Many men fail at relationships and become bitter, miserable people.
This is true. I am a relationship failure. Iâm bitter and a miserable people.
This is basically your answer to every question on here anymore.
I become the very thing I swore to destroy
Lol They take it too personal.
Being a woman is the best đ
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... and why would you get upset about me strolling into a bar with you and being able to pick up way more women than you? Just think about this shit... I'm simply more wanted than you. It's not your fault. I'm in demand and you're not.
I liked how you posed the question because... it's not like that for all the women. Imagine you were born Middle Eastern... Mom cut off your nose because you were such a slut not wearing your hijab until 9 years old... and you even tried to wear makeup... what a slut. Now dudes pass you over because they know you've been raped by the whole town.
That was like a joke right? Except that's the reality for some young woman while you trance around like you're hot shit.
You were born in the right place at the right time to be able to do that. You should be at least grateful for that.
Think about this... the reason men are complaining where they actually are complaining.
They mad because your options last for like 9 years... it's for the dogs. You're just dogg pilled.
@Tharithi if you saw either my naked muscles or @d_bone_steak's you'd be flicking your bean right there immediately. And no I'm not bald even after a few months of steroids on and off. At least the "paedo" and "baldie" I understood among your indian swear words.
And I really don't believe women have more dating "options". Women only have whatever they're born with and what makeup gives, which makes near every woman equal, unless they lose it being obese. I also dislike non white women, their appearance just isn't erectogenic. This means you're not "opting for" anything, you're following your fate. Whichever best man chooses to pump you.. But men truly have the option to be strong, or weak, men truly have the "choices" to opt for one path or another.
@d_bone_steak I suspect the question asker is a fĐ°ggot pretending to be a female.
Nobody is dumb enough to think that one of two groups have more choices when there is an equal amount of them. If there were 1.5 men for every 1 woman in the world then only could women have more strippers to pick.
@ButtFloggedTroll Tamil language which google detects, but doesn't seem to be able to translate for me... the bottom part of India, is where that language is spoken the most. I believe they have an extreme shortage of women. I'm guessing this guy is pretending to be a woman as well.
Confusing... because I'd think this dude would understand what I'm talking about since he's the one really suffering from a shortage of pussy. He's a pussy... because he pretends to be a girl and then when he wants to throw slurs, he does in in a veiled way by hiding behind a language most of the world, including google, has no concern in understanding. I bet even other Indians hate them.
@Tharithi Why you pretending to be a girl bruah? I wish I knew what you are saying so that I can guess if you're dealing with reaction formation or simply just lashing out at others for what you feel you yourself really are. I feel sorry for you bruah. We over here have all this wet pussy on our cocks so much that at times, it can be hard for us to understand someone like yourself that has a major vagina shortage.
But if you are a chick... you're only proving my point. You have no cock shortage whatsoever except for the shortage in terms of the men you have choice of in the pants. I doubt you're a chick though... a chick that speaks your language is in such demand that she wouldn't have time to fuck with a website like this.
They admitted in the first comment - dogs are too small for her
@ButtFloggedTroll Ah your right. Only horse dick for this dude then. He might even lick his lips for elephant dick... they have those in India I think.
Both men and women are jealous in my case. Once I was on a stranger chat website called chat blink. I posted my photo the girl got furious because I did not like her photos. Another case was such that I used to roam with this girl during breaks of the class. She went absent for 2 days straight. But I got someone else to roam with and on her return when she saw me with another girl she was upset and made faces on me. She liked me heavily. Maybe that was the reason. At a time I remember I distributed my phone number to over 15 odd girls straight and that too in a month. I touch them after first few minutes of talking they don't complain and continue to talk. Such was the charisma. I hardly think that good men will pay any heed to the question asked apart from clearing the misconception the question carries. Coz one believes that having options doesn't mean glory. Utilising them means it. Friends around me joined gym and wasted themselves with so called gains while I grabbed so many Butts during that time. Bcoz they lacked confidence. No matter how you appear. Did you even grab one? Did you even try to enter the battlefield? Did you said anything? OK if you didn't say. And regret. Don't do this to you. Go and say it. Rest is upto God and nature to handle. If you don't regret saying it you are genius.
u We are not ALL complaining about this.
