Why can’t women ever be happy with a guy that wasn’t their first option when guys can be happy with their 10000th option?

[Intothevoid666]

I really struggle to understand why so many women “refuse to settle” when most men will gladly “settle” in a heartbeat. It makes it hard to feel bad for these women tbh but I’m trying to understand their perspective.

[MCheetah]

Because these women are entitled, severely overestimate their social market value, and have simps wiping their ass at every corner to make them overestimate their value, to begin with. You don't get depressed women thinking they're 10s when they look like 3s. Kevin Samuels RIP, used to call out these awful entitled women, all the time.

I'm not picky and I'm certainly not "looking for a ten." I just want a good-hearted woman who likes me as I am, and has a brain and a sense of humor. Being tall and having some curves would be the icing on the cake. But most women demand literal perfection in men they date, then whine and b*tch that they "can't find a man" when what they really mean is, "they can't find a man who's a 10 out of 10" while they're barely even a 5 in full makeup.

I think not even counting stuff like MGTOW, men have had ENOUGH of women treating us like sh*t, then doubling down and calling us "incels" when we don't put up with their sh*tty and abusive behavior. The Depp/Heard case was a turning point and I think more and more men are going to be refusing to marry and calling out women for being c*nts and awful human beings.

It's time we actually started having gender equality, including the negative stuff women have been putting off on men for decades now. Let them whine and complain about being passed up on dating sites. Let them eat sh*t for attempting to go up to a stranger they find attractive to ask them out on a date. Let them develop depression just for trying to find a partner out there. I think the 2020s needs to be the decade of Simp-killing and Thot-shaming.

"Why can’t women ever be happy with a guy that wasn’t their first option?"

Because too many men allow it and let women be sh*tty awful people like Amber Heard. Fellas, YOU are the prize! YOU are the one who would be putting a ring on her finger. Even if you're a romantic like me, don't EVER put up with a woman's sh*t ever again. Have some self-respect and start cursing out these sh*tty women out there. Maybe even stand up for the good ones, too. We need to course-correct this foolishness.

[CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS]

The truth is women do not find the majority of men to be handsome. Most of them find the average man to be ugly.
On the contrary, majority of men find the average woman to be beautiful and can find beauty in most women.
I have almost given up on dating in the western society. Most women abuse us mentally and physically. Girls like Amber Heard are not the minority or just didn’t come out of now where. They are out there and they don’t respect us nor cherish us even if you’re a millionaire and have great looks, women still mistreat us.

[Intothevoid666]

Yeah unless u have a low sex drive and are into women with an equally low sex drive they’re just undateable in my opinion.

[Agagagagaga]

I agree. I think that most women don’t find men to be that attractive at all. Some will even come right out and say that looks don’t really matter to them, or that they really didn’t think their boyfriend or husband was that attractive at first but now they think he’s super sexy.

Women don’t want men as much as men want women. We’re largely irrelevant to them.

[Blackcosmo]

Maybe some women are really looking for the right guy because settling down too quickly doesn't give them enough time to know if the person is the right one.

[Intothevoid666]

Yet most women are constantly in and out of relationships with guys they don’t take seriously?

[Blackcosmo]

Maybe the guy isn't taking the relationship seriously. Everyone has their own reasons.

[Intothevoid666]

Then they should leave the relationship don’t give me this bs for one second.

[Blackcosmo]

Like I said everyone has their own reasons.

[Intothevoid666]

Yeah and men who beat women have their reasons too. Delusional… lol

[Blackcosmo]

Anyone who beats another person when they did nothing is just stupid. It's their business if they don't want to settle down, man or woman.

[Intothevoid666]

Okkkk but lying to someone about wanting a relationship when u dont is wrong u dense idiot. Women complain all the fucking time about men doing that so i don’t see how ur gonna try to justify women doing that…

[Blackcosmo]

You don't lie that you want a relationship if it's genuine. Things happen in the relationship and that's why people break it off. I wasn't specifically talking only about women because this can happen to men too. Your question was about why women don't settle.

[EllaNella]

some people just aren't desperately looking to be in a relationship. there's no need for them to settle

[Intothevoid666]

But refusing to “settle” for any guy who is equally attractive as u isn’t even settling it’s just not being a delusional narcissist. Like ur really gonna justify not spending ur life with someone because u can’t get someone of higher value than urself?

