Why would a woman make interest clear and try to get noticed, but spend a whole lot of energy pulling away?

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Why would a woman make interest clear and try to get noticed, but spend a whole lot of energy pulling away?
She made it obvious she's into me but would have lots of mixed signals. She acted really reserved and aloof, and though it seemed like a bit of strategy, it also conveyed emotional reactivity and a lack of confidence.

She would spend a lot of time avoiding eye contact and avoiding conversation, but if I went cold and pulled away a little bit, she would sometimes be in a funk for days.

When a girl acts like that (craving attention but constantly pulling away), is that a big red flag that she has emotional issues, and possibly has something going: maybe something like borderline personality disorder (very thin skin, sensitive and easily hurt), or maybe something like fearful avoidant attachment style?
Why would a woman make interest clear and try to get noticed, but spend a whole lot of energy pulling away?
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