Guys, How does one determine a gold digger is a gold digger? Does she ask for money for these things without hesitation?

[LovingLoverReturned]

Beauty (nails, hair, teeth, skin products etc)

Groceries (food, drink)

Gifts

Any unnecessary material things you could possibly think of

Studies

Needs to be said in a comment

[Still-alive]

I feel its really more about their attitude or demeanor than anything else. Like if they just expect or outright demand you to pay for everything for them then yeah that’s pretty gold diggerish. It should always be the other person wants to pay for you and not be demanded or expected of them. Or if they really are in a pinch they can ask for them to help them pay for things for awhile but after they get back to a better spot maybe offer to pay them back even if they know the other person will refuse.

so yeah its the attitude and demeanor behind it all rather than what you buy in my opinion

[LovingLoverReturned]

I love this answer

[Fireguy17]

The easiest way is to slowly cut off her funding, come up with whatever excuses that fit your situation and let her know that you are sorry you can't help out this month.
If she understands and accepts it and is still t GG ere then you know she isn't just after your money.
If she demands money, use of your credits cards etc, and won't talk to you, or becomes distant then you know it was your cash.

[FunkyMonkee]

A gold digger is, basically, someone that's only interested in someone as long that other person has lots of money. If they suddenly lost their fortune or if the digger found someone that has more money, they'd almost immediately drop the poorer of the two (or anyone else that has lots of money) and go after the richer.
My ex-fiance was one! As long as I was making money, she was fine with me! As soon as I went skint for a while, she started chasing after a sugar daddy (a guy who made money by picking through garbage on the streets and making "art" (really stupid art!) out of it and selling it) and she dropped me!!

[MCheetah]

If she has her own job and money, but asks you to pay for sh*t she could/should pay for on her own, then she's a Gold Digger. Full Stop. End of story. Women try to excuse this by saying "I don't want to be paying for some guy or have him leeching off me," but we all know this is bullsh*t and that there is no price tag on love. So yeah, they're just gold digging thots.

[Avicenna]

She wants to know about his money, job, property, etc.

[SignedAutographs]

You look to see how wealthy he is, then you look to see how pretty she is

[Guy13]

Little bit…

[LovingLoverReturned]

What? Can you explain

[Guy13]

The right guy likes that if it’s not one sided. There’s lots to be said for earning it. Boys are like Dogs 🐶 🐕…. willing to give you ONE of those on the front end BUT YIELD AND RETURNS analysis…Risk Management

[Guy13]

Does above suffice as explanation ❓. Some guys like a woman who is not afraid to take what she wants WITH CLASS. “I’m getting tired of these nails, what do you like❓I really like French Manicure (and if I wanted to 🚼 🍆) I would grab your hand and extend it…and comment on your lovely hands and how good it looks”.
And then, “I’ll do that for you.” Unless he dumb… then he knows what that means.
How much is that these days?( out comes money clip reach-If I really liked you). “You know, you should do your feet too…is $100.00 enough for both ❓”

[LovingLoverReturned]

So like sex in return? + asking without demanding?

I think the second one is just called being polite... I think most gold diggers are polite... but not all who ask for money is a gold digger.. but yes... and you mean some men don't mind giving money if they got enough?

[Guy13]

For sure. If she is wise enough to know that is equivalent to a “security deposit”. And, she wants a relationship or not-nicer things…I could care less as long as plenty of 💋 🍆 etc..
—-I would expect you not be sharing it around and increasing my chance of Disease.
—I would expect you to drop what you are doing…if I called you spare of the moment to head to the beach 🏖 weekend kind of thing. I would hope that you would enjoy the whole ride…
-I like to see you work…so a bank bag at designated point full of 20s or 50s…you get the idea…how much you etc…

[Guy13]

I have 45-55 Mentors in powerful jobs that operate this way. I’m just sitting in the stands. We go out to Martini bars they get the 20 fake ID to 27. I get the 40-50 hitting on me. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[LovingLoverReturned]

Age 40 - 50 :)

[Guy13]

Yes. Are you USA❓These guys are married now and old fashion where they have Assistants who schedule and run interference…pretty sure that’s high 5 or 6 digit salary one of the gay Boi (s) assistant make…They are of a frightening Status but as smooth lady men as Putin before he went into Ukraine