Why are females obsessed with having kids?

Question

Back in high school, all they talked about was babies this and babies that. In relationships, it seems that's all they want. And they'll end that relationship over something petty.

SweedyPie · Accepted Answer

It's not all that females want but maybe that sticks out to you because your focus is on that in particular. But as to why it is a general part of why females generally think that way, objectively:
1. Biology... the women carry the children and birth new lives into the world
2. Biology again... Womem have a time window to bare children, after which their body stops producing eggs, unlike men who are the opposite and can produce valid sperm until they die.
3. Society tells women that's important.
4. In order for generations to continue it must be done, so it is actually important.
5. Culture influences when it becomes a hot topic

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am scared of having children.

Once you have them, you have huge responsibilities, no more time, not that sexy body you had before and giving birth is absolutely horrifying experience for me to imagine.

What I read here all the time is complaints of men how women with children don’t have as tight vagina as the ones without them. I am scared of that too.

I am also scared what if I won’t be a good mother or I’ll just not be ready of so many responsibilities.

But when I was with my boyfriend, I loved thinking about our future kids and he was the same.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This question grabbed attention of strong some independent women. You'd be getting responses like "I don't really want kids" "Kids are burden" etc from such women.

But the correct answer is for most women excluding ( strong and independent ones ) they do want to have kids. They have very limited time and they have limited eggs that's why most women want to have kids as soon as they find the right man.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah it's weird, girls be like 5 and be dreaming about being married and having kids

sunflower00 · Answer

Probably because they’re told from a young age that it’s what they should want, being given baby dolls to play with and stuff, or just because they are excited to have kids and that’s ok. I personally don’t want kids, but a lot of people do and there’s nothing wrong with that - they’re allowed to speak about it!

lrina · Answer

i don't think that's the case for very many people for the most part tbh. like i personally resent the thought of having my own children, and i've seen a lot of people like that. i've also seen a lot who wanted to have children in the future, but weren't obsessed with the idea. I don't know, you probably just ran into some weird females or something lol.

Sour-rose · Answer

I asked the same... and I got my answer. No, I didn't have kids but time is speeding up. People are dying faster than I can say "Grandma, there's a virus going around. Stay inside!" The older women get, the stronger they wanna have kids to have someone to love and leave their legacy behind.

Or because the little spawns are cute to them. For then.

EmmaMary · Answer

Our natural maternal instincts and biological clocks are the major factors regarding this, however we should also remember that there are those women, who for whatever reason, have no desires at all in ever having children.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do healthy males pitch a tent every morning? It seems like it's "dk this" and "dk that". We females can't get through an entire week without your bringing up (literally) your friend, Mr. Johnson. And, if we don't totally hoover Mr. Johnson several times a week, you guys wanna break up or ghost us over this petty reason.

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Because it's in our nature, maternal instincts and so on. Sooner or later most women want to have a kid of their own, of course there are exceptions and that's fine. Not everyone is suitable for being a parent.

Stargal · Answer

Cause they are freaking cute and adorable. And they are innocent and pure. What's wrong in loving kids? Having one is entirely different though, lot of obligations, financial and others. Parenting is also a huge responsibility.

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Not all women are obsessed with having children. I'm 32 on Friday and I do not have any kids and don't know if I ever will. I have nieces and nephews. I'd be fine with or without child. I'm sure I'm not alone

howhigh420 · Answer

am 33 nd a still domt want kids not a mager issue in my life at the moment thats why i have a implant i couldnt be unfair to rase a kid with my troubles i have the now iam a caring person but i would have a kid until iam ready

Brittanyroseee · Answer

Dude I don't know. I asked a similar question and was told im selfish and lazy for not wanting kids lol

janerobinson · Answer

In my opinion, it’s a mix of maternal instincts but also the fact that women have a biological clock that doesn’t allow us to have children after a certain age.

Alyssa_11 · Answer

Not all females want to have children and that’s fine! But I guess a lot of us have maternal instincts.

maymay2125 · Answer

I’m pregnant and I’m terrified. I didn’t want kids yet but it just happened but we did all we could do to prevent it. God gave me a baby that’s coming by the end of this year

whereismyjohnny · Answer

Not every woman wants to have a kid or has a strong maternal instinct. Some women love children and want to become mothers, but some don’t.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

Not everyone and I’m sure different individuals have their reasons if they want children or not.

nycres · Answer

Although I think it's gotten better in recent years, society still tells girls from an early age that they are pretty, sweet babymakers first and literally anything else second

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Because they CAN!! It's nature's way of seeing to it the race continues on.

gabby100 · Answer

Its in the blood or hormones. I would have loved to have had one, but it never came up.

Desconhecida · Answer

Society and biological clock. Or just sheer madness.

OddBeMe · Answer

It’s beaten into their personalities their whole lives.

Eleni1989 · Answer

Cause it’s 16 and pregnant was popular on tv when I visit America. And society telling us to.

adamc87 · Answer

Happy to donate at leat my sperm isn’t going to waste

Anonymous · Answer

Scared that I won't have a tight small body anymore

Msputiton · Answer

My focus was and still is on basketball.

Nagatoro · Answer

I'm not, I despise wanting to have children

Anonymous · Answer

I'm guessing thousands of years of evolution.

Iron_Man · Answer

They do love it dont they

SnakeBoop · Answer

plenty are not.

Mrsposh · Answer

Good Question !!

Aurora1010 · Answer

I'm not at all

fonduegirl · Answer

#antinatalist here

lovedejj_xo · Answer

Im not.

captainggaming · Answer

Women can do what they want. It's their body.

BareTruth · Answer

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