Ladies, what quality does a man need to be mature?

[ALewis30]

[DizzyDesii]

I like a good sense of humor but maturity shows when he knows when to laugh and when not to laugh. Another thing is, is he responsible/reliable (and I’m referring to being able to hold his own, not that he needs to support me)? And also, is he decisive because indecisive is such a turnoff. So mature to me is someone who can be serious when needed, responsible enough to take care of themselves, and decisive enough to know what they want/need in life

[DizzyDesii]

And maturity is not based on age in my opinion

[ALewis30]

Alright. That's understandable

[Xoxocutekitty]

Patience and wisdom.

There are times to push and there are times to wait, it takes a wise person to know the difference.

Impatient men are quick to be discouraged because they count every failure or rejection. A patient man knows not all opportunities are equal or worth the effort.

[mobiusforniner]

A man needs to become a gentleman. I've no better words to describe a gentleman other than Robert E Lee:

He cannot only forgive, he can forget; and he strives for that nobleness of self and mildness of character which impart sufficient strength to let the past be but the past. A true man of honor feels humbled when he cannot help humbling others

[megabamse]

Be able to have a clean house, make food, hygiene, knows how to dress, knows how to do small talk.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Have his shit together.

He needs to be able to take care of himself, thrive, and be content.

He needs to be independent, capable, and able to put in effort and work when needed.

He needs to be able to emotionally regulate, communicate, and manage his mental health.

He must know what he wants, what he can give, and his strengths and weaknesses.

He must be able to be honest, transparent, and self-aware.

[Spongeboblol]

Man shouldn't run , stay silent although he is so stressed , when having a problem with a woman. Give her a solution that still can be accpeted by her. And comfront her with 3 sentences. dont just do it short. You need to show that you care otherwise she will think you are a jerk husband that needs to be cut off.

[sage2021]

To stop thinking about himgs are fine nnt when they are not. To be more serious and concerned about what's happening to people. Life is not a bowl of cherries all the time.

[dustybiker]

Thoughtfulness. The ability to see others points of view and respect it even if they disagree with it.

[jennifer_bloom]

Non-confrontational, loyal and caring, that would make any guy amazing.

[TrueConfection]

Control over his emotions is a great start.

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao then a lot of women are totally gonna be considered immature 💀🤣

[TrueConfection]

@DizzyDesii The queston was about men 😉

[TrueConfection]

*question

[DizzyDesii]

I know but i just know some guy will troll and say that we dont have control over our emotions either

[TrueConfection]

@DizzyDesii. He's probably right.

[DizzyDesii]

I don't know i feel i think more logically at least 70-80% of the time

[TrueConfection]

@DizzyDesii I'm sure you use logic and emotion simultaneously. That's a woman's superpower and also what makes us appear "emotional".

[Slim57]

Have any advice how you gals control yours?

[TrueConfection]

@Slim57 Try not to be insulted Slim.

[DizzyDesii]

@Slim57 i control mine by avoiding negativity and focusing on positive activities like listening to music, going to the casino and shopping. Without those, I’d go kung fu on someone

[Slim57]

@TrueConfection oh I'm not, just asking

[Slim57]

@DizzyDesii music helps

[Babygirl_S]

A mature man remains calm in most situations.

[glossydripdrip]

Humility.

[SkyCastle90]

Emotions.

[itsalyssaagain]

Accountability.