Guys: Are there ACTUALLY still good single women out there?

[MCheetah]

Kinda in a bad mood today. The world sucks and all I ever wanted was someone to watch the Titanic sink with me.

Yes, there are still good single women out there, but 99% of them are dirt-poor and live in third-world countries like Latvia, Croatia, or Yemen.

Yes, there are still a decent number of good, single, heterosexual, monogamous ladylike women out there (even in first-world Western countries!)

No; all the good women are taken or married by now, only leaving the feminists, polyamorous, bisexuals, queer, trans, woke, "non-binary" and other trashy females left out there.

No, all the good women are taken by now, but there are still plenty of narcissitic, entitled awful women out there who think they're "good" because of their own Jupiter-sized egos.

Other: No one is actually good; everyone sucks.

Other: Some alternative explanation.

[Reaper1985]

most of the good people tend to get taken by other good people early on in life. but many end up dating several bad or mediocre people. which causes them to lose hope or interest over time that they will ever find a good one themselves. so the either stay single or continue playing the hookup dating game for while they still can.

most modern western women are entitled feminists and/or sluts. who are career focused and/or likely have a few kids with several guys by the time their 40. while most modern eastern women are not much better because many are seeking a sugar daddy.

[MCheetah]

Yep. I'm an American living in South Korea. Western women are f*cking HORRIBLE for the most part, and Eastern women (particularly Asian) are boring AF and gold diggers. At best, they'd be trophy wives and I don't say this with pleasure. Between the two parts of the world, finding a decent Western woman or a non-materialistic Asian woman, is damn near impossible.

[ShadezMcgee]

There are, but Sturgeon's Law comes into play. You can't find the unicorn without dealing with some harpies.

[MCheetah]

I've dealt with too many Amber Heard-like succubi to keep faith up. I don't need a unicorn; I'd be perfectly fine with a stallion who just doesn't fart too much.

[ShadezMcgee]

Understandable, man. I get it. I went through a fair amount of harpies before I found my woman. Takes forever to find them and makes it feel hopeless with how many you run into.

[UnknownGagsUser]

Yep cause there are billions of people on earth there must be some good ones out there and you just haven't met or not lucky enough 😁

[Daniela1982]

Sure there are. I guess it just depends on your definition of "good"

OMG, is that Kristen Stewart in B?

[lightbulb27]

Can't help but notice the boxes checked...
Single female, traditional
Conservative oriented
comparable age
probable auburn/red hair, light complexion, medium build
Comparable humor style
Comparable intelligence and communication
hellooooo...

[hahahmm]

It's like this... the best women are taken or only interested in the best men. And When I say 'best'.. I don't mean all of the shallow stuff we can name. I mean if you don't have the characteristics considered upper level then the odds of you getting the best go down. Let's say best is level 10. You might still be able to get a level 8-9 woman. And No I'm not even thinking of the visual point scale here. I'm talking about character. But you'd be wise to make yourself a level 8-9 first.

You also have to look in the right place. If you look in the wrong place you can only find her by random chance which is a lot harder and takes more time. It's not impossible just don't hold your breath is all I'm saying. As I've said before: I don't regret all of the women I rejected who looked great but didn't have the character I wanted. I wasn't anywhere near high level character-wise myself but I didn't know any better at the time. I got better tho.

[lightbulb27]

yes there are. I know one just married, had baby. I've met others of traditional values. they are all over, they are on this site.

I asked wise Chinese man cost of his wisdom: he said, $1! deal!
I said, I don't like result I get with woman, what can I do?
He said: "You must change!".
I said.. but I want one now...
"That cost $2!". ... I say ok and hand over the $2.
"You must change... fast!"
I said, this sounding exponential?
He said..."you wise now, no longer need help!"

[lightbulb27]

Refined version:
I asked wise Chinese man cost of his wisdom: he said, $1! deal!
I said, I don't like result I get with woman, what can I do?
He said: "Man go fishing long time, many fish in pond, not catch for long time. He must change! You must change!".
I said.. but I want one now...
"Refine answer, that cost $2!". ... I say ok...
He look at me intently and lean forward..."You must change... quickly!"
I said, but how... this sounding exponential?
He said..."You wise man. That how change works... little change lead to big change! no longer need help!" I pay him $3 dolla.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The answer to this really depends on a person's age, location, and what they think a good woman is.

It will vary from city to city, and for a picky nerd like myself, what I consider a good match is indeed seemingly rare in most places, but thats ok, I only need 1 after all.

The issue is not their numbers though, it's that meeting them is left to chance, and it would be better if there was an easier way to find those who are relatable to one's self after reaching adulthood, since twe no longer go to school with tons of peers our age, and thus finding relatable people in our age group usually feels impossible.

