I added a guy on Facebook 4 days ago (he's a friend of an old friend of mine. Different school, but not far from mine. We've never met btw) and messaged (inbox-ed) him first the same day cause I thought he was really cute and seemed nice. We started having a good conversation (asking & answering each other questions) and he even said "you look really pretty by the way just putting that out there :)" all of a sudden. After that he was talking about his future plans, and asked about mine. I replied (it was almost twice as long as his previous reply) but didn't ask him any question in that particular message. He has been online but hasn't replied and it's been 3 days...?
Guys respond better to questions than statements. If it's still possible, ask him what he thought about your message, there. We're also not as good communicators as women are and it's possible he feels shy after that message, or doesn't know how to respond.
To sum it up- ask him how he feels and what he's thinking. If you don't get an answer, your guess is as good as mine.
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Don't obsess. It's Facebook. Either he doesn't have a reply or he is thinking of a good way to respond. Either way, just leave it be. Too many messages in a row without a reply looks really bad and is a major warning flag
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Just going to say, Facebook chat is sh*t. I wouldn't be surprised if he's just missed the message.
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