I have never complained about that nonsense because I know that a sour attitude won't attract a sweet woman. Besides, there are differences between men and women, it's nobody's fault, just accept it and deal with what you've got to deal with. Be a man, not a whiney little bitch!
I'm not the only guy with a decent head on his shoulders, so please don't overgeneralize. Your comments need to be directed to the MFTOCEM (Men Fixin' Their Own Coffee Every Morning) crowd!
My thoughts exactly. 'nuff said...
The whole "easy" or "not easy" discussion is just bullshit and somewhat dodges the question of who it is you should get a relationship with and what they are like - I've practically lived on easy mode when it comes to hook ups and relationships and so far 75% of women I've saw don't have their own shit sorted out. I am too busy to help them fix it if it's a relationship breaker. It's why my current girlfriend (who is really chill and independent) and I work together so well and have a great relationship, we are at the same level.
So yeah, you should put more focus on your standards rather than how easy it is for you to hook up with someone, it's more worthwile.
Itâs because modern women are often complaining about being âvictimsâ in society and yet they have tons of unchecked privileges including the one you acknowledged.
This is a major privilege you have by the way. Huge one. And you didnât have to earn it either It was just given to you.
All I ask is you respect the position men are in here. When women ghost, flake, cheat, friéndzone and do other bs behavior they get away with it more than men do. Reason being they have as you admitted: more options. But there is a difference between using vs. abusing a privilege though.
... I guess that depends upon your age. Women become easier with age while men become harder.
Men also don't really need women but for a short time which is why the guys most practiced and appealing and thus most likely to get their attention are almost certainly going to screw them over. Hence women's complaint with with men.
The truth is as humans male and female we simply didn't evolve for communities of more than about 500 people where everyone knew everyone.
The modern information age which gives us a highly inaccurate picture of ourselves and the mate market is what has everyone messed up. Naturally for different reasons for the different ways each sex dates.
Your really need to understand game theory to deal with the modern environment and that's genus level stuff beyond most of us.
That's a great question. The obvious answer would seem to be because them have to work harder to be successful getting sex no/or having relationships with women. I get so much pushback for saying this, but I honestly think that anything which results in more options or more favorable choices for women is a very positive thing. Just because I have to work harder to get what doesn't mean I won't benefit from that situation. Maybe if I have to work harder I'll appreciate her more.
I think itâs just angry, miserable, lonely people that makes a fuss and projecting it. Truth be told, both has options. No one is better if they have put genders down that badly to feel better when the opposite gender donât want them and get obsessed about it.
If you wanna roll your life thinking that way, be my guess. I just donât think itâs nice just because someone is having more success than you are. I like celebrating people wins and not be gloomy about it just because Iâm not making progress. Iâd use it as an inspiration to continue to strive for better and be a better person in all levels. At the end of the day, a reflection of who we are is how we treat and think of others. Wish you the best sir.
Uh I canât exactly improve my height or dick size neither of that is changeableâŠeven the amount of hair I have is largely unchangeable. I donât mind women having preferences but they canât get mad if they are getting rejected for being fat since almost all of them can lose weight.
A lots of guys have developed a scarcity mindset. Those guys focus on one woman, plot and plan sometimes for months, then finally approach. And get rejected. After that, those guys get depressed and start along the lines of "I'll never get a girlfriend."
This is often exacerbated by porn-induced illusions of how real women look and act.
If instead they realized that there are lots of decent women out there, and the vast majority are just not going to be interested, they would cast wide nets. Approach quickly and do not be upset when 90%+ reject. Just move on to the next potential one. A 10% success rate when you ask 50 women will be more hits than a 50% success rate when you ask 2.
