Why would she stop talking to me then block me?

[Anonymous]

She stopped talking to me and I asked her what was up and she said nothing and she continued talking normally. I thought ok cool then the next few days she started to get my attention and make me jealous which I thought was weird so I asked her again what was up and she says nothing. This was frustrating me so I ignored her and she was mad then later upset. I send her a message saying sorry if I hurt her but what is going on with her and why is she being weird. Then without an explanation she blocks me. I don’t know what she wants I don’t know if she’s mad at me before or now she’s really mad because I was ignoring her or maybe she doesn’t like me at all.

[spartan55]

I'm sure she expects you to read her mind and figure it all out. Dude, just move on.

[Anonymous]

I don't know what's your relationship w/ the girl, but were you & the girl both engaging in the convos (asking personal questions/laughing together etc) OR Were the convos only one sided?

[Asker]

We were friends then suddenly something changed. We would talk all the time asking personal questions, I’d always make her laugh

[Opinion Owner]

She probably likes you...

[Asker]

Why do you say that? If she’s not talking to me because she likes me that makes no sense? Why did she end up blocking me as well

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, is this an online or IRL friend?

[Asker]

IRL friend

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely talk to someone you trust about this situation to see what you can do about it (If you haven't already)

if you two are irl friends you can definitely talk it out! Just be up front with her and if she's not giving you the responds you want to hear like before tell her you have had enough of her behaviour/mind games and don't like being treated like this OR just give her space and wait for her to be upfront with you.

I'm not sure why she would block you. Perhaps you did/said something that may had upset her (even if she did say nothing was wrong) I don't know?

[Asker]

I’ve talked to a few girls about it to see what they think from a girls perspective and they’ve said as well she probably likes me but probably wants something from me. But as I said to them I don’t get it is it playing hard to get or what and when I try to talk to her she doesn’t want to open up and talk and then she’s upset but what am I supposed to do

[Opinion Owner]

Definitely give her time and space. She will come to you eventually and open up. Especially if she's your friend. Take the convos slowly/like the convos you would normally have with her (don't be too serious, don't bother asking why she's acting weird etc) You can also nvite her alone or w/ friends to go out somewhere tell her you wanna do something she likes etc that may make her happy and maybe she'll will open up then.

"is it playing hard to get?" is that a sign you may like her?

[Asker]

I tried to give her space and I think she did maybe try to come up to me again after a few days to talk but because I was mad with her behaviour and messing with me I ignored her and I think she’s really closed off now and won’t open up. That’s why I messaged her and I tried to opened up to her so hopefully she’d do the same but by blocking me she is mad at me I think. Maybe she would’ve eventually opened up to me if I didn’t act like the way I did. I didn’t know how to talk to her face to face so I thought she would feel easier to talk over text. Yeah I do like her but she was I feel playing hard to get and wanted me to chase her that’s why she was also acting weird because it didn’t work

[Opinion Owner]

Surely, you have each other on other social media Where you can keep in touch. Exactly, the last part you mentioned may be right too.

[Asker]

I dont have her on social media anymore that’s where she blocked me after I msgd her. she won’t talk to me and I can’t contact her anywhere else so I guess hopefully she’ll reach out to me again after she’s cooled down

[Opinion Owner]

Well hopefully both of you guys can sort it out... I don't know how, but you'll find a way.