How do I play the game back to her?

[loverboy26]

So 1st 5 weeks talking for half the day a good night and good morning text by each of us. Now minimal contact.
For instance yesterday a few short texts during day, we had a happy (to my surprise) phone call for 15min. She asks to call me when I’m finished doing something. I called back and text no answer, she fell asleep. It’s now noon no contact. Normally we’d be texting and even a possible phone call by now. What would you do if you were in my shoes? I don’t like playing games it’s just not in my nature to be doing that but there’s no way I’m gonna be kissing her ass!

[Woke51]

If you're analyzing texts or time between contact, that means you are needing their validation. Recognize that and put your attention back to yourself. Validate yourself.

It doesn't matter what they're doing. Do what you enjoy, mind your business and allow them to come to you. It's not about playing games. Otherwise, you'll sit around counting hours since their last message.

[loverboy26]

I fully admit being a total mush and usually go to much too fast. Just looking for that feeling of the 1st 5 weeks. On top of the world!! Haven’t felt this way about someone in years because I’m usually closed off. But this one I didn’t even have to think. We were just being ourselves in bliss. Thank you for your response. Makes tons of sense obviously.

[Denniella]

Yiu guys might have different schedules... Don't play games and tell her directly that you don't wanna play games... She might not realize her behavior is affecting you... So most importantly communicate it, don't sit around and wonder... You'll only know the truth of her actions if you ask her and talk about it with her... I'm sure it's gonna save your relationship and help you both grow

[loverboy26]

Thank you,

[PrettyPriya]

I don't know if she is really playing games. That puppy love stage falls away of constant contact. Seems like you two are still happy.

She may just not feel the need to say good morning/night etc every day. As long as other behavior isn't changing like attention when you are together or affection, don't worry about it.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG 🙏

[exitseven]

This is why I was going o give up dating forever. I was sick of the games.

[loverboy26]

I hear ya, it ain’t easy for some.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[SamAlli01]

Well are you two seeing each other in person?

[loverboy26]

This Saturday will be 2 weeks since I’ve seen her, her kids did go back to school. That being said she’s been completely different since that time. That Saturday was amazing in and out of the house. 😉

[SamAlli01]

Hmm that’s a tough one. I’m a female, this is my brother’s account... sometimes girls are obvious and other times not. I don’t know her but maybe she’s testing to see how much effort you put in. I would act normal and text her as normal, and wait until you see her to see her behavior with you. I would just wait and not do anything big until you see her next. It could be she’s slowly losing interest but it’s hard to say.

[loverboy26]

Losing interest is a possibility. However I think it was just too fast for her. In her situation not so easy to just fall head over heels. Knowing this you’d think I’d have a handle on this. This one got me pretty good. In the bedroom has been pretty good too. I’d think that’s enough of a reason to not let me drift too far away. What’s your feeling there?

[SamAlli01]

I think you should just wait until you see her again.. let it happen and just be chill. Dont let your ego run your emotions and actions.

[In_Trance]

You're not 48