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Why do women think, that men have it easier or better in life? (Page 2)
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We all have different challenges whether we're male or female. Society makes you feel just because you're a man you can't express emotions. Men need to know they can reach out for help, toxic masculinity shouldn't be a taboo stupid.
Yep.
Real masculinity isn't toxic. Toxic behavior is toxic behavior no matter who is doing it.
I take it your opinion that men have it harder comes from your experience of trying to live as a woman?
Men and women have totally different challenges and support systems. Who has it harder is a matter of perspective, but so long as the law treats everyone equally, that's really all that matters in form of government regulation.
Oh boo hoo hoo!
I don't think that life being easier or not is quite that easy to measure.
There's enough suffering going on in the world that is dealt out without any stipulation of gender being involved, but a whole lot of it is caused by people who don't care much about the consequences of what they do--so I'd say that they are the ones who have it the easiest of all.
You tell me, are they male or female?
It is the opposite. And you know it. There are many men here who are just miserable and have weak mindset. They are always asking questions from ‘’their hidden accounts’’ and answer questions from their hidden accounts. They have a pussy envy that needs to be treated. They do not even have one opinion about that How females seen as inferior to men in many countries. I think they do not even go out. They just complain and complain.
Because women are trapped in the past and can’t look towards the future. They have to keep themselves as the oppressed ones or they stop recording special treatment. They don’t know how not to live life on easy mode. It’s all women know. Have the men pay for them for everything. Do everything for them, etc and still they look down upon said men as if they’re these ungrateful queens looking down upon a peasant who must do their bidding
Generations before mine men were pretty much not allowed to have feelings if they did they sure as hell couldn't show them. But even today it's still men are taken for granted because they are expected to be a rock. A rock doesn't have feelings. If you ever meet a man who says he doesn't cry just know you met a liar.
Feminism really spent a lot of time pushing the idea that women are oppressed and being held down by men in society. You have to understand that women have spent a long time being treated like birds in cages. Things to be stared at and at the cost of that easier life, they lose autonomy; so their normal is a privileged status. So women look at men and think we are used to being doted the way they are, but that we also have freedom.
There's hardships and challenges on both sides. I know how it is as a man and can only try to understand what women go through. As for one gender having it easier than another is more of a generalization in my opinion. We all have different lives and we're all different.
Try being a woman for a month... You're worried about being used for money? Imagine being used for you body...
It's Easy to weed out those guys (pick-up-ers). I'd almost say it's easier than screening out gold diggers (OK, maybe not but this isn't about a competition).
In fact I got advise from them how they do it and land women (eventually in bed). Basically there is a rush to get you either in his or her home ASAP - like by date number 2 or 3 or whatever. Look for how urgently these guys try to get you naked. Or their dishonest words "i have a hamster at home I need to feed. Come with me and stroke it". But there is no hamster in his home (you notice once inside his home). True story, I was told this by one of them 🤦♀️
lol if you think that's all it takes to be a woman than you don't have a very good understanding of what it takes.
What do you mean?
Could you imagine bleeding from your gentiles for a week at a time every month and having to deal with the pain and other physical ailments that come along with that? Could you imagine having society tell you that you are worth less as a person because you're not a virgin. What about the 20% chance that someone will try to rape you just because you are a female? Then there are the social expectations of not only being productive member in the work force, but also being expected to get married, give birth to and raise children, do all of the cooking, cleaning, managing the household, live up to impossible beauty standards, some how find the time take care of your physical and mental needs, and to be sexually available to your husband when ever he want's to have an orgasm.
You know. Half of the issues you listed can be solved by simply "not giving a damn" and it would be beneficial to consult with a psychologist about it (a paid professional one, not a self-proclaimed one! Their job is to highlight your path towards happiness). That goes for many people. And I don't mean to become an a-hole towards others.
Why? I myself dealt with expectations (expectations for men that is). And I learned to disregard those expectations and do what makes me happy. For me it helped. Therefore I am not having any prejudice against girls or the thought, that they expect much from me. The other guys (on GAG at least that is) are stuck with "be rich, tall, 6 pack, whatever, never cry, drink the kool aid called toxic masculinity and talk bad about feminism".
Regarding "submission to your husband" for a lack of better terms. Don't get married to such a demanding guy.
Congratulations on completely missing the point
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You think when men work we leave our bodies at home relaxing?
@Subarugirl this is one of the rare times that i agree with your basic answer up there for the things that you have mentioned but men and woman both have difficulties in their lives and both cannot be compared to each other because both have negative and positive sides, in my opinion god created both because both needs each other and the best way to be with each other is marriage and ofc here i'm talking about a real sacred marriage where a god makes a husband and his wife as one physically and spiritually and a one family...
The husband and wife will always love each other, support each other and take good care of each other forever...
Also if the wife is a housewife which means she's expected to cook, clean, does the house chores and bla bla bla cause it's her role than the man is expected to work hard outside to pay the bills, bring the food to the table so he feeds his family, does the handy work and many other things because it's his role...
A real man who is married expects his wife to pleasure him sexually when ever he wants as long as the wife is healthy and feeling good cause he wants her tk be pleasured too and they will both make sure to make each other have an orgasm, it's not like the wife doesn't want sex while only the husband wants it, after marriage i'm sure that the wife's sexual needs exceed the man's needs, simply because she's with her husband and because she's comfortable, safe and happy with him than her sexual stamina hits the max!
