I’m in a friendship group with two other girls. I’ve noticed that when we all hang out or spend time together they are always building each other up and complimenting each other but they never compliment me, and it makes me feel left out and insecure, that there’s something wrong with how I look.
I’ve noticed that on Facebook they are always liking each other’s photos and commenting on them like “gorgeous lady” but they never have anything nice to say on my photos and never like or support my posts
The other night we went out for drinks and I dressed up did my hair put make up on and wore a nice dress, and I immediately said to my friend when I saw her “you look lovely” but she didn’t say anything to me. Then when my other friend arrived she was gushing compliments out at her like ‘you look so nice this evening I love your outfit and your eyelashes look so good’ and then turned to me and said ‘doesn’t Amy look amazing this evening and her eyelashes are so long’ yet didn’t say anything nice about me even though I made an effort with my appearance too
Why do they compliment and support each other, but never say anything nice about me?
I’ve noticed that on Facebook they are always liking each other’s photos and commenting on them like “gorgeous lady” but they never have anything nice to say on my photos and never like or support my posts
The other night we went out for drinks and I dressed up did my hair put make up on and wore a nice dress, and I immediately said to my friend when I saw her “you look lovely” but she didn’t say anything to me. Then when my other friend arrived she was gushing compliments out at her like ‘you look so nice this evening I love your outfit and your eyelashes look so good’ and then turned to me and said ‘doesn’t Amy look amazing this evening and her eyelashes are so long’ yet didn’t say anything nice about me even though I made an effort with my appearance too
Why do they compliment and support each other, but never say anything nice about me?
