot of that clothes is cute what you talking about I'm talking about more revealing clothing a lot of clothing you described is a modern modest look I'm not talking nun modest.
I feel like he was talking to all of them but more specifically to a girl who we could not see. So đ¤ˇ
I have mentioned many times even on my main post that he approached them wrong so.
In the end of the point I just agree that we could be more considerate of others when in public. That's it.
But girl were in the world are you getting slut?
@Cherry234
It's okay LOve,
I have big breasts and cleavage is so hard to coverup so I just try my best to embrace what I can not contain.
I understand too so no worries. â¤ď¸
@JustAnj Completely agree with you. People these days, especially young girls, have no respect for their surroundings and others. That's why you have young girls these days fighting to be basically half naked in classrooms because they have no respect for the learning environment. They just want to wear whatever they want. They have no comprehension of the fact that there is a place for everything, no comprehension of how others feel, no comprehension of their bodies and what is dignified or not.
In the past, people had more respect for themselves and their environments. It's why they look dignified no matter where they were.
@JustAnj Very well spoken, miss! I agree 100%. It's quite disturbing that there are minors who are wearing these extremely revealing bikinis (especially ones where they wear thongs). Of course that's all influenced by adults. That's what they see around them and on social media. It's quite sad and worrysome that minors are being urged to show off their bodies. No wonder there is so much insecurity and need for constant validation and affirmation when these young girls are taught from a very young age that their worths is mostly placed within how much they can show off sexuality...
Which is also bad since it opens a can of worms which is the odds of sexual harassment increasing. When it comes to the man in the video, I also wholeheartedly agree with his message, the only problem is simply his approach. I do think his kids are blessed to have a father who can distinguish the right from wrong. I hope he learned from this lesson and thinks thrice before he attempts to do what he did.
@TruthBringer Exactly!!
@Wraith_Cemetery you two were just hoping for a woman to validate your biases huh?
@TruthBringer i side with women usually because they are often bullied or harassed and tend to be more empathetic.
i've shown no mercy to any women who are bullies themselves though.
feel free to lob more incorrect assessments at me tho
@TruthBringer sighhh i got no time for your bullshit. off with you
@Still-alive Could care less about validation. I am not that weak.
@Wraith_Cemetery yes you are lol. very weak
@Still-alive lol, you're on a roll, my man! Loving your content as always, looking forward to the next question.
@Still-alive & @justanj
I absolutely understand what you are talking about regarding how the standards of our society are crumbling and there does not seem to be a RIGHT and WRONG anymore. That we are not âallowedâ to criticize any bad behavior because who are we to judge etc⌠however They were not wearing thongs (which would NOT matter if they were) they were NOT in church, they were NOT walking through a mall, or a Walmart, they were ON THE BEACH! They were actually wearing fairly conservative bikinis at that, Considering what is out there today! There were also LOTS a of other women dressed identically, but he didnât say anything to them, because THOSE women were with men! Worst of all⌠There was a man in a Speedo RIGHT THERE, and the guy said clearly âThatâs Differentâ This man is a sexist, a coward and a bully! He chose those women because they were alone and had no men there to protect them from his ire! A real Christian, would have done EXACTLY a what his wife suggested, that they simply move to another spot on the beach, and judge not lest ye be judged, OR before you tell your neighbor that he has a splinter in his eye, first remove the plank from your own eye, that you may see more clearly the splinter in you neighbors eye! Which loosely translated means before you call out someone on the beach for wearing appropriate beach attire, you better make DAMN sure, that your own live is in order, and that you are not having an affair with a woman at you place of employment⌠oh yes, Mr. âmy virgin eyesâ Karen, is fucking around on his wife! But he has no problem walking up to teenage girls and commenting about their bodies in public, and trying to publicly shame them! I am SO happy that woman came forward to explain heâs having an affair!
@Wraith_Cemetery Yes! There is a place for everything under Heaven! If these adults wanted to wear beachwear, then they darn well should have been on the beach⌠oh wait! They were! They were actually wearing very respectful bikinis! They were not wearing thongs, they were not wearing âmicro bikinis â (which why bother, at that point, you can see everything including the vulva when wearing a micro-bikini!) but they were not wearing anything that everyone else wasnât wearing! The guy was out of line, and they are absolutely right, the only reason that he only harassed them was because they were all women, there were no men, to defend them! He is a coward and a bully! If you donât want your children to see women in bikinis, donât go to a public beach!
