Girls, When she tells a guy don’t message/talk to her until she does should a guy move on and not pursue a girl like that?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

Yeah, to me this looks like disinterest and I would move on.

[Asker]

she said she likes me she's just dealing with stuff i dont know.

[HollyK21]

I’m not saying she doesn’t have feelings for you, she’s just not emotionally available right now. If she’s a kind/sweet girl, then she doesn’t like confrontation, doesn’t want issues and doesn’t want you to be mad at her. So she gave you the safe answer, that’s kind of open ended but not going anywhere. You don’t have to close that door with her completely, just don’t put all your eggs in her basket and explore your options. You’d be very upset with yourself for missing other opportunities by waiting on her, only for her to never come around, not want a relationship, etc. Life is short and time is precious so don’t waste it.