@Subarugirl Your not expected to always lookmgood for him, he will love and find you beautiful no matter how you look because in his eyes your a princess and will love you the way you are, he knows that you can't always look good for him because a wife has a role too and sometimes she gets exhausted...
Now when it comes to your periods, the husband will make the pain a lot less for his wife by massaging her tummy every night, also by hugging her and kissing her so she feels happy, loved and relaxed, also he will buy her natural juices so he replaces all the blood that she lost with a new one 😌
@TonyMetal___86 "A real man who is married expects his wife to pleasure him sexually when ever he wants " noo….. selfish entitled men expect that, and "I don't feel like it" or "I am not in the mood" are valid excuses.
It is pretty evident that you aren't married and have the concept romanticized.
@Subarugirl are you always rude like that? 🤔 the 1st times i agree with your about the things that tou have mentioned, you come to argue with me about this subject, leaving many things that i've said and only focusing on one that you didn't like...
Miss subaru girl your still a kid 😂
Anyways that's how i think, if you consider it selfish so be it, than i'm selfish...
You just wanna fight me, whenever you see my name it means to you "round 1 FIGHT!! 🤣🤣
What's important is that i wrote my opinion, whether you agree with me or not 😌
@TonyMetal___86 For reference, she is always rude and contentious as hell. A very angry little girl.
@msc545 she's like that because the feminists had poisoned her brain
@TonyMetal___86 Maybe so. Anyway, interacting with her is a waste of time really. She is not very intelligent, and she is extremely belligerent.
@msc545 she's always in a fight mode and aggressive, you tell her many positive good things and she searches between the lines just so she finds something to argue about...
She didn't even say thank you 😏
@TonyMetal___86 It is better to ignore her and block her.
I never thought that way. There are no shortcuts to success, whether for men or women. If he relies on the opposite sex to make money, then he is an incompetent person, and the person who is being used has no brains.
Fair enough.
I think this is dependent upon which aspect of life your talking about. As far as getting any form of help as q man forget about, it's not gonna happen your problems are your problems. But by contrast that also means your taken more seriously in most instances because you are held responsible for your actions more often than women are.
Sorry some chick hurt you dude.
Me, I'm super glad I don't have to deal with the same sort of shit women do, usually from guys like me. I don't think I'd be able to go a week without the knives coming out and the dicks flying off.
Well socially women get treated worse than men equal pay men get payed more for same job in some job relationships women get used sometimes for sex men and women both have a set of things that make the gender tough
Gender pay gap has been debunked a million times man
“Being used for money by the opposite sex” this exactly why men have it better you have better jobs and salaries while women remain in precarit jobs and recieve less money for equal work! Lol jeez i wonder why women seek money in a capitalistic society that is so determined to oppress minorities.
I pray.. that in my next life I come back as a:
Elderly Handicapped black/hispanic lesbian female..
I would run the world!!!
@Capt_Obvious ummmhm i’m sure the only runs you’d take are from from ur 9-5 shift to your 6-12 shift
I think comedian Bill Burr said it best as far as men having it better and making more money, there's a reason for that. If we're on the Titanic and it starts going down do you know where you find yourself as a woman in the lifeboat with the kids. You know where the man's at playing the cello waiting for the damn thing to sink. That comes at a price. If someone breaks in the house who gets asked to go check it out see if they're robbing the place see if they have a gun that's right the man gets to do it. And then again if the house is on fire the fire department comes who do they save first the women and the children what about me I don't want to burn up. Well there's just a couple reasons why men make a dollar more an hour 🤣🤣
@Baredog69 that still doesn’t explain why men get paid more in an office job with the same qualification and same work that women perform, stop the crap and stop excusing ur sexism lol
@Baredog69 I don’t think there are ships sinking in office
The grass is always greener on the other side my friend. I am a man and I wouldn't want to be anything else. I already had two bosses saying they would never hire women. So I wouldn't have my current job if I was one.
Honestly I wouldn't work in a company, which doesn't hire women.
Hopefully I won't be for much longer.
Glad you plan to change jobs.
Field actually. From engineering to finances.
About your question. Men also have have their share of problems in society. Like others said here, both genders have their challenges to face.
I know right?
My question was why some women think so instead of acknowledging, that we all deal with unpleasant things.
Lack of notion and empathy. Best to do is to ignore those women.
That and those gold diggers, that want our money or be paid for
Low level women that don't deserve attention.
you mean honorless women? yeah, i agree
I mean gold diggers.
That is another way to put it, yes.
The only way to make women respect the average man is with war. Veterans of ww2 for example have a mythical presence that men need to be attractive. In fact, data shows that more women start having babies during and after wars, even if they were on the losing side.
Think about the vikings. They were average men. But because of what they did on average they still have the respect of most kids in scandinavia
The question is why women think men hav it easy... you're saying we dont, nobody respects us. They're thinking you do, you haven't done anything worth respecting
They don't understand the stresses, struggles and expectations of a good man, just as we don't understand the struggles, and stresses of being a woman.
reminds me of a powerful statement i have read, it is, the only people who get love, sympathy, and care in the world are children, women, and pets. Adult men have to work for it, children, women, and pets get that by default
As a child I almost never got any of it, so that statement is bullsh.
Girls bear problems on their bodies, period-related stuff. Men have it hard everywhere else, in every place at home or out there, all the time. Plus men have to additionally take care of women too... both financially, mentally. During PMS women inflict a lot of drama, men have to handle that too.
Even a lot of men have to protect women from other men.
I would much rather have men's problems than women's problems.