When girl doesn’t talk?

[Anonymous]

She and I are colleagues. She did love me but I rejected her. It’s largely due to my fear of being in a relationship. I ignored her as well and made fun of her feelings for me. She was clingy.
Fast forward last month she connected with me on Instagram and I made the conversation all about me and didn’t let her speak even though she begged me for a minute.

Now she is in my office as my colleague in my own team. The worst part is she acts like we never know each other.

Even if she is alone she doesn’t sit with me for coffee nor talk to me. Even our interactions are through office communication channels and I barely hear her speak to me. Although I can assure she is very good friends with the rest of the team. She doesn’t even look at my cubicle even by mistake.

She acts like I never existed and ignore my presence. Even my pleasantries like ‘Hi’ are met with cold and short reply.

[Anonymous]

Well what did you expect form her? You treated her bad and this is what you get.

It is good you managed to do some self-reflection inside you but you made fun of her, told her you don't care.

If someone told YOU: I don't like/love you, you know you are being made fun of all around the work-place and you notice how would you feel? You lack empahty.

The thing is do you care about and like her?

If the answer is yes try a way to work it out because you have to achieve things.

[Asker]

I haven’t made fun of her at workplace but with our common mates. Yet she treated me wi the love. But since the chase wasn’t there, I left her.
I still don’t know if I love her but I can’t stand the sight of her flirting with others (guys) or being friendly with others and hanging out with them.
It feels like it would have been better if she at least acknowledge my presence there.

[Opinion Owner]

"you don't know id you love her but can't stand her talking with other guys" don't you see it? Your problem is that you don't admit and neglect your feeling. Maybe you had trauma in the past and cannot see the truth. Find yourself a new girl and move on

[laly520]

move on from it
u've messed up n she chose to cut off toxicity

[Anonymous]

Life is too short for time wasters. Find yourself a new girl.