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Both kind of are, but I understand both too. I mean if somethings wrong and it’s hard to put into words or they don’t feel comfortable talking about it, that makes sense. Also if they don’t know what to do, it happens. I think personal growth is important when dealing with others and so if your upset about how they are acting maybe realize that your not perfect either because if you were you would be able to overcome your own emotions and help the other person through whatever it is.
Communication is key. Indecisive can be annoying, and one thing, but the other is a major communication issue, and a much bigger problem.
Personally I feel if their a situation where you cannot directly say what's wrong then it's a possibility that you don't have a problem. Speaking only for myself, when I ask "What is wrong?" or "What can we do better together?" Then I expect to recieve a response from a mature (grown) woman. The mind reading phase is for children or younger due to their inability to express themselves. Anything above that, I feel shouldn't be indescribable or indecisive. Maybe I've learned to be a bit direct due to my upbringing, but I would expect the same from my partner. Otherwise, innately my mindset will revert into, "I'm dealing with a child."
I think most guys agree that nothing is more annoying than a woman expecting you to read her mind.
Indecisiveness is annoying but I usually deal with that by giving her options and she can't pick then I do, to which she can't argue later because I gave her a choice.
But when a woman suddenly changes mood or asks for space or even a breakup it gets very confusing. I've had a case where I kept replaying all our conversations in my head to see where I messed up or what could have possibly caused this but I couldn't find anything and THAT is very annoying.
As a partner! I listen to her in general so i know how her day is at work, what her ''friend'' said about the other friend and what the other idiot did at work and so on. So i usually know what's wrong but at times i need her to be more specific to be on board at 100%.
She won't tell me whats wrong directly and with her dyslexia she jumps from a part to another where i go (WAIT... WHAT?) 🤣. It's mostly A after all these years (since 2009) she used to be indecisive and we learned how to be better together, i am a gamer so communication is key to win a game as a team to get a GG and a GG we had. Trying to teach her gaming too, just put out her first video.
u hmmm, out of these options it would be the second one...
because the first situation could be a bit more emotionally charged and be way more upsetting, so I can be understanding with that besides being kind of used to it, dealing with that...
but the second thing, indecisiveness... this one could be more of a bad trait and one that could cause unnecessary drama and also out of "lesser" situations, and I usually am not on board with any of that, or would not want it around much
I very much prefer and even need someone that is more assertive, and ally girlfriends have been like that, confident women that know what they're about... lol
Oh definitely not telling us what's wrong, and the "Well if you don't know, I can't help you!" bollocks 😂
We're not mind reader's, and we can't keep up with what pisses you off today thats different from yesterday malarkey 🤣
Oh but we still love you 😉
Being indecisive, about some small, unimportant things. When Carla and I went out to eat, it took her 30 minutes to decide what she wanted, and it really was upsetting. I know that sounds crazy on my part, but the waiter would come back and back and back and still no order. Made me nuts
Her being indecisive.
Even if I don't know right away why she is mad, I will at least try to figure out what I might have done wrong, or when we are in a better place I will ask her to let me know.
Ahh the typical someones suppose to be a suppose to be a mind reader scenario, as shitty as it it, its its a classic.
Were all human, don't expect some one to know a bit of information you didn't give them.
Simple as that.
For me it's A, I have absolutely 0 patience with this kind of thing. The indecisive thing is just annoying, but the whole know what's wrong automatically now that is annoying and frustrating too.
Not telling me what's wrong is one thing. But expecting me to know is another. You can't have both... Maybe she's just indecisive about which she wants.
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