Have you noticed even genuine female friendship is also non-existing?

[Anonymous]

Women complain about men wanting sex in friendships but never look concerned at their side.
Women use men as a crying pillow after dating bad boys.
Use men for doing her house chores, and help with education, and money all the time in name of friendship.
Sooner men get fed up doing all that for the girl and ask sex for in return as women will never reciprocate the same. They will never listen to you or help you with your chores as they can't already do that stuff.
That's why most men and female friendships don't work.

[Kkstarzz96]

uh, I've leaned on a guy friend for emotional support but in the end he asked me to help him out with money and I did not hesitate. we never lived together so I'm not sure what chores you're referring to. that is not an expectation of friends to cook and clean for you, I've seen friends pet sit or house sit, but not labors of love, maybe give a ride or be a witness to something but that's just being helpful. it's easier to talk to guys about feelings than other girls, I don't know why, but it feels better too. sex is only to be expected if you two are seeing each other for a while, if none of your hanging out was ever considered a date or when you hang out alone there is no tension in the room, then sex isn't going to happen. and if it does, say the woman feels bad for you cause yeah she asked you for favors and you've helped, now she's going to open her legs, she will probably stop asking you for help, or expect that you are genuinely interested in her and are going to pursue a relationship with her. sex alone only works without strings if you guys are attracted to each other. if she doesn't find you attractive, that's not her fault and guys need to get a grip. I'm sorry women are more conventionally attractive and guys have to build a lot of good qualities to do so rather than show their tits and smile, but we didn't make it this way. so stop blaming us.

[Asker]

Guy friends hardly ask for any help, women ask for too many favors. Even if you say no they still keep asking. I have seen this with multiple women in my life. I know a lot of guys that say the same. But if you tell them to reciprocate even non sexually even a little bit, they will never comply.

[Kkstarzz96]

do you mean feelings?

[Asker]

Not only feelings but like help with your work or sometimes feelings.

[Kkstarzz96]

the same way a guy can have sex with us with no feelings for us, we also can have a friendship, because for whatever reason, she feels comfortable asking that guy, and not feel something more than just a friend. If I understand that correctly, but I don't know I still don't understand how asking for help means I have to feel all these feelings for the guy, like I'm completely lost on the concept and I've gotten pissed off at a guy for it and just said bye. he wouldn't drop it and i couldn't push it any further than what it was at face value. I personally feel it's not my fault if he finds me attractive and just wants it, that doesn't mean i was trying to do that. he put his feelings on to my plate, that apparently I was inviting by asking for support in general. he could've said no, I'd ask someone else, like life goes on I'm not gonna crucify you if you don't help me. but I guess if i don't pay up then you'll crucify me? gtfo

[Anonymous]

Yeah I've had that happen