Many men fail at relationships and become bitter, miserable people.
Lol They take it too personal.
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... and why would you get upset about me strolling into a bar with you and being able to pick up way more women than you? Just think about this shit... I'm simply more wanted than you. It's not your fault. I'm in demand and you're not.
I liked how you posed the question because... it's not like that for all the women. Imagine you were born Middle Eastern... Mom cut off your nose because you were such a slut not wearing your hijab until 9 years old... and you even tried to wear makeup... what a slut. Now dudes pass you over because they know you've been raped by the whole town.
That was like a joke right? Except that's the reality for some young woman while you trance around like you're hot shit.
You were born in the right place at the right time to be able to do that. You should be at least grateful for that.
Think about this... the reason men are complaining where they actually are complaining.
They mad because your options last for like 9 years... it's for the dogs. You're just dogg pilled.
Both men and women are jealous in my case. Once I was on a stranger chat website called chat blink. I posted my photo the girl got furious because I did not like her photos. Another case was such that I used to roam with this girl during breaks of the class. She went absent for 2 days straight. But I got someone else to roam with and on her return when she saw me with another girl she was upset and made faces on me. She liked me heavily. Maybe that was the reason. At a time I remember I distributed my phone number to over 15 odd girls straight and that too in a month. I touch them after first few minutes of talking they don't complain and continue to talk. Such was the charisma. I hardly think that good men will pay any heed to the question asked apart from clearing the misconception the question carries. Coz one believes that having options doesn't mean glory. Utilising them means it. Friends around me joined gym and wasted themselves with so called gains while I grabbed so many Butts during that time. Bcoz they lacked confidence. No matter how you appear. Did you even grab one? Did you even try to enter the battlefield? Did you said anything? OK if you didn't say. And regret. Don't do this to you. Go and say it. Rest is upto God and nature to handle. If you don't regret saying it you are genius.
u We are not ALL complaining about this.
I have never complained about that nonsense because I know that a sour attitude won't attract a sweet woman. Besides, there are differences between men and women, it's nobody's fault, just accept it and deal with what you've got to deal with. Be a man, not a whiney little bitch!
I'm not the only guy with a decent head on his shoulders, so please don't overgeneralize. Your comments need to be directed to the MFTOCEM (Men Fixin' Their Own Coffee Every Morning) crowd!
How I feel about this? It's like a game. If you belong to one or another gender you have advantages and disadvantages, and these dynamics can reward certain characteristics. For example, a very beautiful woman who is also smart and deceitful, who plays with men to get in their wallet is highly rewarded in sex and relationships. A man with similar characteristics is thrown in the trash bin. The other way around: a woman who is ugly and smart has zero value is not appreciated by men, but a man who is ugly but smart (and maybe also confident) is okay, some women would go for it... an old man who is attractive gets more women than how many men a woman of the same age would get, you see? The bitterness might come from the fact that you don't see the other side of the coin.
We just have one chromosome of difference, but it's fair game for everyone.
... I guess that depends upon your age. Women become easier with age while men become harder.
Men also don't really need women but for a short time which is why the guys most practiced and appealing and thus most likely to get their attention are almost certainly going to screw them over. Hence women's complaint with with men.
The truth is as humans male and female we simply didn't evolve for communities of more than about 500 people where everyone knew everyone.
The modern information age which gives us a highly inaccurate picture of ourselves and the mate market is what has everyone messed up. Naturally for different reasons for the different ways each sex dates.
Your really need to understand game theory to deal with the modern environment and that's genus level stuff beyond most of us.
The whole "easy" or "not easy" discussion is just bullshit and somewhat dodges the question of who it is you should get a relationship with and what they are like - I've practically lived on easy mode when it comes to hook ups and relationships and so far 75% of women I've saw don't have their own shit sorted out. I am too busy to help them fix it if it's a relationship breaker. It's why my current girlfriend (who is really chill and independent) and I work together so well and have a great relationship, we are at the same level.
So yeah, you should put more focus on your standards rather than how easy it is for you to hook up with someone, it's more worthwile.
It’s because modern women are often complaining about being “victims” in society and yet they have tons of unchecked privileges including the one you acknowledged.
This is a major privilege you have by the way. Huge one. And you didn’t have to earn it either It was just given to you.
All I ask is you respect the position men are in here. When women ghost, flake, cheat, friéndzone and do other bs behavior they get away with it more than men do. Reason being they have as you admitted: more options. But there is a difference between using vs. abusing a privilege though.
That's a great question. The obvious answer would seem to be because them have to work harder to be successful getting sex no/or having relationships with women. I get so much pushback for saying this, but I honestly think that anything which results in more options or more favorable choices for women is a very positive thing. Just because I have to work harder to get what doesn't mean I won't benefit from that situation. Maybe if I have to work harder I'll appreciate her more.
I think it’s just angry, miserable, lonely people that makes a fuss and projecting it. Truth be told, both has options. No one is better if they have put genders down that badly to feel better when the opposite gender don’t want them and get obsessed about it.
A lots of guys have developed a scarcity mindset. Those guys focus on one woman, plot and plan sometimes for months, then finally approach. And get rejected. After that, those guys get depressed and start along the lines of "I'll never get a girlfriend."
This is often exacerbated by porn-induced illusions of how real women look and act.
If instead they realized that there are lots of decent women out there, and the vast majority are just not going to be interested, they would cast wide nets. Approach quickly and do not be upset when 90%+ reject. Just move on to the next potential one. A 10% success rate when you ask 50 women will be more hits than a 50% success rate when you ask 2.
I don't lol, every guy knows a women only has options until they reach their 30s, that's when it really gets interesting cause that's when those options start to slowly vanish and women get desperate, some earlier and some later, men will always have options cause we can go young or older, there's always young women as young as their 30s that will want older men, by good quantities too, for women everyone wants y'all til they don't, which happens as y'all age. 💀
I actually think it's kind of funny because it is true and the only reason why the guy gets upset is because he likes that girl but he's not willing to commit to that girl so that girl is going to use her other options and go do what she wants to do and that guy just does not like that he wants his cake and eat it too he wants her to wait for him I said bologna go do what you guys want to do if they don't want to commit that's on them not you
I never complain, as for options, I have more now then when I was younger, while most men age as a fine wine, getting better, some women like old milk. If you know a bunch of whiners, complaining to you, tells me, you like messing with weak men, or haven't found any real men who are confident, secure, and know how to get what they want
With both sides, some people learn to fall down, get up, dust themselves off and get back at it without getting all angry and depressed. Then you have those that get insecure over it all and then those that become bitter and angry.
I don't see it that way. We all have the same amount of options.
Some people (it's unrelated to gender) can see and use those opportunities when others are stuck with their insecurities...
I dont see you women doing any better at appreciating those "options."
if anything you women can be with all the guys in a room yet you all still want the one that has all the A+ in his genetic/financial report card. even when these guys are well above your leagues
Are we talking specifically about relationships and dating or other aspects of life? in my opinion, most people tend to discriminate based on someone's looks, ethnicity, or money.. I don't think it's a gender thing or that all women have it easier than men..
They do? That's a surprise to me. I don't think this is true to be honest. At least from MY personal experience. It may depend on age too, maybe. Younger people would obviously have more options than older people.
I WOULDN'T touch any woman with a ten foot pole until I get a true Long Count Blood Test on her, not just the one with the 10 worst STDs.
There's no telling how many STDs the average user on this website has.
I don't get it either. They literally have the choice to take away womens options by not being so easy but they choose to ignore that and continue on being desperate
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