+1 yI met one and we made it to the 2nd date. I picked up on her player tendencies in the first date and knew instantly we were not a match. She was a player AND a gold digger. I used the gold digger thing against her. I fed her bullshit about how I thought it is a man's place to provide a woman everything she wants without question.
I offered her a date on a yacht I did not own (but a friend's dad did). After the date I had said friend DM her with an even better offer than I gave her and see what she would do. Literally 10 minutes after he did I got a text saying "I do not think this will work out. You are cute but not on my level and I found someone else who is" then he got a text saying "Thank God you are such a gentleman because I just dumped a broke loser".
He sets up the date but has me "coincidentally" walk by right when it is time for them to board the yacht. When I arrive, he pushes past her and we hold hands, pretending to be gay. When she asks him why he set her up, he said we are gay because women are too financially needy. The look on her face was priceless.02 Reply- +1 y
Wow, that was kind of cruel, but you have to be cruel to be kind sometimes.
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@daniela1982 I had no good intentions. Back then before I met Jesus I wanted to see ANY manipulator suffer.
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I'm not sure. There was this bartender in a cafe. She was general a warm girl, smiled a lot and her smile was so heartwarming. And her eyes were so😍. Once I was out of cigarettes and she noticed, came to my table and put her purse on my table. She gave me her cigarettes pack and told me hey! Look we smoke the same brand and smiled. I was sort of shaking and breathing heavily. Next time I bought a beautiful blue desk clock and was going to give it to her as a gift and tell her it's for the cafe since they had all sort of random decorations. Then I told her that I'm gonna invite her to a cup of coffe, there or somewhere else. She told me she has a finance and show me her ring which wasn't visible because of her dress which had long sleeves. I was shocked and embarrassed and stood there for a a minute looking at my phone and didn't look at her or talk to her. She was standing there looking at me and didn't look surprised at all. I told her I'm sorry and she told me no, no it's ok. I told her if we can be friends since she had a couple of guy friends in there and talked to them and laughed with them a lot. She told me her friends won't let her.
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Never trust a bartender.
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I think almost everyone has gotten involved with a player at some point in time, unless they have been extremely lucky. I manage to escape her honestly, but I was not left
unscaved. But I guess that all apart of the process. In the end what does not kill us only makes us stronger. To a certain extend it hard to truly appreciate what you have without feeling the pain of not having it to begin with.31 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I was involved with a female football player, does that count?
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Only if she could knock you on your keester.
+1 yWell I'm still a virgin
But yes I have definitely ran into female players before one of them I wound up developing feelings for but I'm one of those men that's not going to have sex okay maybe unless I got paid if the chick was hot and I liked her and I got paid then maybe because I ain't going to f*** someone I don't love and I'm not going to f*** someone who isn't hot and right now I ain't going to f*** someone unless I get paid and even then it's a maybe08 Reply- +1 y
Wait, what?
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Never mind I went on a really stupid tangent
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Happenens sometimes unfortunately XD
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If you are able to delete the post then feel free
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You can delete your own after 24 hours I think.
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Oh ok
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I just didn't understand what you were saying is all.
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Ahh well I wish you the best
1.1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. i have spent the last year of my life getting played... its just ended and is too raw to go into much detail.
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It takes countless people by surprise every year, just like people still get cheated by scammers all the time.
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That can work to your disadvantage sometimes. You ignore a lot of things when you are in love.
Yep, I've been at the mercy of a female player before, didn't bother me much as I was playing her at the tine too. Had we known we were playing eachother we probably could have just come to an agreement.
10 ReplySadly, I was always too trusting.
I never escaped them… they eventually ended things.
Thank God my second marriage is to a woman who cares about me!01 Reply- +1 y
More people get caught up in that then anyone is willing to admit.
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+1 yI think women play men better. Because of what they possess. A fool of a man would allow that to control his every thought and action. Once you get out from under that shit, life gets much much better
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+1 yyeah. when i was very young and inexperienced. it was ok tho. we separated naturally at some point. no bad blood.
10 Reply "I tell ya I want to spread the news that if it feels this good gettin used,
ya just keep on using me... until ya use me up" Bill Withers (I think)10 Reply- 659 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 yWomen can't be players. It makes no sense. You mean sluts? I've had tons of casual sex and never bothered with them after one two or three hookups. So I wasn't the player all those times? They were playing me? Smh.
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No, you were the player in that instance.
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How would a woman even be a player?
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You didn't listen to the song?
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I'm pretty sure the song is about gambling. Not a girl "playing" men as a "player"
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The lyrics were there too. It wasn't about gambling.
Yes this happened to me a few years ago. When I found out I wasn’t the only one she was seeing it was really embarrassing and really hurt.
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+1 yplayer/slut=same. yes. multiple times. but i only give them one night so it's not incredibly involved
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+1 yi have been used and i have been lied to and i guess she was playing me the whole time sadly without me knowing :(
10 ReplyGot involved with two rebound relationships.
Once they got their feet back on the ground, then I was given the Dear John speech.01 Reply- +1 y
Of course. You can expect nothing less from rebounders.
1.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I have done this, and when I did it I knew what I was doing which gave me quite an advantage. That said, messing around with people like this is exhausting and frankly not worth the payoff
00 ReplyI don't play girls so I don't expect to be played.
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We never expect it or even see it coming.
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+1 yOnly twice - - - - - when I was younger
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So you learned the hard way at the school of hard knocks.
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yup - knocks- not knocking up.
You don't need to escape the grasp of a player, they will get bored and find fresh meat.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNah I've never been attracted to pretentious sluts tbh.
00 ReplyI can figure them out real fast so say bye bye real fast
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m +1 ya poker player, yes... and a great one as well
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Not THAT kind of player. Maybe Backgammon.
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lol, I know what that means...
590 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I would like to see one try.
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Don't tempt fate.
+1 ySure, I don't mind it as long as I'm getting laid
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+1 yi have... it's fun while it lasts lol
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+1 yNo I can spot a basic bitch a mile away.
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So in other words you "Saw".
6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Yes I got involved with you lol
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You can consider that an honor.
+1 yI’m involved with one now and I’m really confused
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Oh oh
+1 yNo, I've been successful at avoiding them.
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Always a good thing.
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After my Ex
+1 ywomen are players in general, super shady
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Wait a minute...
+1 yAll good things cum to an end
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYes! They never found her body...
00 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Nah….
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