Why do so many women tell men to open up when most women dont care about men's feelings or overall wellbeing?

[Anonymous]

I just find that confusing and deceptively disingenuous

[Effably]

Would you like to know about your partner's kinks? Probably! Almost certainly. Once you find out it is scat and bestiality? Probably wishing you had not.

Women who ask men to open up while not really wanting to deal with what that means are in a similar boat. They likely genuinely want a version of opening up. The trust. The hinted at meaning to their mutual relationship. Maybe even a little drama or tough feelings but the right ones.

Although to be fair and I think we should be, the times I did open up I was never met with disinterest and always felt appreciated for it. I have as much baggage as most guys.

[Anonymous]

It's not that women don't care about men's feelings, but rather that they want him to be strong, because that's what they value and find attractive in a man. They want a man who behaves like a man and not a woman.

Women say they want men to men to open up and share their feelings because they know that's what they are supposed to say and it makes them feel like a good person. But at the same time they are not attracted to men who actually do it. And they are actually not being a good person because they are sending men and boys harmful messages that set them up for failure.

[yourmancallsme]

Women like that are weird
You just have to find a woman who genuinely cares about your well-being
I guess most women are used to only females being the sensitive and emotional ones and when a man becomes that they don’t know how to act because they’re not used to it🤷🏽‍♀️
It’s fucked but still

[Asker]

That behaviour has left a mark on me that I can't seem to erase.

[yourmancallsme]

Was it from just one woman or multiple?

[Asker]

Several unfortunately, some were crushes, some were family, some were flings and others were just random occurrences & experiences I witnessed.

[yourmancallsme]

Oh man that’s tough

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Women do care about the feeling of the men they care about.
Men need to identify such women. Is what I think.
They should know to whom they should open up and everything. These efforts are necessary on both the sides I think.

[Xtendable]

I don’t see the relevance of the pic, with the question. Sounds like you’ve been hurt though

[Asker]

The pic represents narcissism & yeah I have been hurt.

[Xtendable]

Sorry to hear that. Are things looking up now, though?

[In_Trance]

Great pic