I don't lol, every guy knows a women only has options until they reach their 30s, that's when it really gets interesting cause that's when those options start to slowly vanish and women get desperate, some earlier and some later, men will always have options cause we can go young or older, there's always young women as young as their 30s that will want older men, by good quantities too, for women everyone wants y'all til they don't, which happens as y'all age. 💀
As young as their 20s*
Unless the 30+ women aren't taking care of themselves at all or have gained a significant amount of weight, I haven't seen them have difficulty getting sex (or relationships), like at all... maybe the young dudes aren't into them anymore, but any man in his 30s and 40s will go after a good looking woman in her 30s if given the option. She's also a more logical choice for a long term partner compared with the 22 year old barista who hasn't graduated yet and likes to party all night and has a lot of male 'friends' (read ex-FWBs and ex-bfs).
I think it's really in their 40s and 50s where the options start to look less appealing for women and this is primarily because everyone in those age brackets are either in LTR or divorced with kids (so with a lot of baggage).
Not anymore, older men can get younger women, maybe during the previous generation it was like that but that seems to be changing
Well what can I say, homie needs a better personality, money does a lot but it doesn't work miracles now đ
It will most likely get his dick wet tho, some women's worth is as worthless as money but maybe he's tired of gold digging hoes and he decided to do some chasing cause he knows good women require a chase lol
I actually think it's kind of funny because it is true and the only reason why the guy gets upset is because he likes that girl but he's not willing to commit to that girl so that girl is going to use her other options and go do what she wants to do and that guy just does not like that he wants his cake and eat it too he wants her to wait for him I said bologna go do what you guys want to do if they don't want to commit that's on them not you
I never complain, as for options, I have more now then when I was younger, while most men age as a fine wine, getting better, some women like old milk. If you know a bunch of whiners, complaining to you, tells me, you like messing with weak men, or haven't found any real men who are confident, secure, and know how to get what they want
m With both sides, some people learn to fall down, get up, dust themselves off and get back at it without getting all angry and depressed. Then you have those that get insecure over it all and then those that become bitter and angry.
I don't see it that way. We all have the same amount of options.
Some people (it's unrelated to gender) can see and use those opportunities when others are stuck with their insecurities...
I dont see you women doing any better at appreciating those "options."
if anything you women can be with all the guys in a room yet you all still want the one that has all the A+ in his genetic/financial report card. even when these guys are well above your leagues
@Malwi93 neither can I, you have no idea how much I want this chick right here
yet I obviously can't have her because I highly doubt she would be into me for the fact that women dont just want any dick available in the genepool (you should be thankful that we men in the other hand are happy with having any pussy available). also I'm not sure if I want to be with a chick that posts these types of pictures online cause I dont want to be heartbroken later on and complain how all women are trash for not thinking what I was putting myself into
@wolfcat87 exactly! and a lot of times we are less picky because we have no choice. not only are we program to spread our seeds at any given moment but unfortunately we live in a culture that discourages men to have vaules while encouraging women to have unrealistic expectations hence why so many men dont even bother trying nowadays
Are we talking specifically about relationships and dating or other aspects of life? in my opinion, most people tend to discriminate based on someone's looks, ethnicity, or money.. I don't think it's a gender thing or that all women have it easier than men..
I donât get upset , I just know not to be one of her options just like I wouldnât make her one of my options because we all have options , but I will not commit to a girl that doesnât make me her priority the same way I make her mine period
They do? That's a surprise to me. I don't think this is true to be honest. At least from MY personal experience. It may depend on age too, maybe. Younger people would obviously have more options than older people.
I don't get it either. They literally have the choice to take away womens options by not being so easy but they choose to ignore that and continue on being desperate
There is always long que outside public toilets đ
What's your charges?
