Is there any advantage/ benefit of being handsome as a male?

[Anonymous]

I've been told a few times by a few girls that I'm handsome/ cute.
But whenever I try to flirt with girls or get a girlfriend... No girls want me, reject me.. or think I'm a creep.

I don't know what I do wrong, I'm friendly, nice, sweet... I think it's jus because usually at the end of the date I think I maybe get too sexual too quick and ask/request sexual stuff towards the end of the date... And then they always gett moody, call me a creep and leaveBut I thought if you're good looking you'd be more likely to have sex or girls would be interested in you more, but even I'm a creep... Is there no benefit at all to being good looking as a guy? Seems kinda like a pointless trait to have

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+1 y

Seems like most girls only care about personality, I'm not complaining but I could be ugly and my chances of success would be the same

[Trevelyan88]

I guess it will help you get dates easier, however on the actual dates your personality/chemistry matters more.
Seems like you are getting sexual way too fast and they can probably tell that sex is you primary goal.

So next time just make sure not to talk about anything sexual and don't touch them in any way except for like a short hug at the beginning and end.
Let them be the first to initiate sexual conversation and physical contact.

Could take several dates, but if you are actually interested in a romantic relationship and not just looking for sex, then it shouldn't be a problem.

[Asker]

Thanks 😌 that helps a lot, IL try that... I jus been under the assumption that being handsome girls would wanna do it with you faster but I guess it's the same for all guys lol, so IL try be slower thanks 🙂

[Asker]

And yeah. Sex ain't my only goal, I want a relationship too but I'm mainly aiming for the **** first so I can feel. some. sort of acceptance and feel good about my self esteem that's been destroyed over the years lol

[Randy888]

strut around and brood. I know that seems basic and counterintuitive but its hot when guys do that ( hot to me at least)

Make a slightly flirty comment and leave her hanging. Make her want you. Just leave a small amount of bait and wait till she bites.

[Asker]

Ok thanks IL try that lol 🙂

[Ez-Bri-Z]

It's almost as if all the times women on this site say size and looks don't matter as much as personality were right.

Seriously, if you are being overly sexual, that generally is a turn off. Show interest, not harass them for sex.

[humanearth]

Yeah, I don't have to do nothing when I sit at a bar. Women just come to me, I can have any woman I want if I was not married

I call being handsome and cute a cruse

[Asker]

I need to try that

[Anonymous]

From a reproductive standpoint, the importance of a man in a woman's life revolves mostly around utility.

From a reproductive standpoint, the importance of a woman in a man's life revolves mostly around genes and physical health, of which looks are the best indicator.

[OddBeMe]

Sounds like you just suck at flirting. Which I was and still am. But I learned to talk to women without the pressure of dating them, and inadvertently got more from the women.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Why do you keep bringing up sexual topics so early on if its clearly bothering them?

Just because you look attractive doesn’t mean they’re automatically going to feel comfortable with you.

[Anonymous]

Women have easier access to handsome males than free mints so it doesn't mean anything because they will call anyone "handsome" whether it's to steal their money or get them to leave them alone

[bigpauly]

Yes it helps out. It isn’t an end all be all by any means though

[msc545]

Troll.

[Asker]

I'm serious

[Asker]

What you think I'm lying about?

[Asker]

This actually happens, I could show you a pic if you want.. maybe I'm not as handsome as the girls say I am