She's mad cause I unfriended her?

[Anonymous]

Long story short, we matched on Tinder way back in June. We still haven't met. She's always "too busy." In October she said she needed a break. I unfriended her on Facebook and Snapchat to respect her decision, but that made her mad. I texted her occasionally throughout but she'd stop replying and we'd go a week or two with nothing. I texted her last week and she called me the next day and we talked for an hour. I resent the friend requests. Everyday after that I'd get 1 or 2 texts. I unfriended her again yesterday on Snapchat and cancelled my friend request to her on Facebook since that was never accepted. Now she texts me tonight angry I unfriended her again. What do I say or do? Feels like she's keeping me around as an option.

[horatiohornblower]

I couldn’t deal with just texting that long. I’d just tell her I’m tired of messing around. Either we go on a date this weekend or go our separate ways.

Well it’s Christmas weekend. So I’d set it for New Years weekend. If it wasn’t. Christmas. That’s be my deadline.

[kyleelyn199723]

Just move on. There’s no progression here to meet and it’s a waste of your time at this point. You have an agenda, and she isn’t fulfilling it, even more so she’s just having pointless day to day convos with you. She will get over it, but I’d drop her fully. Stop replying to her texts

[Asker]

She always talks about meeting up yet she never has any free time when she only works 4 days a week. Right...

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker just move on. She will get over it. There’s guys I’ve met in real life that have ghosted me and I am fine and happy. She will be okay. You should spend less focus on her if she’s just playing games at this point

[Brittanyroseee]

She is dumb. How can she be mad at you when she doesn’t even give you the time of day? She doesn’t seem interested or care to be in contact so why does she care that you unfriended her? weird af… she is playing games. Drop her.

[Asker]

Right? She doesn't reply to me but is mad when I don't give her attention?

[Brittanyroseee]

Exactly and she shouldn’t even be mad when she's not giving you attention 🙄she is dumb and sounds like she is just keeping you on the side. I hate people like this

[Brittanyroseee]

You are putting all the effort in while she's giving back small amounts and gets upset the moment you unfriended her because she doesn’t put effort. She is mad weird

[Robertfootball]

Sad thing is I’ve met SO many women who act exactly like this

[Frank_theTank999]

Whole thing is just weird. I think she’s trying to keep you as an available option but why the constant unfriending, that is just weird. If you just talked for an hour within a week that’s a strange response.

[Asker]

I unfriended her both times. I sent her a few snaps that went unnoticed, and if she doesn't reply to my texts, why keep her around?

[Waldoe]

tell her you are "Tired of her games" you are seeking "True" friends, not pen-pals...

[In_Trance]

block her and move on