Is a woman's sex & aesthetic appeal overated?

[xcheetahx]

Do you think women are really sexy and even really aesthetically pleasing/beautiful as much as they're shown/projected/seen in society or its all over rated because of men's attraction towards them by the male dominated society?

I do feel women are actually really sexy and aesthetically pleasing/charming as much as they're projected/considered/shown

I feel their sex appeal & aesthetic charm/beauty is over rated because of male dominated society

In addition to option B I feel men also have quite nice sex appeal & aesthetically pleasing

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[Kainguru]

I think it's far more nuanced than that. Attractive vs 'conventionally attractive' are very different things. For most guys there is a world of difference between acknowledging someone on the TV etc is 'attractive' and real life person they find attractive - because, believe me, it really is different strokes for different folks. eg: a group of guys could all agree that a certain celebrity is attractive but totally disagree when it comes to (prospective) partners.

There is also a difference between attractive when you just want to hook up and attractive when you want something more than that. eg: the lady I am interested in at the moment assumed it was one of her more notable assets that first attracted me to her - the truth is those assets were neither here nor there, it was actually her smile and her eyes that first made want to know her better (TBH I don't still don't think she believes me but it's the god honest truth - to this day I still get that 'wow' feeling when she has that smile/eyes)

Looking at it objectively - if physical aesthetics were as important as 'society' claims (and I believe such claims to be the overrated opinions of the select few who get publish 'their' opinions as representative of everyone else) then we guys would always have had different girl friends/partners, overtime, that look the same. You'd be surprised at what guys consider 'their type', it's more often than not what you think it is.

One caveat, I'm talking about adults not hormone driven teenagers.

[uwu_princess]

It's overrated af 🤦‍♀️

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