Oh i thought you're escort
Sorry
One man not being easy just means he won't get into any relationships. Asking an entire gender to not be easy is more coordination than anyone could feasibly muster
@Infinity_Soup women get shamed for being easy. So should men
@Apple1996 if that's what you want. I'm just saying that's the system we're born in. Women are just more selective than men in general. Because they're more selective, men have to cast a wider net to score any relationships.
I agree that if all men weren't easy the world would probably be a better place though lol
@JHAYES317 easy in the way y'all just give into sex
@JHAYES317 that is good you have standards like that. Many men don't lol
Women have more sex options. Men have more relationship options. It's just that neither is the options anyone wants - which is why we have them.
I WOULDN'T touch any woman with a ten foot pole until I get a true Long Count Blood Test on her, not just the one with the 10 worst STDs.
There's no telling how many STDs the average user on this website has.
I know smh. It's impossible to run game as a fuccboi at my college. I go up and SWEAR I'm not 1 but then some cute chick just tilts her head over and puts on a really cute face and no matter how hard I try to ignore it I can't. It's impossible. Look right into it and it's like the air goes out of me, jaw just drops down and hangs uggh😫
I don't. It's all good, it's part of the game.
But why do women get salty when men date younger? They try and cut you down, shame you, and try and rob you of your power. Not cool.
Well I would imagine it's depressing to not have options.
Itâs because most her options arenât options for a relationship there just options for sex and guys donât trust that. However if she is faithful and puts the relationship first then who cares. Itâs only unfaithful women men complain about. Women that want to build something long term and are willing to let those options go are more likely to be wifeâs in my opinion
I'm not. If I were a woman or a transgirl, I too would enjoy being loved that easily.
I got over it by making peace with what seems to be inevitable anyway.
You're living in different world ma'am..
Trust me women are easy to get there are many options available for men you can throw few dollars she will remove her bra..
I think you're referring simps
I think the issue is probably with just how many more options women have.
I couldn't give a flying fuck if women have wore options than men. Women are young to be miserable with or without these options they don't even deserve
I am annoyed too. They get jealous about sex workers. Itâs ridiculous
Weak men fail when they jealousy, anxiety, takes over and they start to control, complain and blame others for their own mistakes. Also, failure to make a woman feel safe and comfortable
You're alluding to incels, dearie. They are barely men.
I'm not complaining at all I love it. Cause all they do is prove that I may not be the only option but I'm the best option and when they come crawling back I show them their not my only option either. Women out number guys 3 to 1
Like I said women outnumber men 3 to 1 so just like we make not be their only option you can rest assured men have a lot more options especially now a day cause women arre just giving it away
I genuinely donât care lol. So you have more options then me so? Doesnât affect me any.
Having a million options is pretty pointless if you canât pick one.
Why are you asking " Why do men.." questions on GAG everyday with a lot of whining?🤣
Sounds like someone's a triggered coping Femcel 😂
That's basically ever Femcel lmao
Ok so you complaining to men about men complaining to women where does this vicious cycle end
They don't. Men don't give a shit about women at all. You're thinking about boys or Transwomen
Why do women get upset about having to share Chad's?
What do you mean women have more options explain
u @wolfcat87 true
I don't get upset, It's just annoying when women complain about how trash men are when you guys can get any guy you want. Just pick better men.
If every relationship you've ever been in has ended horribly, you have shit judgement and to some degree you have to take some accountability. Same goes for men.
Four billion men in the world and you can't find a decent guy, despite having more options like you've already acknowledged... you have no excuse to be struggling.
Thought you were the asker. But my point still stands.
Yeah I agree. I do have shit judgement about the people I just met and I donât try to understand them better until itâs too late. I also may not be easy to get along with.
Men made moves. Some were way too old, some were just looking for a sex partner, some didnât have any integrityâŠ
What do you suggest? Where to find the better men?
Wouldn't that mean women have less options, if their standards are higher
Eh. That's just the loser men, the rest of us don't care about this shit.
Not complaining, but look at it from a menâs perspective and youâll understand why
Some weird ones do lol...
Jealousy.
Why do you care?
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