When the girl you like says that she wants to focus and can only reply you a month later if there's anything, would you text her after that one month?

[Anonymous]

You both have been texting daily, and suddenly she said that she would like to focus on her final lap of school before graduation. So she tells you that she might not reply to your text for a month until she has completed her school a month later. As a guy, would you still text her after that one month has ended?

[ShadezMcgee]

I get commitments and focus for sure, but a whole month to finish school after all of that investment? That is kind of crummy. Almost comes off as "I had fun, but I don't want to play with you anymore." People can make time for those they care about. If anything you just won't be as available and it it possible to convey that and spare him time now and then.

But personally I would just tell her to reach out when she is situated and leave the ball in her court. If she wants to continue, she will, otherwise I wouldn't hold my breath for her to come back after not talking for a whole month.

[Nawlins34]

No, I'm going to let her go.

Remember, I only "like" her; we're not in a relationship, therefore I'm not waiting.

When/if she contacts me in the future, I may/may not be available.

Life, pauses for no one.

[slatyb]

I might, but I wouldn't be waiting for her. I would be dating others if I had the opportunity. Maybe after a month I'll be available, maybe I won't.

[boggboss]

If she felt the need to cut me off for a month then no I would not be coming back

[UniquelyBasic]

She can't spare like 5 seconds to text you back before bed or something? LoL

[jahaims]

Nope. I've been busy and can find time