@CrazyGirl2 I agree with everything you're saying here
@Cherry234 Thank you so much. It means so much more when someone actually takes the time to write it versus tapping a spot on your screen and giving a âlikeâ. I truly appreciate your comment. đ
@CrazyGirl2 I took the time to read your comments because I care about your opinion on this subject
@Cherry234 Well, I really appreciate it hun. These girls are my exact age, and I can imagine how terrifying, humiliating, and annoying it would be if some guy approached my friends and I saying this stuff to us, while giving us a religious sermon! Honestly, I think nervous laughter and âok, fuck off!â Would be about all we could muster too! I also appreciate ALL the things that I would have WISHED I said, when I looked back on it, like them! Such a chicken-shit bully move! I appreciate your feedback!
Omg! This makes me SO angry, especially with his âmy side of the storyââŚ
someone said you needed to go because, you know⌠womenâs bodies=sin
if you were REALLY a righteous man, you would have just moved, but youâre a coward and a bully! Clearly, in the video we can see LOTS of other women in bikinis, but THEY had men with them who might have kicked your ass, so you said nothing to them! They are right, this was DRIPPING a with toxic masculinity and entitlement! What a fücking asshole! The very fact that a guy wearing a Speedo was fine, but women in bathing suits are not?
yeah he's a fucktard and yet there's still people on this question who too his side smh
Fuck me! I canât believe that someone who comes here to try to get teenage girls to sext with them, would side with that cock womble!
Well, actually YES! I actually fully believe that people would side with him, because I have been here more than 5 minutes and know what people here are like!
Yeah that is t so shocking however what is shocking is there's a woman here who kinda took his side as well. I just see how any woman could side with him here
That IS shocking!
Lmao I'm just thinking back to the MyTake I did about women standing up for what they are wearing and all the guys who talked mad mess about how we are equal and that what I was talking about wasn't a real thing.
Alright guys, here is a real life video of it in action. Even when confronted about how a guy right next to them was wearing less he said it was different. The only thing different is the sexist attitude he had. Please do try to tell me again though about how we are all equals now.
Once again someone is trying to dictate down to women that we are either wearing too much or not enough.
What do you make if what JustAnj said?
She is just is right to her opinion as I am to mine and that guy is to his. Where she loses me is that she would confront them at all.
Huge NO.
That is not your place to say anything. You make people uncomfortable who are not even breaking the law. Let's flip the script and say she was sitting there in a completely modest suit like she wanted, but then she was approached for not covering her hair or entire body? She wouldn't feel comfortable being shamed for her choices either.
Let's take clothing out of the equation. Let's say she has kids and is just out sharing ice cream with them or something when another mom comes up and berates her saying stuff like "you are setting a bad example and teaching your kids excess junk food eating. You should have your kids taken away."
Wouldn't you think that is crazy that someone would just approach you over something neither illegal and completely harmless just because they disagree with you?
If they aren't breaking a law or putting anyone in immediate physical danger, please refrain from lecturing your moral positions over their decisions.
Call the cops on him, call his work and send their HR all videos and documentation. I would also call the cops on the wife and send her job all video and documentation.
Then I'd send the footage to the local news, sell it to whatever viral video purchasers I can find so it gets more spread, and generally enjoy the cosmic levels of karma at work.
And then I'd forget about him as I suntan in a bikini on a public beach. Until I saw the news that he'd been fired. Then I'd laugh, but because I think he's a stranger who got burned for the same thing.
Because, let's not forget, this kind of person is not worth remembering.
Dude is out of line. I would let him talk a bit then remind him that he can have an opinion and beliefs and that's what's great about America. But the bottom line is we are all " here at the beach" and if it's not illegal, then it's legal. And if it's legal, people can do it and you can have an opinion about it, but you have absolutely zero right to prevent them or harass them or otherwise try to control them. If they want to sit and listen to your opinion and are open to having their minds changed, you're even welcome to give your opinion to change their minds. But if they don't want to hear what you have to say and you are insisting on getting in their faces about it, you are on the border of committing a crime. Here we are at legality again, and you're getting to be on the wrong side of it. So move along, bud.
Even though I share his belief system (to some extend), the way he decided to act is far from smart. As much as I agree with his views and his main message, in the end, it's a free country and he has no right to impose his beliefs on others. Because there is a difference between educating and imposing. The reality of the matter is that they are free to choose what to wear. And if he truly has a problem with it for the sake of his kids, then don't take them to a beach. Plain and simple. Go take them to the swimming pool on 'family day' (not sure you guys have that, but we have those here in the Netherlands).
