Girls, Should a guy just give up looking for a woman if he’s 37?

[Anonymous]

If a guy is established, honest, decent looking, in shape, has his own place, has his own car, good education, interesting, funny, can cook good food and has other good qualities but still single should he just stop trying?

[lavendercities]

I’d say stop ‘trying’ and just let it happen instead, when you worry too much about dating and putting too much time and effort in, it becomes a burden and a stressor on life , plus you seem like a great guy and I’m sure there are women who find that attractive

[Asker]

yea but i can't be a pussy, i understand the difference between being kind and confident then brash/all up in her business/weird when approaching a girl. I have never, ever attempted to talk to a girl that I saw at a mall or walking down the sidewalk. I've sparked convos with girls I've worked with and got their numbers but besides that i haven't. The time is ticking and im sure any girl knows that she has that in the back of her mind of when to get married or have kids. I understand a girl in her 20s or even in early 30s, may just want to have fun, go on road trips with her girlfriends and focus on her career. I'm sure girls think this way because she doesn't want to settle down at the moment because a commitment to one guy or one man is a big deal, its potentially who you will live and die with (reaching old age). That's my 2 cents on it.

[Dinklex3]

I know men in their 40's that still date.
One just recently got remarried 🤗
If you're tired of it, no one is forcing you. As long as you're happy.

[Anonymous]

Is he a pussy tho? Does his breath smell like garbage?

[Asker]

Look I was referring to myself 🙄 I am confident to strike up witty/normal convos with girls and I take care of my hygiene. I mean I’ve had girls say mmmm 😊 what’s that cologne you got on.

[Opinion Owner]

Then why would u ask if u should stop looking u donut.. If i ever encountered a guy like u i’d be creaming my panties

[Asker]

Because I just feel like I’m not worth it on a girls level and that she has other dudes chasing her and dm-Ing her. I’ve had girls block me because I don’t wanna send dick pics. I’ve had girls say don’t talk to me anymore — even though I didn’t insult them, I didn’t hit them, I didn’t do anything sexual to them.

[Opinion Owner]

Look for one that is possible for u to get... The ones that got not too many fans chasing her

[Asker]

Even though girls are taken. Girls who wanna be friendly with me for some odd reason want to talk to me but have boyfriends. I find that super weird. The girls who are single literally have said I don’t wanna be with any guy. So I lose either way. I’m not changing famous girls with 10,000 followers. A girl who’s 7/10 in looks and has a nice body will easily get friend requests over 2,000 (mostly guys). That’s how society operates. How many likes 👍 and follows can one get. Girls get validation online by tons of stranger dudes so she’s probably thinking why have a boyfriend and husband? I got what I need online. I won’t find someone. I have the balls to walk up to a girl who’s a stranger and try to get social media to chat later. But I’m guessing a girl will say “no, leave me alone”…Again, I lose. That whole work on yourself is just smoke in a chimney.