What does it mean when a girl says she thinks about me in general? is that a good or bad sign?

[Anonymous]

Good sign

Bad sign

Neither

[whereismyjohnny]

I see it as a good sign.

[Asker]

How so?

[whereismyjohnny]

You probably made an impression on her, and it could be that she likes you/is interested in you.

[Asker]

She was someone who happened to like me on a dating app and we matched. I didn't think she'd message but she did. Said she only paid for one time use of it so she asked if I wanted to stay in contact and I suggested snapchat. We talk sometimes but sometimes go a full day or two without talking at all. Makes me think she's not as interested as she claims. she's only ever initiated first once. Apart from when we matched on th dating app because she kinda had to there. The app doesn't allow for the men to start the convos

[whereismyjohnny]

If she messaged you at the app, she for sure liked you physically. I think saying that she thinks about you is a subtle way of telling you that she likes you. At the end of the day, you don't tell a random person you are thinking about them. You would say that to someone you like (either in a romantic way or friendly).

About going full day or two of not talking, maybe it could be that she is busy?

[Asker]

That’s true, yeah. Then she deactivated the dating app after I gave her my Snapchat. And she said that she thinks about me because I asked if she did sense she lives on a road that ironically is my name 😅 and I wondered if seeing that road name whenever she comes home makes her think of me. I wasn’t sure what she meant but generally.
And yeah, she’s currently on a vacation from work. I had the feeling maybe she just didn’t care enough. Or she might think the guy should be the one sending the first message when I think it should be a mutual thing

[whereismyjohnny]

She seems to be into you by everything you said. Maybe she is just shy when it comes to starting the conversation or thinks the guy should message first as you said?

[Asker]

I dunno. If that’s the case than I guess things aren’t going to work out. She does have a 2 year old daughter so I suppose she’s got her hands full with that. But she’s had time to go to a friends house recently so I don't know... I feel like she may be talking to other guys too. If that’s the case I don’t want her to choose me if I’m just an option among many

[whereismyjohnny]

Why don't you talk to her about it? To see where you are standing with her? Tell her how you are feeling.

[Asker]

I’ve tried, it doesn’t seem as though she cares...

[whereismyjohnny]

I really don't know what to say then 😐

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

I don't know.