I was talking to this woman for every single day for 2 months on Facebook dating before we met, we met up twice and had sex both times before we met we’d send each other long chunks of paragraph messages a couple times a day everyday but after our second date she became flaky and distant she said she was unsure about our compatibility but she did say she’d still see me again.
Since our second meet up our chats for the past month hasn’t been the same, she’s kept on flaking, took way longer than normal to reply and her justification was she work more hours apparently, some of the things I’d to say to her no longer triggers her to feel all enthusiastic, affectionate, and girly inside anymore but when I finally addressed it to her last week she just acted like she never noticed then she just stopped replying on what’s app but I did text her 2 days ago that I always found her interesting and still feel I need to know more about her but she’s said she doesn’t know if me and her are compatible then she disappeared when I responded. I have no choice to throw in the towel and just accept nothing will change. It’s like she doesn’t care what’s she been doing to me.
Before anyone ask why I don’t talk to other girls instead it’s because I don’t want to. I kinda have some feelings for her and my feelings grew even more when we met and had sex. I’ve been comfortable for many years being single, we just started chatting each like normal when we matched on Facebook dating I never tried too hard talking to her, never expected anything from her it’s that 3 days of speaking turned to a week, a week tuned to 2 weeks the 2 weeks turned to a month, a month turned to 2 months.
Getting female attention and attractive women alone is difficult but trying to keep a woman especially when you want to pursuit a relationship is practically impossible. I never been in a relationship before, for anyone who’s in a long term relationship been in one before how the hell do you do it?
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The problem is the first AND second time you met you HAD SEX. I’m not for “waiting till marriage” BUT I would wait AT LEAST a month AFTER committing to building a relationship and convo over text or phone doesn’t count (meaning she already wants to be with you BEFORE sex comes into play) for some reason a lot of people thinks it works the opposite way, dick her down right and she will want to stay but that is NOT the case, any female that thinks or tells you that is ignorant, NOT somebody you want to be with, and probably never been in a real relationship themselves. You have to get her head over heels BEFORE sex and then the sex seals the deal AFFER that point. Anyone that tells you otherwise is misleading you, and I speak from experience, not my ass. I hope you find your person my dude.
"Since our second meet up our chats for the past month hasn’t been the same" the only logical explanation I have is that something happened that turned her off.
We just had sex in the hotel instead of going out maybe going out? I’m not sure of the fact I didn’t tell her I was on spectrum
We are strange creatures aren't we!
Trying to keep a woman it’s like pouring tea from a giant china teapot and making sure not spill a single drop