Why do women complain so much more than men?

[Vegasrunner]

[Shiprex]

Because they have things to easy that any minor bump in the road is enough to give rise to a major trauma that needs to be addressed.
By finding fault the need for validation would only come after the world has accepted their feelings are present and should be known.

[NicholasRedone]

@Shiprex hell hath (has) no fury like a woman scorned. Yeah they can be

[Anonymous]

Emotions. Hormones. Aren’t mentally or physically as strong as men. Some women are mentally strong, but a lot of them aren’t. Can’t tell you how much drama, how much problems the women have that I work w. I work in a female dominated field. Medical. Never heard the term mental health day till I started working in medical. It’s always the women who are taking “mental health” days. The men who do take them are usually gay, so more feminized.

[NicholasRedone]

Do you find that women really get a little, hmmm, temperature rising if their crush is nearby or they're not - sometimes I've observed women who seemed so unique in my presence and then they'd like shift randomly as if anger suddenly boiled in them but gratefully didn't channel it to me ; either I'm a pisser (aka an annoying or odd fellow, but no creeper) or - or something else or coincidence. Strange, huh? And these aren't ugly women chicks I speak of past lol

[NicholasRedone]

Like they may take it out after talking to me with someone nearby like telling a janitor off lol or telling someone else there's a problem while I walk off merrily oblivious and smiley - and it's just odd. Cold. Yet odd...

[NicholasRedone]

Maybe I'm just that guy lol 😆 ahhh ladies

[naartjie]

I’ve seen men complain worse than women. Maybe it’s just my area but guys here, all they do is complain and so much more than women.

[Vegasrunner]

@naartjie That's strange, but we can't focus on anecdotal evidence. In general women complain a lot more than men.

[naartjie]

Your opinion, I’ve seen men do it more🤗 that’s also this generation of “men” where they want to be women so bad. Probably part of equality I don't know but yes men do it just as much as women, if not more. Just sharing my opinion

[Vegasrunner]

@naartjie Why are you surrounding yourself w/ men that want to be women?

[naartjie]

Ah… that’s how the world is going lol. Men are becoming more feminine and women becoming more masculine. I can’t escape the way the world is going. But genuinely men are becoming weaker and weaker and I love men so it’s sad to see.
Like you’ll ask a guy why he hasn’t bought you flowers or taken you on a proper date and they’ll hit you with “well you haven’t done any of that for me” …😐 where are these men who lead, court ect… instead they just complain and cry lol

[Vegasrunner]

@naartji I think I understand your confusion you're comparing a 24 yro woman to a 24yro man. At 24 most mens value is as low as it can be while a woman's is as high as it will be. The world always is and always will be run by Alpha men, the US election should have taught you that, however it takes men longer to acquire the things that provide them status, as you age you'll start noticing the change.
Not taking a women out who doesn't provide value is simply a sign of a man understanding his value, and not wanting to waste his time, which is actually an extremely masculine trait.

[naartjie]

Oh no sweetie, I’m not comparing 24 year old women to 24 year old “men” haha x
I’m talking about men in general. I not only work with hundredss of men ages 21-65 but my personal life I’m surrounded by men too.
Personally, as a woman of value, I don’t appreciate men putting in zero effort because they want 50/50 or equality and majority of “men” are like that nowadays.
If a man is wanting to date me then I shouldn’t have to ask him to pick me up, open my door, buy me flowers, plan dates… if he’s not doing any of that- if he can’t even plan a date, how can he plan a future? He’s gonna whine cause I didn’t buy him flowers? Shame…
If a woman doesn’t “provide value” then he shouldn’t even be talking to the woman- you can tell this from the day you meet someone from how they talk and carry themselves but that’s not what I’m talking about, I’m talking about when a man and woman are interested in each other- most men aren’t wanting to do these things for women because they aren’t being done for them. It’s crazy! We’re now having to court the man when he’s meant to be doing all these things and no I’m not talking about USING. A man providing for a woman he wants isn’t using him, it’s literally courting.
It’s definitely got to do with many factors- feminism, women having to work because living has become incredibly expensive, lazy mentality etc
What’s not masculine is when a man cries because he has to buy flowers, open doors, plan dates, etc because it’s “too much” and they’re getting “nothing”… like buddy you’re meant to be a MAN but they complain about having to do these things for women they apparently want and often it’s either because they aren’t getting it in return or because they aren’t getting laid (buying a woman you love gifts doesn’t mean you get sex- we aren’t hookers) or because they’re literally too lazy to and don’t care enough.

