Why did she block me?

[Anonymous]

So there's a girl I've recently been talking to, she sends me cryptic songs that give me the impression she likes me, but I've made it clear that I'm focused on upcoming exams and cannot be distracted but I do like her Personality. She has recently been acting really up-and-down. She went off to a Rammstein concert with her brother and on her way home she messaged me this.

• Why did she feel the need to block me?

[Guy13]

It sounds like to me that she wants a break from you and you may not get that intuitively. I am blocking you to get some time to myself for a day. This is a Test.

Women block if something does not feel right. Actions and words not matching or what are considered normal or standard reactions... you do not react that way. Creepy Factor...

Possessive jealousy through communication control and too serious "you're my everything" and she does not feel that way..."Everything seemed to be going so well and then she ghosted me... I don't understand.. we were really clicking." NOPE, you were Clicking and she was not...

Don't try to fix it... respect her decisions... or POOF, she's gone

[Asker]

So I blocked her back and she messaged me by text saying she tried to contact me by whatsapp but didn't get a delivery notification. I ignored the message.
She then texted again 10 minutes later asking how I'm doing. Does that effect your initial opinion in any way?

[Guy13]

I would not have reacted that way. I woukd have left all options open and try to watch her social media changes-if any…. If you reacted “in response” when I told you not to freak out then I would be easing my way out of relationship. That’s just me though 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Yeah, I've eased all the way out. Wished her all the best not too long ago. It's way too manipulative for my liking.

[Guy13]

Good for you man … it sounded off the scale little bit.

[SomewhereElse]

She was probably drunk and on the verge of texting you something she knows she wouldn't be comfortable saying when sober. Can only guess what that might be, with the information of your post I would imagine she would have said she likes you. Cute that she's sending you songs though, do you ever send her any back?

[Asker]

Oh infact I do. I commission artists and producers to come up with tracks to my liking, I've sent her a few. They don't have lyrics though.

[Asker]

I just don't understand the idea of blocking me though. Surely of you didn't want to speak with someone, you simply wouldn't.. or if your preference was to block them, you'd just do it. Why tell them you're doing it?

[SomewhereElse]

that's sweet! Do you like her? If yes, tracks without lyrics might not be the best way to communicate it

[Asker]

Thank you! Well she's a good person, non of us are perfect but she's trying to work on her weaknesses of what I know.
But I'm sure you know well that when you get to our age you've met a lot of good people (for a couple months) until the honeymoon period fades and you meet the true them!
I'm just not the type of person to go rushing into a relationship just because someone has feelings for me. :-/

[Asker]

So in your opinion is this acceptable behaviour from someone you're prospecting?

[Summeroflove]

Ask her when she unblocks you. IF she does...

[Asker]

So I blocked her back and she messaged me by text saying she tried to contact me by whatsapp but didn't get a delivery notification. I ignored the message.
She then texted again 10 minutes later asking how I'm doing... I've heard it's a way of manipulation, what do you think?

[Summeroflove]

I really don’t know Asker. It seems odd to me too. But. Many people do stuff that makes ZERO sense and you will never know what goes on in their heads.

Just tell her you blocked her because she blocked you and that you find her behavior to be odd.

[Asker]

I ended things with her. I can't stand childish manipulative games.

[Summeroflove]

Good. Yeah me neither