[MCheetah]

Option B implies what I mean by a good woman: Straight, monogamous (not a whore), ladylike/classy, not woke, not trashy, and has respect for her man, herself, and others.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats fairly common in most places, but for me that alone is not good enough.

[MCheetah]

Where TF do you live where that's common? I lived in Philly, where every female was either Kathy Griffin, Amber Heard, or Zoe Quinn. Not even a Jennifer Aniston or Hillary Swank there; they were all absolutely sh*tty women. And Korea, where I live now, doesn't count, as Korean women are extremely entitled and most of them honestly, are gold diggers and boring AF. I wouldn't want a Korean trophy wife, even if I was a white guy.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Every US state I've lived in it's been common, I think we may have different ideas about what is trashy or classy though. As well as whats considered respectful and who deserves it, so I'll go down the line.

Monogamy is the norm, 90% - 99% of all women in the united states prefer monogamy, depending on where you are, and out of those, about 90% are straight.

Ladylike I define as feminine looking, if you are refering to bahavior however, I can't stand pompous, overly mannered, uppety, prudish, self absorbed people (ie royal/noble additude). I do not ever want to date that, and I'm glad it's rare, but feminine looking women is common. When it comes to behavior, I prefer silly, lewd, no conventional manners, but smart, sweet and kind and bubbly, someone who thinks outside the box.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Classy isn't something I think about, so I googled it:
Classy:
"Highly stylish; elegant.
having elegance or taste or refinement in manners or dress. Opposite of styleless.
exhibiting refinement and high character. Opposite of low-class"

The number of women who doll themselves up is much higher then those who don't, to the point where most women are so fake that you have no clue what they actually look like. If you ask me, outside of cosplay models, which, are at least artistic about it and actually have a good sense of style with both makeup and clothing, there is too much classy behavior. Too many women trying to ride the "look at me I'm perfect but its fake" train.

"Woke" people are rare anywhere, that is a very small group of low intelligence people being very loud online, most women even hate feminists and think its just man hating trash.

In regards to respect for a man, respect is earned, and the only people who respect you are people who agree with you, so if you are having trouble finding that, its because you can't find people who agree with you on most topics.

But here is the thing, I can't find that either, but I still see lots of women respecting their bfs/husbands, even if those men are arguably idiots or have bad chatacter, because their wives are just like them mentally. So respect is common, but for both genders, intelligence high enough to understand basic logic is not, and smart people are the least respected in society, and the most taken advantage of, if you want lots of people to respect you, be an idiot who follows societal norms instead of thinking for themselves.

Most people respect themselves even if they are dumb, insecurity is rarer than blind self importance.

In regards to not trashy: that can mean a lot of things, for me being monogamous and loyal means not trashy. Most people want real love and stick to partners, but have a hard time finding one they like. I don't consider lewd clothing or dirty talk trashy.

[scott04sa22]

Dating is getting more and more brutal nowadays. Everybody wants friends with benefits, ONS, money, sport cars and higher status. The bbw and ssbbw wants more romantic guys and foods always Constant flowing on the table and money too. Don’t go after single moms because there the worst. You can make friends right? Just start making female friends but don’t go romantic on them.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I think there is good people out there, I think some people over look certain people because of close minded thinking or high expectations. I found someone special years after hopping from girl to girl , it takes time and luck

[exitseven]

I went to a wedding a couple of years ago and met many young people there both male and female. I was surprised a little at how many intelligent and well adjusted young people that were there.

[InsertNameHerex]

Of course there is. I used to think there were no “good” men out there, and now I found a good one. I mean if you really think about it there’s 8 billion people, there’s no way they just don’t exist.

[JustiReno]

Yes, you gotta make yourself a good person maybe you’ll attract good people. You could meet someone at an airport or cafe that could change your life.

[Ksjdjfe]

If I’m honest. There’s hardly any. To the point where it’s not worth looking for

[Fuentes]

They're out there but im focused on stacking money im not looking for love could care less if it don't make me money.

[theblacksheepcat]

yes we’re just ugly fat or unconventional so we’re used and overlooked

[MCheetah]

There are PLENTY of "ugly, fat, or unconventional" women on OnlyFans, if not most of them. So that's hardly a factor for being a single female as most men ain't picky.

[theblacksheepcat]

I've seen different somewhat during my walk in life. most men I've meant only want a fair skinned skinny 10 so I don't know

[theblacksheepcat]

i dont have a only fans so i wouldn’t know but i hear whar you’re saying

[Sixgunsound]

Unconventional outcasts are my tribe.

[StevieNix]

There are about five left.

[JesseJayNeak]

I’ll tell you when I found one… again

[Berethor]

My vote goes for C.