[naartjie]

Men always saying they want a woman to cook, clean, have kids, can’t have high body count etc but most men can’t even provide a house, build, protect, provide- they literally want 50/50 from relationships while women take full responsibility for domestic labour. The way the world is going is a scam.
A world truly lost to what it is being a man and a woman and how both are completely different get need each other.

[Vegasrunner]

@naartjie You're obviously not talking about men in general because you instantly brought up men you work with, and know in your personal life. Have you ever considered that men don't put in effort w/ you because you can easily be replaced? You're making the mistake most women make of believing that men should sacrifice what they want for your wants, that's unrealistic and is only going to prevent you from getting the man you want to committ to you. Relationships are transactional and if you're not bringing value to a HV man, we're not likely to invest in you. in my opinion you're struggles stems from a delusional understanding of relationships like most women you undervalue male wants want while over valuing yours. Bring a man doesn't mean providing w/out any ROI, this is simply a shaming tactic women use to attempt to get what they want w/out providing value in return.

[Vegasrunner]

@naartjie I understand your frustration however unfortunately it's not a reflection of the world, rather a reflection of your failures. What men really want from women is youth, beauty and to not be a whore. It's on you to preserve your value in the hopes of attracting a HV while you still have those things. As men age and gain more experience, they learn to tolerate less bs from women, which leaves a lot of women in the situation you're in, frustrated and confused.

[naartjie]

You sound like a dumbass lol but you have a good day!

[Vegasrunner]

@naartjie Its unfortunate you feel that way, however I'm not the one complaining. You need to look internally and identify your flaws first.

[Summeroflove]

Well any real relationship is 50/50 and there are narcissists of botj sexes who demand a lot more then they could ever give.

Even a traditional relationship both people work equally as hard in different roles. Or should…. Unfortunately many people have fantasies and ideas that are just false. They can’t connect with someone else emotionally.

Everyone wants something different so it’s important to find someone compatible. Obviously you’re not narcissistic but some people are

[Summeroflove]

But some women also think being a stay at home mom is sitting around the house all day doing nothing but bitching and blowing her husbands money.

Look if a man is injured let’s say he works a high risk job…. And he becomes injured. A woman who truly loves that man would never leave him over something he can’t control.

Men with money just are extremely careful because there are narcissistic gold diggers out there. Who will do nothing but make him miserable.

But there’s men too who want a woman whose essy to control. They slept with 100s of women. But want a virgin…. Like any virgin woman would be grossed out

[virtualwasp]

Dont have enough to do. An Idle Mind Is the Devil's Playground

[blackeagle007]

And women crave drama

[MisterWack]

I’ve seen men complain & bitch too, we are human and of course we complain & bitch about everything.

To the guys that complained about their cars not starting up, complaining when someone doesn’t automatically agree with them, complaining about the government, complaining about the job, complaining about the Mrs., complaining about complaining itself (see what I did there?)

We all bitch & complain and that is a human thing, not a woman thing. Okay? I’m a man so I would know, I just ranted therefore I complained lmao

[MisterWack]

Oh also to those that claim this isn’t complaining…. I literally confessed your honor, I turned myself in lol

[RavVid]

It is genetic from early evolutionary times.

Men hunt and hunting needs to be co-ordinated especially when it is close up and personal without modern firearms.

Saw YT Bunnymon reacting to Survivor where guys and girls are dropped off on the same island. The guys quickly work as a team. They drop a noose over a croc's open mouth to pull him out of the water. Ready? Go! and every guy jumps on top of the croc. The guy at the head unhesitatingly pushes the croc jaws down to ground for another guy to truss up the jaws.

Meanwhile at the girls camp, the girls are arguing about if they should elect a leader with several claiming they are always right and as many saying they are not going to be told what to do. The flip-side of always being right is you won't accept being told what to do, of course.

As Bunnymon points out they never work as a team. They never master fire. They even manage to NOT collect rain water and to tip over water they do have.

Bunnymon thinks that always being right and refusing to take instructions is just an inherent part of being a girl. She should know because she is a girl and there is no reason to disbelieve her.

The other female foible of not taking accountability links up here. Basically nothing that requires team work is going to work out.

What to do upon failure? Well complain of course! After all the average girl is always right so it can't be her fault and she should complain.

Also last night I saw a tribal elder being asked if the men do it the way women say. He laughs uproariously and says "No. It would always fail".

Ever thus.

[Crazyced]

Other then they hormonal cycle etc (god I could always tell when my ex was in that time) I'm going to say it in a very crude way but it has deeper meaning:

It's because they can do it over and over again without looking like a little bitch. In other words, we've long accepted that women feels secure through communication (even the bad type) and have everything they feel aired out (and often addressed).

