Do you think that a women like to complain?

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I complain about almost everything, small to big things and I see a lot of women being like this,

Malgaran · Accepted Answer

From what I seen and experienced It would seem so, naturally not all women. But it can get pretty abusive if you like to complain a lot. Any kind of extreme can be bad really. Which from what I seen in these comments, you should certainly not dismiss your own complaining as simply expressing yourself, like that's all their is to it.

To better explain everything. I seen several couples over the years and I experienced this myself as well where you basically break your back to please the woman cause she complains about everything and you do everything you can in your power to make things okay. In some ways it can lead to feeling like you are walking on eggshells, where you have to go through obstacle courses to try not to upset your SO. Which is a form of abuse. My parents is also a good example, my mother would complain about everything non-stop. My father would always try and do everything he could, but he never got a thank you for anything he did. My mother treated my stepfather the same too, always complain, lash out until whatever was solved or fixed. No thank you, or any show of appreciation, the only reward was the silence of not complaining. Which is again just abuse.

I think a lot of men in general have become so detached this way too, it's seen as normal, even though it shouldn't be. But typical that too really, these are scars you can't see, so society in general dismiss it.

I personally hate complaining. Growing up with my mother, she made me always feel like I was at fault or guilty for things that happen on the other side of the planet. I felt so damn frustrated too in relationships where I gone to such extremes where I feel like I sacrificed my soul, my sanity and well being to end complaining while they couldn't give a rats ass or lift a finger to make anything better for me.

Anyway.. I honestly encourage everyone to be conscious about their complaining.

kellytheman · Accepted Answer

Yeah i just think us guys do stupid things or don't think about your feelings. I think maybe most women complain because your emotions or feelings are taking control over you.

Prezzi3 · Accepted Answer

Thats the issue right there. When a woman speaks about something that’s disturbing or annoying her, it’s complaining. In a relationship, complaining is good. When your woman is complaining instead of looking at it like nagging, look at it like she cares. If she didn’t care, she wouldn’t be complaining m. She would just stay quiet and leave. When a woman is quiet, you know she is done. If your girl is complaining about something, don’t look at it as she nagging you. You at it like she cares enough about the relationship to voice the issues she sees, so y’all can work on a resolution together.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I am a complainer and I guess I always have been. I guess I complain the most when I ask someone to do something, explain how I need it done, and they screw it up. I complain when things are not fair because I believe in fairness for all. Other than that, I am pretty cool with things.

HighlyVolatile · Answer

I think it depends on the culture. Here women don't so much since we emphasize a dichotomy of control idea as found commonly in Buddhism and Stoicism.
https://blog.gaijinpot.com/beauty-phrase-shikata-ga-nai/

>> “Shikata (ga) nai” or “Shou (ga) nai” is the Japanese phrase meaning “it can’t be helped.” I would personally translate the phrase as: “It is what it is. We don’t always have control over our lives.”

>> There are times we need to just accept reality because we don’t always have control over every situation. [...] Although there are many things that we cannot control, we are in control of our responses. [...] Again, the balance is very important. Japanese people are more conditioned to say “shikata ga nai” and endure with uncomfortable situations instead of speaking up to fix the issue. The mentality is strongly linked to the repressed nature of the Japanese society that values the harmony and the peace.

gfedcba · Answer

Society in general complains too much - it's someone or something else's job to make sure I feel as high as if I were on a permanent heroin trip all the time - any discomfort is unacceptable, and the cause of it must be destroyed, refer to this headline for example:

"UW-Madison to remove 70-ton boulder some view as reminder of campus' racist past"

people complain because a rock is to blame for evoking unpleasant images/thoughts/feelings in their minds - there is no physical situation, just a rock in front of them... forgive me for thinking people like to complain when they will literally find ANYTHING to be unsatisfied about lol.

MCheetah · Answer

I can tell English isn't your first language. But yes, women like to complain WAY more than men do. If a man complains, he gets thrown under the bus (but both women and ESPECIALLY other men). If a woman complains, it's a day of the week ending in "Y." It just how it is.

Frankly, I believe people have the right to complain, but ONLY if they have a solution or proposal to what they're complaining about. If they're just pointlessly complaining and can't offer a solution to their problem, then they should just learn to shut the hell up, get a diary, or go to a therapist or something.

OpenClose · Answer

I mean kinda, yeah. Mostly I feel like it isn't so much about the content of the complaint and more about everything else. Almost like she's trying to express a bunch of non-verbal communication and just needs some words to do it with. The information will come rapid-fire so I tend to forget it pretty quickly but most of the time it's less about absorbing the information and more about how she feels about it.

I feel like a lot of girls' communication is like this. Less about what she is saying and more about having words to express how she's feeling. I grew up with sisters and live with a few girls in college for a while, so that was the gist I got from it.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Please do not take wrong inspirations.

Women or even men like to complain about anything they can.
It depends on the personality and hence you should not generalize this characteristic to a particular gender or any common group.

Since you admitted you complain, I also have hopes for some improvements in you.

megabamse · Answer

Yes. Woman let out stream by complaining. Also a woman don't want to hear solutions to they complaining. Men let out steam by physical activities, like workout or something. Men likes to find solutions to problems. So it's a weird thing for us when woman complain in the way they do.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

If you give anyone enough space they will complain a lot, I don't think women do it more, some guys make me question how tragic their life is by how frequently they complain, I myself complain a lot but try to make it comedic to not bother anyone as I find it stress relieving

MarkRet · Answer

Women have those hormonal ups and downs that affect their moods, and some control it better than others.

