How to know if my girlfriend is a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

So I spent 5k on a girl, and she tells me she isn't interested in me for my money. How do I put this to the test without her noticing?

[CubsterShura]

I have no idea how long you have dated to tell if spending 5k on someone within that timeline is indeed reasonable. But if you are in a new relationship and you are showering someone with a lot of money and gifts and pretty much love bombing them with money to get them to be with you and then they are why are you worried if she is a gold digger?

Also, what is wrong with being with someone for his money, until or unless she is not with you for JUST your money, there is no evidence that you can't genuinely love someone while also seeing their money as a huge benefit. You can like the way a woman looks and still genuinely love her right? It's not like if you find her hot it means you are only in this relationship just because of her looks.

No two gold diggers are alike too. Think of a hypothetical situation, a man is traveling with his girlfriend, he is getting on his private jet but he made his girlfriend travel on indirect commercial flights in economy class. A gold digger in this situation may leave him because she doesn't want any part of a man who won't give her the best of what he can offer, another gold digger may stay because she is willing to settle for this as long as she gets to be with him for the security of having a rich partner.

If it is something you are too paranoid about, you are better off going to therapy and discuss your attachment style issues with a counselor. You surely can afford that if you can afford to spend 5k on your girlfriend. Some of us here can't afford to pay for therapy and I recently found out that without paying I'd have to wait several years to get the therapy recommend by my doctor.

[Anonymous]

You spent 5k on a girl, and now you want to test her?

Kind of backwards, don't you think?

[Dinklex3]

... You could not spend 5k on her again.