It is not considered manly for men to do the same. Men are expected to communicate the important stuff in a concise way and handle everything else on their own. Men are much more tolerant of a 'complaining' partner. Most men know they couldn't just behave the same way without dooming the relationships.

[Anonymous]

Simply because how society reacts to men vs women.

Men are supposed to be resolution oriented. Action oriented to solve problems. We are considered weak and bitchy if we complain for the sake of complaining.

Women on the other hand “bond” over complaining. They want people to just hear their problems vs. finding resolutions to it. But after they have their “emotion dump” they calm down and then find resolutions. Also a woman is much less likely to be judged as “weak” if she complains about an issue that she doesn’t want to put the effort into resolving.

There are exceptions on both sides of course. Also a lot men internalize their frustrations and depression. Not good for mental health but unfortunately the hard truth is that’s still better then being judged as weak.

And men WILL be judged if they act that way. It’s just how it is.

[Sachem]

The answer is easy: people are more receptive to their complaints. When men complain it is often met with derision both by men and by women. When women complain it is met with sympathy.

[Vegasrunner]

@sachem That's a great answer.

[Sachem]

@Vegasrunner

thanks. I'm just being honest. It is precisely what I have observed over my many years and it is incontrovertibly true.

[Vegasrunner]

@sachem You've left me speechless. Mostly what I find on here is beta males who kiss women's ass or delusional insecure women, but you actually taught me something. TY.

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the woman and the man…. Some men complain constantly as where sone women don’t even speak up for themselves.

There too is a difference between complaining at you and to you. Some people are bitches and some just need to vent.

[KITEinStorm]

These days that situation has changed, men have become more whiny

[Vegasrunner]

@KiteinStorm Nah it always has and probably always will be women.

[GallopAcrossEurope]

When you actually spend quality time with them start doing even most basic of the chores you're supposed to be doing, I can bet those complaints will be cut down by like 90% 😂

[Vegasrunner]

@GallopAcrossEurope Interesting perspective. How many women have you been with?

[GallopAcrossEurope]

As in like girlfriend? Two.

But you can also know this from your female friends, mom, other family etc. Kinda weird for you to just chalk it down to relationships.

[Vegasrunner]

@GallopAcrossEurope No as in sexually, it sounds as if you're a bit inexperienced w/ females so unfortunately your POV needs o be taken with a grain of salt. Essentially your world view of women consist of your interaction w/ females failed members. As you become more experienced you'll understand that that os much different than dealing w/ women in the real world. Luckily for you you have time to build yourself up, and hopefully gain more experience with women.

[noohair]

Most guys go by the 80-20 rule. If life is 80% good they deal with the 20% without complaining. Women want perfect and perfect does not exist with humans, so they complain all the time…

[Miristheiss]

That is just their nature. Men and women are different.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Says the guy that spends his days on here and the manosphere complaining about women.

[Vegasrunner]

@hispanic-cool-guy Who is that?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You. Who else?

[Vegasrunner]

@hispanic-cool-guy Interesting, what complaint did I make about women? And what is the "manosphere"?

[MK1997]

Weaker mentally

[Summeroflove]

Only loser women are weaker mentally….. Some women may have a lot on their mind. But most women are not weaker mentally at all.

[Summeroflove]

That’s not to say some people don’t struggle witn mental health issues I’m not bashing them. But a woman’s go to be mentally strong for instance to be a mother. Go through 9 months of labor and 18 years of raising a kid on top of other kids. Then grandkids. Then great grand kids

[gemb00]

We think too much.

[Vegasrunner]

@gemb00 So every thought leads to a complaint?

[blackeagle007]

You said it. Not me

[NicholasRedone]

@gemb00 it's fascinating how they sure quieten down or even become doe-eyed or dreamy neutral 😐 when their crush or their man, walks in 🫠 melt indeed

[moviedude714]

I'm sure everything has an origin

[Anonymous]

Give her money, that will calm her down

[DrPepper12]

They dont

[Vegasrunner]

@DrPepper12 Nah, they do I'm simply looking to find out why. How many women have you been with?

[DrPepper12]

I know in the high teens. I don't know. Complaining is unisex

[Vegasrunner]

@DrPepper12 OK, so not a lot. Once you've been w/ a larger sample size you'll understand this better.

[DrPepper12]

TY for that sunny optimism!! 😉

[Vegasrunner]

@DrPepper12 All good. Glad I could educate you.

[DrPepper12]

Gratitude is the Attitude! 🙏🏻