They are running around trying to compete with men and be masculine on one hand and, on the other hand, doing all other stuff that push men away. Like online hoeing, being ran through weekly and using botox on lips, eyebrows, and bbls. Which is beyond gross.
Men don't care about how much money you make trying to be independent from onlyfans which by the way, you have to explain to your kids eventually.
Femininity is the best asset you have as a woman. No good being a fake beauty with sh! t personality and a lot of baggage from x 000 guys who run through you.
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Thanks to everyone who answered. Note. Feminists always justify everything and try to protect their narrative. Conclusion: society will never accept the truth nor is it ready for it. But there are still some honest people around.
Does today's generation of women understand how attractive feminity is it to men?
I'm a technical manager and the only woman on the managerial team. I speak the technical language and translate it into business. Do I compete? None of the other men, including the CTO (my boss), understand the technicalities I'm responsible for. Do I compete? If yes... with whom?
nature gave me a powerful brain... should I leave it in the kitchen? From my perspective, it would be a huge waste... and working in tech is a lot of fun... should I give it up? Why? For what?
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Your choice of career might not earn you respect to a degree, but your right to have a choice is respected. You probably are the only person who is competent in your firm, but in your field, there are a ton of people who don't get an equal opportunity because they're not women. So your case isn't an exception to the rule.
I didn't get the opportunity... I fought for it... my career started over 20 years ago when there were no women in tech... and each of us who wanted to work in that field had to fight for everything and prove we were good enough.
If you didn't get the opportunity, you would not have been in the job. So that's an oxymoronic statement. But I didn't say your case isn't an exception to the rule. You may be beneficial to your firm, but to society as a whole, you're not.
Being beneficial to today's society doesn't mean a step forward. In fact, one would think it's actually detrimental when speaking of where society is heading as a whole. Your job aside, you can't deny that there is an issue and it started at homes.
Well, it's a matter of understanding, and sometimes, a person's narrative is all they care about, but it doesn't invalidate the societal issue. Well, at least you admit contributing. Where you contribute to society or the issue at hand, that is something no one expects you to internalise.
I think you have to be more clear. What is wrong with what I do? Where lies the problem? And what is this societal issue you mentioned?
And you know a woman staying at home still can do botox while a working one will stay natural... those things aren't connected, you know. So, please, be more explicit about the problem you see.
The problem is very clear. You reciprocate the question and perhaps felt uncomfortable with it that you wanted to make it clear that your career isn't part of the problem. m, or at least, to make it known so you can get out of being uncomfortable with the question. Notice I used the word "choice" in my early reply, and that should have indicated that your career is your choice. Outside of your knowledge, no one would have considered it a part of the problem. But they say if the shoe fits... the problem lies with how feminism has wrecker society for profit, and just because you're a beneficiary of it doesn't mean the problem is nonexistent. Your issue is universally the same as most women. You're too selfish to see the big picture. According to your understanding, you can still work and be feminine. No one knows you personally to judge you like that. One can only go off your response, which gives out "the question makes uncomfortable and I wanna defend a narrative that only suits me " Again, the question above highlighted a bunch of issues that are a product of lack of femininity and toxic feminism. If you think your work is part of the problem, it probably, if you don't, then be it. Just be honest with yourself.
you see, you are very unclear with your explanation. You still haven't written what the problem is. You use generalizations like "the problem lies with how feminism has wrecked society for profit," but what does it really mean? what are the symptoms of that problem?
And don't throw your insecurities on me. I achieved everything I wanted and even more. My kids are adults already. I have a great job where I grow. I don't feel uncomfortable with your question. I'm simply curious where you see any problem.
Did the question above not highlight the effect of feminism and lack of evident femininity and what it led women to do for independence? I think it did clearly, hence everyone's response. You, on the other hand, are the only person who claims to be still unclear. If the question did not relate to you, why did you respond to it? Perhaps you wanted someone to confirm that your choices aren't part of the issue for validation.
feminism has no impact on femininity... you mentioned botox, fake beauty, shitty personality, and many men in the past... - botox's invention and use were unrelated to feminism; beauty corrections have been known for some time already, so nothing new. Personality and past partners are definitely individual things. If any person (woman or man) wants to have many partners, then they will have. It's called freedom of choice.
The funny thing is that most beauty corrections do bored women sitting at home; those working are rather natural with simple makeup... Also, women work to grow; money is important, but it is not the only motivation.
Nothing you wrote is correct. "Feminism has no impact on femininity."😂 You made me laugh. Fair play to you 👏. There is a fine line between Independence and too much time and freedom on one's hand. Women label that as Independent, not men. And according to you, how dare am I to comment on it. Is that what you class as hate? 🤦🏽♂️ if you're going to quote someone, at least be accurate. you're really are half feminist and have deluded.
"Women work to grow" "Being ran through is freedom of choice"
What a great set of morals 👌🏽
Wow, now I understand why you tried to tie your career to the question. by the way, just out of curiosity, have you had a bbl or work done to your face too? 🙄
You said it. They don’t care. They said it… they don’t care. At this point.. what can men do to regain their power? I am a woman… and feeling sad about how this society is heading. there are a lot of strong women who still maintain their femininity… but lots don’t give a crap. They fight with men all the time. Men just shut down. Now what? 🤦♀️
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When a natural disaster or a world war happens. Those who have been selfish and contributed to the problem will feel it first. Men have always had a role in society a massive. Hell, there wouldn't be no society. And women also. And I addressed females as women because men do appreciate women. We just don't appreciate girls who probably will learn to be women when it's too late
People are actually individuals, but its safe to say that the women who fit that mold are probably lesbians or asexual.