In the end, all you can do is to educate your children as they grow older. So they get to understand what's out there in the world, why it's out there, and from what belief system their family is in.
by the way if you go to his Tik Tok, he made an apology video
Depends a lot on the circumstance , age etc.. Do not remotely agree with the religious argument , nor would I even look , although two of the girls who were 18 ( said they looked 12 ) , well I could maybe understand that.
Just requires some common sense on all sides , I can't see what they are wearing , its too far away , but it looks okey. I dont think its ever an idea to approach like that..
And take into account the area in which you are in , I didn't see exactly where.
So here for example , its a conservative Buddist culture , and you need to respect that on the public beaches.
I dont think he did the correct thing , but like the concept of " slut walk " the response was not reasoned either , I dont think he went out of his way to cause harm , and I think the girls should have also handled it better , reason , logic , planning , and thought. Not just " Ill wear what I want " , consider the circumstance , always.
While I can kind of understand what heâs saying, itâs hard because of his hypocrisy. Iâd call him out on his:
1.) Heâs wearing a sleeveless shirt. Why not a t-shirt so his arms arenât exposed?
Could he be a misogynist using the guise of religion. Another video I saw was of a old âKarenâ body shaming someone at church. Like, you can wear what you want to church. God doesnât care how you dress within reason, but ladies donât all need to wear dresses at church. Itâs come as you are.
Anyway, Iâm Christian and see no problems with bikini-clad women and shirtless men (like myself) at a beach-where itâs allowed!
The Young Turks had interesting things to say about this. Iâd recommend you watch:
Also, the other video I mentioned:
https://www.youtube.com/embed/xFkAAztUQboNow, if someone told me my being shirtless was making them lust or whatever, Iâd put a shirt on because the Bible says to not to anything to cause your brother to stumble... but these are kids who couldnât speak for themselves. Iâm not sure the kids minded as much as the religious guy. After all, the young guys he referenced affected by the girls were probably shirtless. So, they can be shirtless but a girl canât wear a bikini? WTF?
That is incredible he felt he was that big a man to do something like that. Itâs also just as incredible what some people will wear in a public space, knowing it makes people like this uncomfortable, and not caring. However.. there is a way about things and this guy was out of line. These days I tend to stand up to bullying in any form⌠good for the girls.
I wouldn't have engaged in conversation. Just told him to leave immediately. As soon as he spouted his freedom of speech crap I thought here we go another rightwinger who thinks FOS gives him the green light to harrass people and force his will on people.
Some guy attempted to ridicule me on the beach but he's really just a pervert with an obvious boner who prematurely ejaculated unintentionally as he got close. He didn't appear to plan it since he seemed & acted shocked as his cum wet his boxers' crotch area. He stood in shock quite a bit until some girls & guys threw sand on is wet shorts.
on *his wet shorts
Harassment is a crime. It's a public beach and unless someone is NUDE, which is also a crime unless it's a nude beach, he needs to shut up and move on. It's none of his business. Don't look or look away. The nerve.
I'd have called the beach police and told him I was doing so. Maybe that'd chill him and his holier than though spouse.
I'd speak to him in a reasonable manner at first, but if he persisted...
I'd probably just put WAP (or something really explicit) on reaaaalllllly loud and start grinding with my friends. Watch him blow a mental fuse. Serve him right for not minding his own business.
But if he appeared to get threatening or dangerous, I might call the cops.
I saw this on "Inside Edition" and here is my opinion.. I would tell that guy to f***k off as the girls did.. The girls are age 18 and older and the guy should have just walked past them and leave the girls alone.. Sure Christians disapprove but there is a thing called freedom of speech and it works both ways.
I would never be rude to any girl, woman. If I do not like what any girl woman is wearing, I would just ignore them.
Heck I would even hesitate to compliment any girl woman, as that may be taken in other way. Just smiling/looking in an appreciative way does the job I think.
This Ken is a typical example of a right wing, born again, evangelical d-bag. He is also a bad parent, and a coward for going around picking fights when his kids are present. Their is no doubt in my mind that his church encourages this type of behavior. He shouldda got his ass whooped!
Those female's seams to be childish.
Apart of that.
To little to go on.
They didn't show what did make people to walk up and say that.
There are some dress codes depending which beach it is that we need to fallow for everyone sake. ( some doesn't have any )
If we can't fallow that we shouldn't be there and are selfish entitled.
So youâre taking his side? Lol
He's bang out of order for trying. Wear what ever I please.
All he needed was an AK-47, robes, and a headdress.
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