Why do Girls’s need a lot of things to be done for her to get turned on compared to what it takes to turn a Guy on?

[Finchie40]

It seems like every girl I been with eventually needs a whole list of things to be done before she gets on her knees , she overlooks all the little things I do for her , but in the beginning it took barely nothing to turn her on , it seems the longer I stay with a girl, her to do list gets bigger and bigger When mine pretty much stayed the same , all I want from her is love and respect and her to want me like I want her she could come walking in my bedroom in a thong and give me those eyes and whatever she needs done I will do without a problem if she shows me the same respect I do to her but instead I get a to do list , she comes up with a whole list of things that need done to turn her on again , No matter what I do for her the list gets bigger and bigger , to the point it’s like she expects me to be every profession there is , a mechanic, an electrician a plumber a cook , etc why are girl’s like this? , I am a great provider , I work hard every day I make a good living , I I do things for her even though I sometimes think what is your legs broken but I do it cuz I respect and love her , I tell her she is beautiful every day , all I ask for is some affection and intimacy without having to ask for it , when I feel like I have to ask for it then I resent her and feel like then fuck you then there is the door don’t let it hit ya in the ass if I don’t make you happy from all the things I already do for you then apparently I am not the man for you. Why do Girl’s feel like they are obligated to have this threshold over men to turn them on? If I forget to do something it’s like it’s the end of the world but when she forgets to do something it’s fine , I don’t make a big deal out of things cuz no one is perfect , it’s like Girl’s hate to admit they are wrong

[wheresmrcunnunglis]

Yeah you're getting taken advantage of and she is clearly not physically attracted to you which sucks because that hurts.

Sounds like this relationship started off as a one-night stand and transitioned into a real one. Is that correct? If not, then that behavior is even more bizarre.

From personal experience, the behavior shared here reminds me of how I was in the last months before I ended things with my ex. I just kept reflexively adding more things that were needed to turn me on before the main course was needed. And the reason behind it was that their personality became such a damn turn-off that it just made me instantly unaroused more and more. Messed up? Sure is.

I hope you talk to your partner and let her know your concerns. Write it down before you do and have an actual question to ask her so she doesn't try to go off-topic or switch the situation around on you.

Best of luck.

[Finchie40]

I told her to leave me if she isn’t happy with the way I am and told her to go move on , I have talked to her plenty of times and expressed my feelings of concern to why she does this to me and told her I am ok if she wants to end things if I am not the man for her but she turns it around and doesn’t leave says she loves me , I laugh and say well if you love me you wouldn’t be treating me this way , part of me
Feels she just does this to get arise from me , she suffers from Anxiety and Depression and I ADHD , I told her to get help or I am moving on cuz this isn’t normal , she apologizes and comes running back to my arms , so I feel a lot of it is do to her mental illness , it seems when I pull away and focus on myself she comes running to me , like she likes the game of chase , when she isn’t having episodes she is the sweetest girl to me and does nice things for me , and tells me loving things that I am the nicest guy she ever been with , so I think a lot of her negativity stems down from her mental illness , cuz it’s like being with Dr Jekyll Mr Hyde , which sucks but so far she has been loyal and faithful to me I think , that’s the only reason I tolerate her shit , if she cheated on me it would be over , so her loyalty and her kindness when she isn’t having episodes is the only thing that is making me hold on to her , She knows I take commitment seriously and that I don’t fuck around , and I told her where the door is

[CarolineW]

She's high maintenance. She has a high opinion of herself. Dump her and find someone who appreciates you and doesn't make demands. Simples.

[TheFlak38]

They demand things only from their armies of white knights. For the man of their irrational expectations there is no list of demands. They just fuck him as if they are the last whore in this world.

[Anonymous]

Simply put, women tend to have much weaker libidos, so it takes a lot more to start their engines.

[Midnight_Kiss]

Sounds like you're letting yourself be taken advantage of, a relationship is supposed to be give and take on both sides.

[BellaM]

Girl is complicated!

[Donttrustmetho]

Bro watch this please

[Finchie40]

I don’t see anything?