[EllaNella]

if someone doesn't feel the need to enter a relationship but would do so for someone they deem the perfect fit, that hasn't got anything to do with narcissism, it's just about priorities. that might be about physical attractiveness or any other trait. it doesn't matter. nobody should be forced to enter a relationship they don't want 100%

[Intothevoid666]

If ur a fat ugly poor slob and ur holding out for mr perfect u r a delusional narcissist. U don’t have to enter a relationship if u don’t want to but that’s not the point of this post.

[EllaNella]

you also never mentioned "fat ugly poor slobs" in your post but ok, i guess i should have read your mind.
also should'nt we all be happy that those "fat ugly poor slobs" decide to wait on their perfect match forever instead of bothering normal people?
like right now you're getting mad at people doing nothing

[Intothevoid666]

Ur being difficult on purpose this isn’t a hard concept ur just dense

[EllaNella]

nope, i just don't care about people not wanting to date other people. i focus on more important things

[Intothevoid666]

Then why did u comment?

[EllaNella]

this app is for giving opinions, that's what i did. i thought that you were genuine in asking this question, but apparently you just want to be angry

[Blackcosmo]

I thought I was in the wrong for my opinion for a moment because he was being unnecessarily rude to me but now that I'm reading the comments on this thread, it seems like he's just being a jerk.

[D_Bone_Steak]

It really seems to be a western female issue. I think it has a lot to do with the attention they can get through the internet. But maybe that's just my opinion or limited perception of what it is. As a guy that's lived in multiple places in the world though... there is a big difference and that pickiness stuff as well as that constant phone playing. Just something I've noticed.

[Rizwan_khan]

Because men are simple in living men find happiness in small things. But on the other hand women want do many thing in their life and girls are not simple they always thinking what they have not but never considered what they have that why men can find happiness in every where but women always with condition and rules. Women i talked about here is not for every women. Many women sacfice their life for their partner also.

[FilmGuy93]

Because women are told their entire lives that they can "have it all." And they tend to feel like their lives are deficient if they weren't able to have it all.

[Intothevoid666]

But how am I supposed to feel bad for them then?

[FilmGuy93]

Feel however you want about them. Just know that that's why many women act that way.

[Intothevoid666]

When I was 10 I thought the prettiest girl in school would like me back quickly tho I realized they didn’t and adjusted by standards why can’t women do the same?

[FilmGuy93]

It's the expectation and pressure they place on themselves. They feel like society expects them to constantly have the best of whatever they can have.

[Intothevoid666]

Society doesn’t tell that to men too?

[FilmGuy93]

It does, but men have been told that for longer than women have, so we're used to it.

[Intothevoid666]

So women are the problem then men aren’t doing anything wrong right? I mean I don’t want to look down on women but it’s hard not to

[FilmGuy93]

Well... men certainly contribute to the situation too, but that particular problem is being caused by women.

[Intothevoid666]

What are men doing that’s problematic that isn’t in response to how women are behaving? Women could change their delusional standards over night if they wanted men have no choice but to play this game women have created or no?

[FilmGuy93]

Men could be doing more to make women feel like they don't have to do all this extra garbage to live a satisfying life.

At the end of the day, women's insecurities are the cause of most dating problems. They have to resolve these problems within themselves, but that can be a tall order sometimes.

[TheFlak38]

Because women would die out like vermin millennia if they did that. Both literally and figuratively. The difference today is that the sexual marketplace is rigged in their favour. They have the privilege to be as picky as they like.

[Intothevoid666]

How can they complain about men not wanting relationships tho then and just sex? They’re literally the reason for that

[TheFlak38]

They pretend that they don't like it when men are interested in just sex. What they say and what they respond two are always two different things. They NEED men to be horny and chase after sex. If men stopped being horny women would never survive. We live in a society with more or less 50% Incelibate men who literally thirst for sex and waste their money on only fans. Without this thirst al these online prostitutes would be starving right now. That's why Alicia Milano was ridiculed by women when she called for a sex strike. Women would show their true colours with such a move.

[Anonymous]

Because women are generally way more "selective" than we are. And are that way because they can be (society and how men treat them).

[FunkyMonkee]

Something to do with them having open plumbing! If it wasn't for that, they'd think normally.