Kissed by a stripper?

[Token_Black]

So, I went to the strip club last night, I’m somewhat a regular, been there about 5 or 6 times thus far. Since first going, I’ve gotten 3 lap dances…one was normal, 1 was more like the chick was getting herself off repeatedly grinding on me (repositioning him herself and all) which doesn’t really surprise me, I’m packing quite a punch down there. Now the third baffles me, I’ve spoken to this one every time I’ve come to the club, yet I’ve never bought a dance nor thrown money at her. I’m not a thrower, I enjoy private dances. That being said, we’ve established a little bit of a friendship/acquaintance. A couple weeks ago I went in my Halloween costume, and she really liked it. I told her I wanted a dance from her, but it was too late at that moment and I’d get one from her the next time. Well the next time finally came last night. So she’s giving me a dance as normal, yet during the middle of the dance, she grabs my face, lifts my eyes from her breasts to her eyes, and makes out with me…tongue n all. One of her coworkers (the bartender) walked past during one of the make out sessions and said “I thought y’all were kissing!” We both laughed and the bartender walked away, and right back to it we were, and according to her: I was “too fine.” After the dance I paid her respectively, she asked for a hug and another kiss, then I left. Also, before the dance, we were talking about me becoming a stripper myself, and showed her a variety of photos in my application, including this one I’m posting below. My question is, did she want more? And when I say more, I mean something outside of the club? Can’t say she was trying to “milk more money out of me” considering the private dances have a flat rate, the most I’ve done “extra” is bought her a shot at the request of the bartender. Help me out?😅 cutting off my face to keep my anonymity. Pic is pg by the way, as it was when I showed her.

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Update…she wanted more, and no, not for money to those who can’t fathom not paying for human affection 🙄 to those who were actually helpful, thank you

[NetSapien]

I spent many years working in Strip Clubs, in every position imaginable except bartender. Ultimately though, these girls are still human beings and aren't closed to the idea of relationships, although with a 'customer' isn't usually the custom.

Not to say 'few' of these girls aren't looking for easy wallet prey, specially if they've got a PI and a quota to meet. This is easier to gauge by the quality of the club and the girls they contract.

Use your judgement, but don't assume she's an easy tap either. Outside the club, treat her like you would any normal date.

[Anonymous]

I had a build similar to you. I'm older now. I'm also packing. Girl's female friends would tease me. Said I should work at a club. I'd do better than most of the guys they see there.

Go for it. You got the build and the meat.

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry, misread the question.

[loves2learn]

Ask for her number next time. Sounds to me like she does want more outside the club if you were “too fine” not to kiss.

[loves2learn]

Re: your update - Yessss! Knew it! Happy for you.

[PrettyPriya]

Her whole job revolves around make you want her. Just remember that.

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG

[jasco]

More than likely she does, go for it and see for ya self

[Anonymous]

Back in my younger years I made out with a few strippers in East St. Louis. They were a lot of fun but they do have a job to do. For the most part you're just a face and wad of cash.

[Opinion Owner]

Another guy that needs his ego stroked.

[Iron_Man]

Get some rum or vodka and rince your mouth out thoroughly

[RobT312]

1. I don’t think she wanted more outside the club
2. I think she would have done more in the club for more $$$$

[Token_Black]

It was the end of the night, as in closing time. Also, as I was leaving she asked me for a hug and another kiss.

[MCheetah]

This seems like trolling.

[Token_Black]

Troll for what? Asking an honest question 😒

[MCheetah]

The disgusting nude picture no one wanted to see and the "humblebragging" about impressing strippers along with the username. You come off like a "BBC" porn stereotype instead of a real person. Next you're going to tell me you're 6'2" and 10" downstairs as well? Or that you owe ten different baby momma's alimony?

Anyway, I don't think strippers are the romantic type.

[Token_Black]

Buddy, it’s not nude, completely pg rated…the only difference with the pic posted and the pic I showed is my face being cut off. Ima tell you those things for what? Not gay for 1 and 2 you a random guy on the internet. I was again, asking for honest opinions. Thanks for the subtle input at the end though

[LegendaryIcon]

i got a hickey from a stripper

[AviatorTom]

She may want more outside the club... at a price.

[Anonymous]

She’d have been willing to do more for money

[HowardB]

I got kissed by a stripper my first time there