Women who are generally attracted to men, usually do not make efforts to be less attractive to men or push men away.
Lastly, some if what you said is contrary to your point (only fans is generally paid for by men), or irrelevant (income level).
I agree that those cosmetic procedures are gross though, and that there are women who act like those memes.
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Good points. Though, onlyfans is only paid for by men as a gender who happened to be the consumers but just because the consumers are simpy males by gender who can't control their sexual urges, doesn't mean they're worthy of being men to be compared to men who built society.
People who pay for sexual attention are idiots. But my point was they still pay, and despite that being a problem, it means the woman is still getting what she wants when selling herself like that.
Feminism taught women to hate womanliness, and it taught them to hate other women who don't agree with militant feminist beliefs. Feminism also taught women to pursue the hook up because "why can't a woman sleep around if men can?"
You're right that society isn't ready for that conversation, that's why you have to make it ready. People need to hear the truth whether they like it or not.
I think the main issue especially in the younger generation is that masculinity and feminity are terms everybody defines for themselves. There are no clear definition what is feminine what masculine is no longer a well known fact but a point of view. That´s the fundamental problem of modern dating women look on society and online culture and other women to get to know what feminity is guys do it similarly they go to other guys.
Femininity is a social construct, it depends on who you ask, most people might have a similar idea of what it means, but people will all have opinions that are at least a tiny bit different.
I assume you're referring to women doing more stereotypically "manly" things today, but a lot of men now think that's attractive as well.
Men use and abuse women, they always have. I suppose women are just sick of always having to live by men's rules. So now they are making things bad by going the extreme opposite way lol.
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At least you put forward both sides to the argument. Unlike bias people who only defend one narrative that suits them. So Yes, there are a lot of pricks out there who ruin it for everybody, both men and women.
Women are individuals. Some do, some don't. For me, a woman should be girly and a bit bubble-headed (especially if she's got a GREAT body) but somewhat brainy and able to hold her own with the boys as a touch football, basketball and/orsoftball buddy and best of all, a sports fan.
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If you can't distinguish between girls and women, then you either don't understand the problem and its effect or you're a part of the problem.
We don't live just to be attractive to men anymore
I think most women would rather choose their own happiness than be what a man wants and be unhappy
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That is what a 27 years old would say. I expect nothing less. The truth of the matter is, just like everybody, you'll grow and learn that men and women are here for each other, not to be against one another. Your ego may get in the way, and you might be conditioned by today society to be selfish, independent, or whatever you want to call it, but upon future reflection, you'll learn that you served no purpose and everything you've done was all b. s.
What does my age have to do with anything? Sure we can be here for each other as long as men aren't objectifying women 😂 I refuse to ever be treated like that from a man. I don't live just to please men. And wtf I have served a purpose in my life by having 5 childern. That's not bs at all. Probably better than whatever the fuck most other people are doing with their lives
Your age determines how you think and what stage you're in life. No one is saying please a man or men. Where did that come from? 😂 yeah, surely the example of women on the above memes aren't objectified... pft. femininity is defo nonexistent. You have 5 kids at 27 ? 🤯
And your obviously trying to turn women into objects for men. If not then I'm not sure why you are complaining about us not looking or acting feminine. And yes I'm pregnant with my 5th right now
Us? Lol, I'm not sure a pregnant woman you're qualified to speak for all women. 4 kids and one on the way, I suggest you focus on them. This site is for discussions such as this one. Women bring it, and men bring it too. If you class that as complaining, then God help us haha
I'm not sure how me being a mom makes this any different. I'm probably more qualified to speak on this because I have acutally kept a man/a steady baby daddy for all my kids. And this is obviously just you complaining
You see, haha, I say one thing , you turn it into something else. An old trick. Did I say you're not qualified or not qualified to speak for all women. Tut tut. Pregnant women definitely shouldn't be online, but I get it. 4 kids and happy husband, and you still are bored. Internet will only stress you out. Go and lay down
BS in generalizing women such as 304's or hoes, women just marry men to divorce and take their money, women have to fit a certain society expectations of men to be considered feminine.
And that is b. s. According to you 😂 sorry to let you know that what you call b. s has been the model for society since the start. Are you sure you're not a feminist? 😂
I don't see it outside in the real world. I see people working, dating, marrying, raising their kids, buying groceries and other stuff going on.
People in the real world are busy trying to live their lives, not this feminism ish that has been around over 100 years already and hardly no one pays attention to those women except you weirdos online 24/7
Feminism has been around for 100 years 😂 good one. I get it your bias cos you got a daughter. Still, the wrong doesn't write the wrongs out there, and just because someone points it out or comments on it, it doesn't mean they're just as bad.
If you say so. when someone usually attaches cool to their name, it negates how uncool and awkward they are, and you, my friend, have proven to be just that lol
If i wanted attraction, would i be anonymous 😂😂 the question was: Do you know how attractive femininity is not do you care about attracting men.. triggered anonymous 😂
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