Why are girls like this?

[Anonymous]

So im 16 and she is too, She constantly nags about me buying her things and she is like "Omg you never take me on dates your no fun" Because im at WORK/school or football. She literally will get MAD if i dont buy her something, Not cheap stuff either. All of my buddies buy there girlfriends things constantly too. I feel like men should not constantly buy his girlfriends shit, Like why should a hardworking guy spoil a girl who literally sits around and does nothing and COMPLAIN about me not buying her things when im literally at work trying to afford it. Why is it the mans job to provide spoil a woman when he literally can barly do anything for him, Literally im almost MGTOW at this point. Every girl i have dated (4) all they do if drain my wallet and never doo anything back and i dont even feel loved.

[Valso]

Congratulations, dude, you found yourself a young gold-digger! If you ask her to find a job of her own, I'm 99% sure she'll say she wasn't born to work and that her boyfriend should pay for every whim of her.
Unfortunately I can't tell you it gets better because it doesn't - all women are gold-diggers, no matter the age. The only difference is that the most will hypocrise about it (they'll say they're not gold-diggers but the first chance she sees someone with more money than you, she'll jump in bed with him without giving it a second thought), whereas some are quite open about it and don't even try to hide that fact.

[Valso]

Update on second sentence - every whim of HERS. The "S" didn't work, apparently.

[sirderpsalot123]

Stop letting her drain your wallet. Spend your money on video games, like a normal 16 year old. If she's demanding that you constantly buy her gifts, that's when you break up with her. Not all girls/women are like this.

[allielynn]

i would suggest telling her that you can't afford those kind of things all the time and if she stays and stops begging you for things then that shows she actually cares about you but if she starts complaining and/or dumps you then that means she never really cared about you in the first place.

[SaoirseS]

Simple answer, don't buy her things. You're not obligated to do so, and she has no right to expect it of you. If your relationship is based on keeping her in material things, then it isn't worth it. Kick her to the curb.

[Macie_Lynne]

Honestly u don’t have to buy her stuff all the time. Like holidays yeah sure, but all the time for no reason, especially when u don’t like it, no. Like some females need to put them selfs in their bfs shoes sometime. Bc ik if a was a guy I wouldn’t want a girl complaining about not getting something all the time. And personally I don’t get why some, not all but some, women can’t just be happy with what they have.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Don't "go MGTOW", just dump this particular girl and enjoy being a teenager while you can. You're too young to be getting nagged to death, and you're definitely too young to be getting super cynical about women as a whole.

[RedStiletto88]

Wow she is selfish and materialistic. The best gifts you can ever give is your time , support, and love.

[Cherry234]

She's not worth it. A good girl/woman isn't going to constantly demand you to buy her gifts. She sounds very materialistic and like a gold digger.

[Hangry06]

Chill.. you're just 16. You don't have to put on your big man pants and act like your wife is destroying your life

[Anonymous]

Toss her ass. she is an entitled spoiled greedy money hungry parasite.
don’t let them start this shit, you are the prize here bud, all she has to offer is vagina.

[barn_stormer]

don't buy them anything, dump them as soon as they ask

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Not all women are like this. She’s materialistic.

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you considered saying "no?"

[_no_one_]

Or you can just say no
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