What does it mean if a female colleague says “why don’t you talk to me? It’s okay if you don’t like me.”?

[Anonymous]

A girl at work came up to me and said “why don’t you speak to me? It’s okay if you don’t like me.”

[kyleelyn199723]

Because it’s kind of an awkward feeling of having a co worker that doesn’t talk to you lol

[Asker]

So why doesn’t she start a conversation with me before assuming I don’t like her? The oness isn’t on me especially with sexual harassment these days.

[Asker]

*onus

[kyleelyn199723]

@asker do you ever think that maybe she is just joking with you? I had a co worker react the same way to me when I walked past him without saying hi. We laughed it off and we are chill. You need to just take a chill pill and learn how to be friendly. It’s not that deep

[Asker]

Not deep it’s just a question. Obviously she’s being serious otherwise she wouldn’t be asking other colleagues why I don’t speak to her. There’s about 10 male co workers and she doesn't go up to all of them asking why don’t you speak to me. That’s why I find it odd she asked me.

[Anonymous]

She just wants you to talk to her more. she's friendly obviously. there's still a gray area if she's romantically interested tho