Why do so many women treat most men horribly or cruelly, and then act surprised when these men stop trusting women, become redpilled, or go MGTOW?

[MCheetah]

I see this so often on GAG. While I'm not here to play "who treats who worse" among the genders, I see so many women treat men literally like they're disposable, think of them as inferior for being short, and assume all unattractive men are either "incels, unwashed losers, or creeps" on the level of pe dos.

One post literally had most of the women on there say that men who didn't kiss their ass and serve them were "disposable." Only one woman on there wasn't like this.

So after these women treat men with complete and utter disregard and act like the "strong independent queens" they think they are, they THEN get mad when these men slowly start to become redpilled, stop trusting women, and either go MGTOW or go full-on incel against them.

They legit act surprised by this when they spent their whole lives treating most men as worthless if they don't "provide" resources to her.

It's like, YOU'RE the one mostly creating the problem! Then getting mad about it! What do you expect? Men that you abused, to just "be cool with it?" Why would they continue to kiss women's asses after you admitted they're "worthless" as men due to their lack of height, looks, social status, or wealth. I don't condone incel comments, but at the same time, I don't blame them, either!

Only a handful of modern women actually treat men with any kind of basic decency or kindness, while most men totally simp out to even the worst women out there. It's how we get stuff like the Amber Heard trial and all those women supporting her, just because it means being able to keep their own power over innocent men.

I do appreciate the good women out there, like @starlight007, @Lucy68, @JosyJosy, @Ms_Facesitter, and a few others, but they seem to be the exception, not the rule.

So again, why do so many women treat most men like absolute sh*t, then act surprised when MGTOW, red pillers, incels, MRA's, etc, become a thing?

Are men just supposed to "sit there and take it?" What else would one expect?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Thanks for the mention, it's nice to see you view me as 'one of the good'. I hope in time that mention list becomes longer and longer so we Become the norm. I saw a question today that asking why most men are pigs. Of course it's an anonymous calling the other gender pigs. If they phrase it like that they're just starting a war instead of a discussion. I'm willing to bet she isn't reacting to whatever the guys are going to say to that question. I think she has been in contact with mostly bad men. I think you may have been in the same boat, dealing with just bad people and then it is understandable to view us as an exception to the rule.
I had that with religion growing up. Muslims. I am close to a muslim and thank god for that because I grew up only hearing about them being angry and blowing themselves up so if it wasn't for her, I would probably think that most muslims have evil intent.
That's why I invite you and that anonymous girl to be open to discuss differences about your beliefs. I say this because I see you like the opinions of those who agree, but not the opinions of for example JustinTheGreat or Nads111. Despite them not agreeing with what you are saying, I think they can still be valuable and can offer great discussion and views with us to learn from. By being open to that, I believe that honorable mention list will get longer in no time.

[Starlight007]

You have a point!, Most men treat me horribly even and I figured that one of the reasons why this is happening is because they have been done dirty by women and they low-key assume that I am going to do the same thing to them.

I am not actively trying to pursue a relationship with any guy right now but back when I was, I was treaded really badly by a lot of the guys that I spoke to!, and I'm not talking about rejection, I'm 100 percent okay with getting rejected, its a normal part of life.

I'm talking about being insulted!, not taken seriously, being viewed and treated as just a sexual object and not a human being. That experience made me resent men, but turning to my Christian faith helped me to not become resentful but empathetic and compassionate, I know men go through and have been through a lot because of some women so I understand.

I'm not trying to brag by saying this, I am only trying to substantiate your point, but literally half the guys I have spoken to in my life always compliment me on being kind to them, and this is alarming because it shows that men aren't used to being treated kindly by women. Which is disheartening and heartbreaking, I am sorry to any guy who has been hurt by a woman.

[Starlight007]

And thank you for the compliment by the way! 😊

[MCheetah]

I'm sorry that happened to you. Yeah, a lot of guys who end up that way have been done VERY dirty by women, but it's only "bad" when a man is being mean. And you're right, it' VERY rare for women (or hell, anyone) to be kind, nowadays. I used to be kind a long time ago; that just makes you out to be an actual victim, where I'm from.

I kinda wish this "war against men" the mainstream media is perpetrating would come to an end.

[Starlight007]

Agreed, I too hope it ends, but if the war against men ends they'll be a war against something else, I think this world and how it functions is past the point of no return, we are going to keep fighting each other as human beings!.

But there is a light at the end of the tunnel, there are still some genuinely kind and peaceful souls out here that you can hang around with to sooth your soul from this headache of a world but finding them is not always easy. But anyways though thanks again!

[whirled_up_girl]

I don’t have a good answer for that. I’ve never treated any of my boyfriends horribly or really any man horribly. I’m not surprised men for being redpilled or choose MGTOW if they were treated badly by women but I won’t take responsibility for someone else’s actions just as I don’t think women should hold every man responsible for actions of men that treated them badly. That seems to be what happens though when people get bitter at the opposite gender, the lump every in that gender together so men and women who good and honorable get blamed because of the ones that are bad news.

[Blackcosmo]

They believe they can do whatever they want but when you do it back it's only you who's wrong. They're snobs and really immature.

[RealMarek]

Because Western civilization is in catastrophic collapse. It probably felt the same way for the Romans in 500 AD.

[worldscolide]

You can blame their mothers and modern feminism for this. And trust me here, you're preaching to the choir.

[Nads111]

Some people are just bad, it doesn't have anything to do with gender.

[JustinTheGreat]

You could say the exact same thing about men tbh. It goes both ways