What does it mean when a girl says that she’s going to rape you?

[Anonymous]

The girl I’m talking to randomly said that she would want to rape me if we met. Do I play along or what should I do?

[WonderBell99]

Judging by the description you’ve provided, it appears that the girl has a rape fantasy. It’s when you have sex and role play as if you’re being coerced into having sex with your partner. It is “pretend”… it may either be this or this girl is a straight up psycho and a potential sex offender you should avoid.

Did you do a background check on her?

[Asker]

I think its the first one because she doesn’t seem like the person to be a psycho and actually rape me.. but I could be wrong. I haven’t done a background check on her

[WonderBell99]

Asker, don’t ever forget this… ALWAYS do a background check on people you’re seeing. It’s the best. You do not want to date a person who’s committed serious crimes, do you?

[Asker]

You’re right, I’ll do that! Thank you for the advice tho <3

[WonderBell99]

Well, yes, probably the first, but it’s best to ask her.

When did she say this? Did she say this out of the blue or when you guys were discussing about sex? Because if it’s out of the blue, then it’s defo weird. tbh, it’s best to ask her if she has a rape kink and not beat around the bush

[WonderBell99]

No problem. Happy to help

[Katya98]

It all depends on the intonation with which she pronounced these words

[Asker]

I couldn’t tell how she meant it tbh

[OneNineZero]

She is angry or frustrated or just trying to be awkward funny
Coz it's hard for females to rape guys I ain't saying it's not possible just that it's hard
A guy in self defense might easily kill a women

[GagsUgliestMember]

id love to be raped lol id jus be like ok rape me lol

[Asker]

What if it’s without your consent lol 😭

[GagsUgliestMember]

even better lol

[GagsUgliestMember]

;D come rape me girls :D

[Asker]

Lmfao

[GagsUgliestMember]

hahaha

[GagsUgliestMember]

Why do you have a problem with a girl raping you? Are you gay?

[Asker]

No lol

[Duckie11]

I feel like she's telling on herself, man. This sounds like a person who won't respect your boundaries. I wouldn't trust anyone who says shit like that.

[exitseven]

You are going to get lucky.

[Asker]

I don't know if she meant it like as a fantasy or not, so I’m not sure about that

[daster4442]

weird its usually the other way around

[jimmy2]

I don't get anyone who wants to he rapped