How do you girls keep finding all these shy guys and bad at dating kinda guys?

[kinggeorge007]

I am asking this question because I have been seeing these type of questions all over this platform. And also I am asking this because for some reason I am always meeting girls that have higher standards and/or having more experience or prefer going out with "awesome" outgoing kind of guys. These two doesn't correlate with each other.

[DizzyDesii]

I prefer a somewhat shy lonewolf whos more so outgoing when its just the two of us. As for the guys who turned out “bad”… well lets see. The majority of them were outgoing with a lot of friends and a great sense of humor. Because shy guys take a while to show their humorous side, ig I went for what pulled me in first. But i constantly got tired of the outgoing guys being “on” all the time. And they always want us to go out with their friends and their friends girls. Its Like ugh take a chill pill. The things that made a lot of those outgoing guys “bad” was the peer pressure of their friends to take things to the next level. Their friends either wanted them to smoke with them or talk me into having sex sooner than I wouldve liked and so on. I much rather date a guy who can speak for himself and has less pushy friends, less friends in general. Some of those “bad” guys were shy guys who just wouldn't fully open up in time and well I got tired of waiting. Some of those “bad” guys were money hungry workaholics. Some were cheapskakes who expected me to pay for all our dates because they were broke. I personally prefer everyone pay for themselves. And some of those “bad” guys werent bad at all but they were weak in the sense that they couldnt stand up to their toxic overbearing mothers and sisters and friends who tried to keep us apart. Lastly, i was sometimes the bad girl because I had to do what I had to do or say what I had to say to prove a point that i would no longer tolerate the bullshit. So yea hopefully my perspective/experience somewhat answered your question.

[kinggeorge007]

That's a good perspective. And I've got an idea why you are into kind of ambivert guys. So how do you find them? I mean where or how you met them?

PS: love your GIF 😍😁

[DizzyDesii]

Its a random gif but yea i just met them anywhere... movies, mall, grocery store, gas station, school, work, etc