Lost weight but feel pressured?

[Anonymous]

He liked me overweight and now he loves me thin. I can’t help but feel pressured. It took me a while to become thin. I worked very hard to lose and maintain my ideal weight. But now I feel the pressure to keep it since my boyfriend happens to be the biggest fan of my weight loss. Not only is he proud but he gives me more attention than ever and loves showing me off. I can’t help but feel bad since what if I gain some weight back. Suggestions?

[Carolmille]

I do think that it’s a lot of pressure when you are conscious that you are maintaining your weight level cos of someone other than yourself. To feel less pressured, you must convince yourself you have lost weight and chosen a new lifestyle for yourself. You must own the decision. Be convinced that it’s what you want. Just saying

[Girly500]

girl, just be the weight YOU want to be! noone can tell u how u look your best. it's all about how u FEEL your best. if u feel the best when you have all that weigh gone, then keep it off! If not, then don't stress about it. I know u want him to love u, and he will love you no matter what your weight is as long as it's genuine love. go get him girl!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Well, you lost the weight to make him happy, now you are thinner your struggling to keep him happy and in my opinion, he's not worth it, If he can't accept if you even gain 10lbs then you need to move on... Remember you are stressing over this situation and you need to do things to make yourself happy... Best Wishes :-)👼🙏

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks For Most Helpful Guy

[Reijen]

As you said, he liked you when you were overweight.

[Cherry234]

You should lose weight for yourself, not for your boyfriend or anyone else. It sounds like this relationship you're in is unstable. If he can't accept you gaining a few pounds, then he's not the right guy for you. But if you really want to keep the weight off, then you can do that. It's your choice whether you accept gaining weight or want to maintain your current weight