Why is it like if I ignore women they become more interested in me and even want sex sometimes but if I give them attention they ignore me? Wth?

[Gangactivities911]

Why do I find this with nearly every girl I talk to and how am I ever supposed to find a relationship when women mostly all seem to do this?

[devilish-cutie]

well its haard to just go on this information but these are guesses:
- people feel better when they get something its harder to achieve
- women need time to feel safe with you, if you are too keen they may be put off by it

[Gangactivities911]

So they want a guy with a low sex drive then? I feel like I’m supposed to pretend that I’m like not even interested in sex with them or something idgi. Showing what seems to be an equal interest to them is like too much or something. I feel like I’m supposed to literally be not interested in sex with them for best results. Cuz the only girls that seem to be interested are the ones I specifically don’t want to have sex with.

[devilish-cutie]

yes, you shouldn't show open sexual interest but rather be respectful. you need to understand than sex comes with more risks for women than men (pregnancy, rape, being violated physicall in any way) and that is what holds us back until we feel safe with you or until attraction builds and that takes time. If you act to sexually open we might not consider you as boyfriend material but f boy. We may know we are interested in eachother but no need to be vulgar. On the other hand as i said too little info, in my expereince guys also didn't like when i was keen and there were guys i didn't like that were to keen so it really depends. Now also think about your last sentance why that is

[Gangactivities911]

Well fuck I think the problem is that I’m a whore and I can only hide it for so long and it makes women uncomfortable lol. Any advice. I just gotta get good at pretending to not be a whore right? Lol

[devilish-cutie]

well then for you it may then apply point 1:
- people feel better when they get something its harder to achieve
thats why you dont also prefer women that are keen back
but if you are rather after sex than love go for women that are into sex more as well