Girls, What kind of questions will a girl ask guy when she likes him?

[ando90]

I'm just curious cause this girl I like but we don't know each other very well. But she has asked me some more personal questions.
For example she has asked...

- How's your job application going?
- who did you go hiking with?
- what suburb do you live in?
- where did you grow up?
- Have you finished work yet?
- what are your plans this afternoon?

[Anonymous]

Unless she’s flirting with you then I wouldn’t say these questions are indicative of romantic interest, unfortunately. They’re just too generic, and things you ask someone who you work with, go to school with, or basically in a setting to see and interact with each other on a regular basis. They pass the time, so to speak.

[ando90]

Given she doesn't know me and she started smiling and waving at me when she didn't know me at all

[Opinion Owner]

That’s her making a friend. Why can’t that be enough?

[ando90]

So do you give a give a big wave and smile and act overly excited when you see a guy you don't know?

[ando90]

So do you give a big wave**

[Opinion Owner]

To be extremely honest (I swear I am not lying or trying to push a point), I would. It’s just my personality, I’m extremely bubbly and nice to everyone. I will literally throw my arm in the air to greet people, that is just me lol not sure if you will believe this but I have zero reason to lie to you.

[Opinion Owner]

And when I say throw my arm in the air, I’m literally giving Marilyn/Audrey with it lol it is odd for you if that’s not your personality, but that’s just me. I even hug people to greet them rather than shake hands

[ando90]

But then how on earth would you know of someone likes you? Like surely you can tell the difference

[ando90]

Like this girl only does this towards me. But we are now just naturally talking to each other like we know each other. But really we don't know each other

[Opinion Owner]

When someone likes me, from my experience they are outward about it. I’ve had men be either very forward or sort of shy about it but it’s usually verbalized. I don’t like a middle man situation where they’ll have their friend approach me because they’re too shy, no offense to the guy I think it’s very sweet but to me it says they can’t use their own voice and their friends are pretty involved in their romantic lives, which I don’t like. As for that girl, please don’t take this as rude but there’s no true way to know she only does that to you. You aren’t with her 24/7 everywhere she goes. Clearly her personality is outward since she approached you how she did, but based on what you said this just isn’t enough to conclude she’s doing anything more than being friendly dude, you have to know that. If you like her — tell her. Don’t be shy or scared you won’t get anything done and miss your chance. You’d kick your own ass all over the lawn if you found out she’s taken lol.

[ando90]

I just feel really done about it. Cause I can't tell I'd she is just been friendly. I just question it cause out of nowhere she and I just click. We're talking like we know each other. She even said to me ' I like Australian accents'. I made a joke saying I'm boring I've just grown up in Australia. Then she said " no I like the Australian accent"

[Opinion Owner]

I’m trying to tell you this is friendly stuff, but you are very adamant that it’s not and that she is romantically interested, so I guess I’m not really sure how much more I can breakdown this for you. I mean I’ve literally said I do the same thing, And you fight me about it (I know you’re not doing it in an argumentative way, but you are disputing this tooth and nail). When I ask you why you won’t just make a move, you are literally ignoring this question and pushing the “I just don’t know how to feel, she doesn’t do this with anyone else, she doesn’t even know me, she’s talking to me like she knows me, etc etc”. So I don't know what more I can do with this, respectfully. If you won’t believe it’s friendly, and you won’t make a move, then you will only find yourself posting this question again in another few days, and get another version of this same answer. You can’t be this way dude. You’re either going to absorb what I’m saying or stick to your guns that this is more than it is.

[Opinion Owner]

I mean even when you asked me the whole “so do you give a big wave and smile etc etc”, I said yes, and in your mind it’s “no there’s no way, because how can you tell if someone likes you”, lol I know you didn’t say it like this but this is essentially how you are being so I’m just like why are you doing this? If you are firm that this is more than friendly, fine, let’s move on to a solution because I cannot convince you of anything else. So my friend, if this is more than casual, what are you going to do? What is your next step?

[Opinion Owner]

Tbh I feel like the real problem is that you like her a lot, and you want to be certain she likes you too before putting yourself out there. You’d probably much prefer she just make the move if you are shy. But what’s going on just isn’t enough to relay romantic interest dude, these are questions that are simple and you ask someone as you get to know them and a friendship develops. Am I saying that is exactly where her head is? Of course not. I’m simply talking about the innocence behind such questions, not telling you she is uninterested— I’m not in her head and I can’t tell you that, nor can anyone else unless they are psychic. That’s why I’m saying to make a move, if you are interested. Please don’t skip over this question.