When girls don't say anything what does that mean?

Question

I apologized (even thou i don't know what i have done wrong) and she still is not talking to me

Platy · Accepted Answer

Look back at your behaviour if it was your fault. Or try to think of some signs she gave, like wanting to talk to you but let it off for later b'cause you seemed busy.
Or maybe another thing is troubling her and she just doesn't want to talk and want some me time.

It will be okay to ask in a polite and composed manner. Respect her silence as well as her opinion. Don't say things that may be hurtful at the moment like she always is the same and doesn't share.. or like What's wrong with all you women? .. If you already don't then its good but if you do, then just know that a person might take it otherwise if they are feeling low. (even at a good mood, this is just too irrational to speak to sb)

Darine123 · Accepted Answer

I mean I’m exactly like that when I’m mad and they don’t say anything you need to just asking her that what’s wrong with her if she’s not saying anything back then just wait for a while then ask her again and say sorry , say sorry as much as you can. Females feeling is the most complicated thing in the world

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Things about women every man should know, but don't:

In this situation:
•You're supposed to know.
•You're a mind reader.
•You'll always be wrong.
•You'll never win.
•You'll never understand them.

In life:
•Her money is hers, yours is ours.
•Denial of sex is ALWAYS a weapon.
•Whining, Complaining, Bitching, Criticizing and Psychological Warfare are genetic.
•Shallowness, Materialism, Comparing to make themselves feel superior is learned.

Now you know. You're welcome.

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

This is your problem: "I apologized (even thou i don't know what i have done wrong)"

There's a few ways to handle this and what you did was probably the only one thats wrong.

Personally if i think its likely something dumb girl problem ill ignore it. Why should i be bothered? you're too sensitive. She can say what it is or leave me out of her girl problems. If i think its serious, ill compel an answer right then and there by putting her over my knee until she says whats bothering her.

SkyCastle90 · Answer

That's the  . This tactic is often used by abusive/toxic people to mold or control their partner. I understand you love your girlfriend and really want to make her happy, it's what anyone would do for someone they love, but you have to understand that this is hurting you; it's hurting you so much you're reaching out to strangers for advice. Please take care.

isayboo · Answer

I'm kinda like that too hate to say bc I know it's annoying to my boyfriend. Just give her time to cool down and try to brighten things up by doing what she likes. Maybe if she like coffee both go on a coffee run. Maybe that will make her comfortable to open up too

perfectt_angel · Answer

Is she acting like she has an attitude or is she acting like she’s mad at you? If she is it’s probably best you ask her what’s wrong because most likely you did or said something even if it was small to you something that you said or did probably bothered her

Heartache0405 · Answer

It means they're not worth your time or effort. They probably want food and are too bitchy to get it themselves like a normal human being. Instead they get angry until you do it for them. And sometimes even then that's not enough. I'd just be happy for the God damn silence

Hairylegs222 · Answer

It's bad immature communication. Communication is key to a successful relationship. When someone is upset, mad, etc over something, it will only make the situation worse by not saying anything to your partner. You have to step up and tell your partner everything! It's also good communication to at least say something like "I don't feel like talking about it right now. Can we later?" Not saying anything at all is also playing mind games. We can't read your mind.

himiko089 · Answer

Because they are trying to figure out all the emotions that they are feeling at the same time. So I suggest cuddle her and silently let her know that you're there for her so when and if she wants to tell you whats wrong she will. Hope this helps. =)

Anonymous · Answer

'I apologized (even thou i don't know what i have done wrong)'

When you do that, it is submissive and a turn off hence the lack of response. No man apologizes lightly, particularly if he has no idea if he's done anything wrong. Doing so places her on a pedestal and communicates fear of loss i. e lack of abundance.

BaldAvenger · Answer

If you don't know what you did, if anything, and she's not talking to you without even the slightest hint as of why, then go on about your business. It may feel a little slimy at first but when she sees your not begging and pleading with you and it isn't bothering you anymore, she'll come around

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

The fact that she's not being clear about why she is upset should tell you she doesn't know how to communicate. Your at least owed an explanation of why she's upset. If not then I would recommend dumping her. there's too many other women out there that will treat you better.

RawIronhide · Answer

You should know, maybe that's the issue. I don't know girls are tough to handle sometimes but realistically I'm sure you're not making a perfect effort. That's ok but you need to do more to figure out why she's upset.

Genie23 · Answer

Maybe she's mad or hurt or she simply isn't interested in talking to you. Was she good friends with you and talked often?

Anonymous · Answer

I hate when girls do this. It means she's immature and lacks basic communication skills. If you apologized and she doesn't want to accept your apology (or explain what you need to do on order to fix whatever the problem is) she isn't worth it. Relationships like this don't last long.

England4eva · Answer

She needs a cooling off period. It’s too intense. Let her have her space. She needs to come to terms with how she feels

chulo1992 · Answer

This might not apply to you... but I was in your shoes, I would think she doesn't want to be bothered anymore... and I would just cut my loses and bail because there are too many other women in the world

Johnsmith119 · Answer

I don't know what that mean but if I were in your shoes, I won't apologize to her when I haven't done anything wrong, just try to talk to her, maybe it's something very personal.

sheikalana · Answer

It means she's immature and passive aggressive or is simply not interested in talking to you.

kellytheman · Answer

I feel sometimes girls might hold a grudge a little bit for what you did and if you didn't know what you did it might take longer. Just wait it out then have great make up sex.

Andres77 · Answer

When they actually STOP flapping their gums? When they STOP running their yap? When they ACTUALLY shut the fuq up? Run, dude...

annabananna · Answer

She is upset and needs time to herself to cool down.

Anonymous · Answer

she is either mad at you, isn't interested in talking to you at the moment, or she is hurt, i suggest leave her alone or even think about what you can do to make her happy

Anonymous · Answer

Just give her space and try to reflect on what you had said/done

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It means she's being a cocky brat. And never apologize for what you didn't do wrong.

michael1469 · Answer

Oh man... she is gonna crush your balls... for something.

MissEm96 · Answer

You’ve done something so upsetting that she doesn’t even want to talk about it. It must have been bad

Anonymous · Answer

They are holding something in and hopefully you’ll remember what it is you did that’s bothering them or what you forgot

MrLizard · Answer

She doesn't want to look needy

boobliker · Answer

the small brain is working hard

Iron_Man · Answer

Mean bitch kind of girl

IncognitoBandito · Answer

Might just be in a foul mood

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same as when guys don't say anything

In_Trance · Answer

doesn't necessarily mean anything

ALISHEHZADA · Answer

Because she nothing feel comfortable with guy

FakeNIK · Answer

You'll never know

TrillXHippy · Answer

I’ll never know

dragoblack · Answer

She's mad

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