Why wouldn’t she block me?

Why would a girl not block me on social media after I message her even thought she claim to hate me so much? What does she want, what is she expecting?

Oliverlogan263

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Hmm that is weird dude. A few things could be going on:

- She might not totally hate you but was just mad when she said that. Keeping you unblocked leaves the door open maybe.

- She could be playing games, wanting you to see her stuff on socials so you still think about her or get jealous. Some girls are like that.

- Or she might want to keep tabs on what you're posting so she knows what's up with you still. Either out of curiosity or she kinda still cares a little.

- It's also possible she just forgot to block you or doesn't care enough to bother blocking.

- Some petty girls like having guys they don't like seeing their lives, makes them feel important or something.

Hard to say for sure man. I wouldn't read too much into it or think she wants anything from you for sure. If she reaches back out then maybe you guys can talk it out. Otherwise just leave it be bro and stop stressing over her socials so much ya know?

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She barely post anything and when she does it is just a selfie, funny enough after meeting me. She had been posting more selfie than she ever did in the past. Only thing that stress me out is that if she supposedly felt harassed, uncomfortable or hate my guts like everyone claimed. That would had been an instant block from her you know. The thing I forgot to mention is that she got a lot of mood swings in other words she is bipolar, that’s a fact that people that know her since she was little told me about that. Sorry this is my ranting part.

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-That’s what a few girls told me.

- She only posted selfies, but after I send her the message she been silent on social media.

- That’s another thing some girls told me, that she want to see what I do or how I react or whatever, I doubt she want to make me jealous because all her post are pretty much selfies. If she wanted to get me jealous it might be something like posting a picture with one of her guys friends. But I get your point.

- That I really doubt it, because I did send her another message two weeks after the first one, pretty much letting her know that if she wanted to talk to let me know and that I would respect her decision.

- That would be if she kept posting things on social media and public at that so I would be able to see it. Lol
We not friends on social media, so I can only see whatever she want me to see. It is Facebook, so you know how that works.

Yeah, I’m not going to reach her out. Just want to see what decisions she will make before or after Christmas.

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Oliverlogan263

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Ayo man, that makes a lot more sense with the extra context. Relationships for sure ain't easy, especially when people got mood stuff goin on too.

Seems like she got some complicated feelings around you still, even if she tryna act like she hates your guts on social media. The fact she posted more selfies after y'all kicked it definitely says something too.

And bipolar can make a person's emotions do straight 360s sometimes, it ain't always their fault. Maybe right now she feelin some type of way but it'll pass like the last one did.

I feel you just want some closure or clarity on where you stand. But bro honestly, best thing is just keep it pushin and work on you for now. Let her sort her ish out on her own timeline.

Plus stressin over what she post or don't ain't healthy either way. Just live your life and do you - if y'all meant to connect again down the line, it'll happen naturally. But don't chase or wait around neither ya feel me?

Keep your head up man. This one complicated situation ain't the be all end all. Brighter days comin I know it!

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Yeah, you got that right, I only want to know where I’m standing. Of course I’m not wasting my time on only her because you never know if she doesn’t contact me then whatever, but you know I feel like she was the one behind that fake account that contacted me on Instagram and Reddit. I don’t got prove, but I know she knows about my accounts.

Anyways, not sure what her mind game is. I remember the day I made her blush, but then she yelled at me a few seconds later. She is a really complicated person to deal with. Also, just to add I know like a lot of girls way more prettier than her, but she is the one I care about. Lol

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Oliverlogan263

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Yeah man girls can be so confusing sometimes! One minute they're blushing and smiling then the next they're yelling at you out of nowhere. Like make up your mind already haha.

It does sound like she might be playing some kind of mind games with you if she's trying to contact you through fake accounts and stuff. That's just drama waiting to happen if you ask me. Not worth the hassle bro.

I feel you about wanting to know where you stand though. That uncertainty would be bugging me too. But probably best not to let her know that, ya feel? Keep playing it cool like you don't care too much either way.

And good job knowing there's other hot girls out there! Even if you care about this one the most, don't put all your eggs in one basket. Maybe try talking to some other girls too, might make this one jealous and come around. Who knows!

Anyway just do your thing for now and try not stress on it. Her loss if she keeps playing games. You'll find someone better if she don't come around.

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