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It sounds like they are just very desperate if they aren’t taking the hint that you aren’t interested,, but the thing is you should let these guys know that you aren’t interested , you don’t have to be rude about it but just nicely deny them. When a guy is very attracted to a girl and he wants her his instincts are to try to get her attention , Most girls like to play hard to get and most guys already think if the girl is so beautiful they automatically assume she has a list of other guys knocking at her door so he attempts to keep trying with hopes she will respond and choose him over all the other guys that he already assumes she is being hit on by. Being attracted to someone is like playing the lottery , they are taking the chance of winning their attention with hopes that they will feel the same , some people just know when to give up and some don’t. We are all players when it comes to being attracted to someone , if we don’t take the chance we will never know if we had a chance with them or not. It also comes down to what kind of person you are , some people thrive off the attention they receive and think their shit doesn’t stink and some people already know everyone’s shit stinks. So through my experiences it’s easier just to tell that person that I am Flattered but sorry I am not interested but thank you ,. Now if they keep attempting after that then ignore them , But by simply ignoring someone and not saying a word while they are attempting is going
To make them keep attempting Cuz they have hopes of getting your attention , cuz they don’t have an answer , it’s easier just to give an answer in my opinion , I rather be denied by someone I find attractive then sitting with a question mark on my head. Put yourself in that persons shoes , think how you would feel if you really liked a guy and he kept ignoring you? wouldn’t it be easier for you to have an answer? Of knowing if you have a chance or not? I think people that are straight up rude about being hit on by someone they aren’t interested in are stuck up assholes. We don’t walk around with signs flashing on our heads saying what are status is and what we are attracted to.
both a and b
I hate that!!!
Both A and B are often true
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The answer is both. Ever watched the nature programs where the male of the species is super persistent while the female stands by looking completely disinterested? While we've moved on a little bit and can use our frontal lobes to reason most things, anything to do with sex and all that goes out of the window. One of the number one urges a male has is to find a mate, and if you break it down to the bare bones, one who they think is worthy (attractive and healthy) to procreate with. Obviously this is all subconsciously. So yes, you're attractive... but men are also desperate creatures!
Because they quite haven't gotten the hint. I for one don't message women and I always wait on them because I don't want to seem pushy.
Persistance and see if maybe this time you want to talk. You know, the best way to communicate is to actually communicate (duh) by telling them that you don't want to talk. When things are clear, there are less problems.
Lack of Shame I think. Also, both answers to the poll are correct lol.
This is my one and only message to you, whether you reply it's your choice but i won't.
Guy got to be a bit more creative than that in the texts lol
But I dont mind a little chase like that.
Though I get the point in due time.
I think it's nice if you did have conversations with them just a bit, outright ignoring doesn't do anyone any good.
It'll boost your ego and hurt they feelings so it's not healthy
A lot of it is desperation. Guys who do things like that are often messaging several women at once.
If they have your number then they will feel they have a shot at starting a relationship
Those are usually called r/niceguys and you should head over to reddit r/nicegirls to read about girls doing the same.
both options are true, you wouldn't have to worry about that from me I know im ugly and undesirable so there's no point in me even bothering
B. Some guys are just dense, or their ego won't let them give up.
they think you're playing hard to get
they also think girls and guys can be "just friends"
LMAOOOOOO
Lmao well aren’t you so special that all the guys want you. Lmao
If you're not communicating over text, don't be surprised when someone thinks you're busy, especially a suitor.
Not with anyone. Seeking Attention is just. ... remarkable. I don't concern myself with the ambitions of childish adolescence
It's like they can't accept rejection so they do that to annoy the person
Why do you continue to ignore them instead of telling them you're not interested?
I do the same thing to everyone, romantic or platonic. I am useless, and desperately want to be liked, by everyone.
I think the real question is why would they have your # in the first place?
He might assume she forgot to answer since she didn't say she wasn't interested. I guess he never assumes she is ignoring him.
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