AwesomeCookie · Answer

Yes women complain. Not because they like to it's in their nature to speak about their feelings and be open and most of the time it's just literally speaking aloud, not looking for a response or answer just simply need to vent it aloud.

Kaamraj · Answer

Men and women solve problems in different ways. Women, in general lack the physical strength and vocational experience to rectify problems. So the solution is to exert pressure on their social circle until someone solves it.

SSJBrutus · Answer

Everyone likes to complain, way more than they should. Without question the amount of complaining on both sides is obnoxious. But women complaints are heard much more loudly because the world we live in.

Lucy68 · Answer

I rarely complain/try not to, my dad on the other hand said my mom complains a lot and she'll say the same about him. In my opinion both sexes complain

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah women love to complain and do nothing to fix/change it. A man will fix it for her 😂

It's hilarious when women complain about their jobs so much, but then when I ask her "If you're so unhappy with your job, why don't you do something about it? Or better yet find another job that makes you happy and not complain about it?" She gets mad at me 🤣🤣

Anonymous · Answer

You ask this question on a place which is home for retarded gag incels who think they are opressed in western countries and so spam us with their anti woman questions/takes after reddit ban them? I literally see min. one incel post a day on gag. They act like they get gang raped, killed, forced married to an old fuck, etc like women in middleeastern/Asian countries

IsoUser · Answer

To be perfectly honest I think that girls tend to focus on the small things rather than the bigger picture, In any event just my humble opinion.

AviatorTom · Answer

Women believe they are always right, so when they're wrong, they can't admit it, so they either complain, or blame someone else, usually their SO. We guys just have to put up with that.

Sook420 · Answer

I think most women complain about majority of things that are negative that can be resolved or can be worked on to better their surroundings, relationships, etc. I don't see women enjoy complaining, it's more of an expression of our feelings and concerns in their lives

mb120101 · Answer

I don’t think they like it I just think they get annoyed too easily sometimes. They need to learn to handle criticism like males do constantly.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Some men and some women like to complain. Most people hate problems and drama. I personally drama, and I hate it when people complain about things without wanting to fix the problems.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

"Like" is probably the wrong word, but women do complain a lot. It seems like women's ideas of solving a problem often involve crowdsourcing men to solve problems.

dustybiker · Answer

Everyone complains until they get called on it (usually at a young age) become aware and stop. Both genders whine. lol

Sour-rose · Answer

Yes. My mom will not stfu. She'll complain until she dies. Even if she has no voice, she'll find a way to use her hands to complain.

Crankor · Answer

I've known plenty that just do it out of habit. Maybe because they feel like it's their meaningful way of talking about something? *shrugs* not saying there can't be legitimate reasons, but the context changes the perceived effect

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe some. I think more accurately that women are NEVER satisfied. And some are more inclined to verbalize it than others. Lol

kuladiamond · Answer

Everyone loves to complain ecpecially on the internet.

Godsvengeance · Answer

Of course they do. Men and women process feelings and their environments differently and this is one of those differences (generally speaking of course)

sp33d · Answer

Some people do. Complainers aren't exclusively women. As much as I've worked with people in their early 20s, it's actually the women that tend to be far more reliable and less whiny.

n4meAL · Answer

Usually men like to hide their sad feelings unlike women, to look manly

Waldoe · Answer

mmm I noticed that I do the same thing yesterday... I am trying to chane my focus and only mention the things that are good and change the bad things, NOT complain...

Jackblue · Answer

I think it is a stress coping mechanism. Women don't feel as in control of the world around them as men.

Nagatoro · Answer

I don't like to, but I do complain a lot about the most irrelevant shit.

skyeee_ · Answer

can't speak for all women but i don't even express my problems to begin with

EnglishEuropean · Answer

Not just women, I know men who do that too. These are people whose glass is half-empty.

notwoke · Answer

Yes, its in their nature. They have all of society's advantages and still need feminism

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Because women are more expressive with their emotions while men are not.

Anonymous · Answer

women are just boring so they wanna complain about something

anton_dee · Answer

These women are a pain to everyone around them. I am with one like this and it is HELL !!!

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Women just like to talk. Cluck away you crazy hens!

msc545 · Answer

Complaining constantly is one of the worst things about women.

Anonymous · Answer

I think yes, but I like to complain too sometimes so I can understand why some people do it. Do it a lot and you will be called annoying.

pixie215 · Answer

i think these days everyone likes to complain

Anonymous · Answer

Why do women complain about me trying to look up their skirts and dresses 😭

lightbulb27 · Answer

It’s personality and choice.

humanearth · Answer

I think they are trained at birth to complain

SurströmmingLover · Answer

Yeah, I think it's not a secret :P

Phoenix98 · Answer

Now a days everyone likes to complain.

jasco · Answer

I think a lot of women do like to do so.

legalboxers · Answer

as a guy I think we fail to listen..

TheFlak38 · Answer

Women love drama. It gives them life.

Luopio27 · Answer

Most humans complain about something to someone.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Yes, because they love drama

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

Women like to "meow" 😺

Iron_Man · Answer

Oh yeah for sure

nitsuj86 · Answer

American women do

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Depends. Women are different

Anonymous · Answer

Seems like it from my experience

checkingavailability · Answer

Yes.

Desconhecida · Answer

Sadly, yes.

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