Does being emotionally open to your girlfriend make her lose respect for you? Especially if you're an insecure guy and have low self esteem?

[rehanQ]

[missmels]

I’d actually respect and appreciate my man even more if he’s emotionally open with me. It should be seen as a sign of closeness in a relationship if you feel comfortable enough to do that. And your girlfriend should be receptive.

[Anonymous]

Nah not at all, I like when my boyfriend speaks his mind to me, I think that it further strengthens the relationship.

[rehanQ]

Even if he displays emotional weakness and insecurity?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes ofc, I would ask him, to explain his prob to me and why is he feeling like that

[rehanQ]

I'm only concerned about this because my girlfriend told me that I am emotionally weak and insecure sometimes and I should change that because its not a good thing

[Opinion Owner]

Omg, she is so not good, if she cannot understnad ya then Ig she doesn't deserve you, and pls do not change yourself for anybody

[rehanQ]

Could you message me in private so we discuss this?

[Opinion Owner]

sure

[AssholeNumberOne]

It shouldn't. Why, she toxic?

[Babyeirrb]

I dont want to hear my man being weak